a realization just hit me like a ton of bricks so hear me out
(i’m copying this from my twitter where i do the bulk of my thought-sounding-outs)
rey basically fucked up. i don’t mean that in the sense of “she should have taken his hand”, but she should absolutely not have approached this from the angle that she did (even though it’s not her fault, and i’m not blaming her for it–i’m speaking purely from a ben solo redemption angle).
i think i myself was aware of this when rey said something like “he’s our last hope for the resistance”, because at that moment i briefly thought, “rey, he is NOT going to work for the resistance so quickly.” but i let it slide because as an audience member i was rooting for the resistance anyway, and if he does turn towards rey, that’s still a point for the resistance, right? well, it turns out my previous thought was right, because when rey mentioned the resistance after the praetorian guard fight, that’s when it all went to shit.