One time I was explaining to my dad how unfair it is that every big city has at least a couple gay bars but there are only like 20ish lesbian bars left in the country and he responded with "That's cause gay men have a good party culture. Lesbians don't have time to party, they're too busy debating the sociological implications of things and studying for postgrad degrees" and as much as I wanted to tell him he was out of line for that, as a lesbian who spends all her free time on Tumblr debating sociological implications and messaging other lesbians in discord servers where everyone has a PhD or masters for some reason I felt like I might not be the best person to make that argument
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#but on a serious level: its the wage gap#which gets worse when you factor in stats on sexuality ans employment rates#it's also worth pointing out most of these gay clubs are....i wont say segregated but yeah a lot of big cities have segregated night life#so frequently the well known/supported clubs and legacy clubs are those that sre managed by white cis gay men