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THE PROPER WAY TO APOLOGIZE

Don’t say, “I’m sorry this offended you”. Instead say, “I’m sorry I was offensive.”

Don’t say, “I didn’t mean to hurt you.” Instead say, “I didn’t mean to hurt you, but intent means nothing because the damage is already done.”

Don’t say, “It was just a joke.” Instead sat, “Some things should not be joked about.”

Don’t say, “I wouldn’t try to hurt anyone like that.” Instead say, “I realize I hurt people with my words, and I’m sorry.”

Don’t say, “I‘ll remove the joke if it bothers you so much.” (if posted online) Instead say, “Yes, I said this, and it was wrong, and now I know not to say things like this again.”

Don’t say, “Well other people weren’t bothered by it.” Instead say, “Well some people weren’t bothered by it, but others were, and their concerns are just as valid and worthy of consideration.”

Stop accepting passive apologies that do not show the offensive party actively taking responsibility for their mistakes.

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The top 100 fashion infographics of 2014 - Women’s Edition (Click here for the Men’s Edition):

01. How many times can you wear it between washes? 02. Wardrobe color guide 03. A visual coat glossary 04. A guide to skirts 05. Visual shoe dictionary 06. Neckline types 07. A visual dictionary of tops 08. How to choose the right bra type 09. A visual glossary of puffy sleeve types 10. A cheat sheet to highlighting and contouring 11. Plaid cheat sheet 12. Lashings of eyeliner - a visual glossary 13. A visual glossary of women’s jackets 14. A visual dictionary of boots 15. How to mix prints 16. The ultimate eyeliner fashion vocabulary 17. A visual glossary of brassiere types 18. Women’s hairstyles of the Byzantine Empire 19. A visual glossary of lingerie 20. How to tuck non-skinny jeans into boots 21. A visual glossary of underwear 22. Layering in the Edwardian Era 23. The ultimate dress shape vocabulary 24. Laundry symbols 101 25. The ultimate shoes fashion vocabulary (Part 1) 26. A visual dictionary of skirt silhouettes 27. How to line and curl at the same time 28. Dress codes 101 29. How to weed out your closet 30. The ultimate pattern fashion vocabulary (Part 1) 31. The right LBD for your body type 32. How to wear a button up 33. Laundry stain cheat sheet 34. The ultimate hats fashion vocabulary 35. A visual glossary of veil lengths 36. How to wear jeans 37. Lacing patterns for athletic shoes 38. How to choose the color that looks best on you 39. Everything you need to know about bra-fitting 40. How to accessorize your neckline 41. How to wear a trench 42. How to bang braid 43. The ultimate pattern fashion vocabulary (Part 2) 44. A visual glossary of dress shapes 45. Packing guide to get the most out of your luggage space 46. The ultimate shoes fashion vocabulary (Part 2) 47. Dressing like Nancy Drew 48. How to tie the long scarf: The Allure 49. Sleeves and neckline glossary 50. A visual glossary of wedding gown silhouettes 51. How to: The waterfall braid 52. The 5 piece French wardrobe: Basics list 53. How to accessorize popular necklines 54. 50 wardrobe essentials 55. How to say it fashionably… 56. Your guide to hairbrushes 57. A visual guide to bra types 58. Encyclopedia of women’s shoes 59. A visual glossary of chain types 60. How to line a crew neck with Gavroche (pocket square scarf) 61. Tips for perfect eyebrows 62. DIY nails: Faded French 63. A starter’s guide to dressing up 64. A guide to lingerie 65. 10 ways to wear black leggings 66. A visual glossary of women’s jackets and coats 67. A visual glossary of pleats 68. Ways to wear your tee 69. How to find your undertone 70. Eye make-up inspiration from Marilyn Monroe 71. How to wear a scarf 72. How to find the right glasses for your face shape 73. Renaissance Europe hairstyles 74. Eyeglass frame types 75. Vintage fashion: How hats and hairlines alter contours 76. Translating tricky dress codes 77. DIY eyebrow threading 78. How to perfectly match your dress and bra 79. Scarf knot tutorial 80. All about makeup brushes 81. How to dress for a job interview 82. Every dress worn by Best Actress Academy Award winners 83. The 7 types of underwear and when to wear them 84. Basic guide to beads 85. How to shape your eyebrows 86. Eye makeup brush cheat sheet 87. A visual glossary of vintage hats 88. Carry-on travel checklist 89. How to pack your backpack when going camping 90. Which haircut suits your face shape 91. A visual glossary of collar types 92. How to tie the bowtie scarf knot 93. Hair length chart 94. Face contouring 101 95. Super cute bun in 3 minutes 96. Hairstyles of the classic Hollywood Era 97. Best dresses for your body type 98. How to choose color for your complexion 99. Iconic but unusual wedding dresses 100. 24-piece year round wardrobe

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Now THAT’S how you make a waterside.

i’m highly attracted to someone who has been through things in life. i don’t want someone who is always rainbows and butterflies. is it strange that i am comforted by the darkness in someone?

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omg this is so funny and cute

I did a thing.

Thank you for doing this thing.

being shy and having resting bitch face is the worst combination because i look like a disinterested bitch but in reality i really want to socialize but i just dont know how to initiate conversation with strangers and also this is just my face

Ok like I’m here for the whole “if it doesn’t make you happy, don’t do it” movement but like, be smart, yeah? Don’t just quit your job out of the blue, even if it is soul sucking, get another job first. Don’t just kick your roommate out because you aren’t getting along, talk to them first. And don’t say absolutely everything that pops into your mind, because discretion will save your ass on occasion. I’m not saying you can’t live authentically, but be smart.