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things i do at night to prevent anxious thoughts

If you’re anything like me then thoughts probably pop up in your mind that leads you to think about thousands of other things and that possibly leads to an anxiety attack. I’ve been trying to get my life in order and I used to have anxiety attacks every night. So I thought I’d share what I do at night after my nightly routine to make sure I’m ok and can go to sleep with no worries. Everything I mention might not be for everyone and that’s ok. If you find something that works for you continue to do it! This is just what I do to make sure I don’t have an attack.

  • checking in with my current emotionsI do this every night (and day) just to keep track of how I was feeling and why, but this works the best at night if I’m feeling a bit anxious. I can go back to see why I felt that way and keep it in mind for next time. I do this with an app called Pacifica. On there, you can do other things like journalling, create a hope board, track your health, etc. but I only use it for moods and health. 
  • listen to calming music – My calming music is the Peaceful Piano on Spotify. I think it’s best to listen to music that have no words that can trigger emotions (don’t get me wrong beats can trigger emotions as well but the music will become white noise. I’ll explain soon)
  • putting my phone on do not disturb – After putting my music on, I let everyone who I talked to before bed know that I won’t be near my phone and it’s on dnd. It’s best for me to not get distracted because once I go on my phone to check something, I end up checking social media and end up thinking “why am I’m laying here while everyone else is doing something with their life?” So dnd it is!
  • distracting my mind  For me, I distract my mind with a crossword puzzle. I’m so focused on finding words that my mind doesn’t have time to think about all my worries. You can distract your mind however you see fit - a coloring book, reading book, etc. As I work on my crossword puzzle, the music playing in the background turns into white noise.
  • getting ready to drift to sleep – As I’m distracting my mind I tend to get sleepy pretty fast. So I put it away, lie down, and drift off to sleep! 

Try to not let your thoughts consume you. I know it’s hard but I know we can get through 💕

Had to reblog so I can get back to this routine 😩

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4theitgirls
the it girl’s spring cleaning

phone reset

  • delete old contacts and messages
  • go through social media following
  • delete unused apps
  • go through photos
  • set a new wallpaper
  • add widgets for reminders, weather, battery, etc.
  • delete old songs and add new ones

environmental reset

  • clean your bedroom (vacuum, dust, put clothes away, etc.)
  • sort through and donate old clothes
  • organize your makeup, skincare, etc.
  • wash or change your bedsheets
  • rearrange your bedroom
  • open your windows and curtains to let fresh air in
  • get outdoors
  • clean your home with fresh scented products (lemon, lavender, etc.)

physical reset

  • try a new workout routine
  • get some new outfits
  • do a face mask
  • exfoliate and shave
  • oil your hair or do a hair mask
  • try a new hair color, cut, or style
  • do your nails or get your nails done
  • get some fresh makeup and try a new makeup routine
  • do a lip mask and scrub

mental reset

  • start journaling or try some new prompts
  • do a refreshing meditation
  • try a new yoga practice or workout
  • read instead of scrolling
  • put a time limit on your phone usage
  • reset your sleep schedule
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malusokay

Learning to love yourself 𝜗𝜚˚⋆

  • Celebrate yourself. Every accomplishment deserves to be acknowledged, no matter how big or small. Stop putting yourself down by thinking that you don't deserve to celebrate your achievements just because others have accomplished "greater things." Also, there is so much fun in hyping small wins; call your girlfriend, bake a cake, and enjoy yourself!!
  • Invest time in things that you love. Doing what makes you happy is essential for your mental health. It's so important to pursue one's small and simple pleasures without the intention of turning them into profit!!
  • Boundaries and relationships. Learn to say no, define and set boundaries, question your current relationships and friendships, and distance yourself from people who make you feel unloved or worthless.
  • Allow yourself to grow. Let go of the notion that you are undeserving of growth. Acknowledge the past for what it is, learn from it, and grow from it.
  • Refelct. Getting to know yourself deeply is key to self-love; journaling is a great way to reflect. Ask yourself questions, question your habits, observe how you respond in certain situations, etc...
  • Trust yourself and your intuition. Listen to yourself, and don't dismiss the small cues that your inner voice gives you!!
  • Care for yourself. It is not selfish to look after yourself. Start exercising, eat balanced and healthy, stay hydrated, educate yourself, read complex literature, consume media mindfully, prioritise your sleep and routines, care for your skin and hair...
  • Be patient. Self-love takes time; you must slowly unpack and unlearn past habits, confront uncomfortable thoughts and memories, and gain a deep understanding of yourself. Give yourself time and approach this as a journey to enjoy. <3

You guys ALWAYS ask about self-love and confidence, sooo I hope this can be a little helpful to some of you and as always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and tips in the comments!! ♡

love ya ・:*₊‧౨ৎ

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malusokay

Morning affirmations

  • I radiate love, positivity and good energy; that's why I attract amazing people and great opportunities.
  • I believe in myself and my abilities.
  • I love showing up as the highest and best version of myself, radiating confidence, and always being more than enough.
  • I am well-rested and full of energy; I have everything I need to make today a beautiful and memorable day.
  • I never chase; everything I desire comes to me naturally.
  • Opportunities that align with my desired life are constantly presenting themselves to me.
  • Every day Im getting healthier, prettier, and wealthier.
  • Im constantly surrounded by high vibrations, and everything always works out in my favour.
  • I can accomplish anything; working consistently and staying focused is easy for me, and my results are always perfect.
  • I am grateful for all that I have, and I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be. <3

As always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and favourite affirmations in the comments! <3

✩‧₊*:・love ya ・:*₊‧✩

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Study inspiration ✍🏻 ft. two recent reads!

December is already kicking my 🍑 and let's not even talk about the past 5 weeks!

Let's catch up on my Instagram

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14|08|2022

i had a great day yesterday! i went to a local market and got some amazing macarons and one of the best cupcakes i’ve ever had in my life from a fancy new cake shop! and today i’ve also got some fun plans: i’m going out shopping and for lunch with my mum and then we are going to an acrobatic circus show which is going to be amazing! i can’t wait!

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August 14 2022

  • finished summarizing all lectures for my civil service law exam 
  • finished summarizing all lectures for my bilingual teaching seminar 
  • unboxed my teaching planer 22/23
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11.08.2022—more bad weather coming Canberra’s way, deep joy. spring is nearly here tho 🌸🌿🍃🌻

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malusokay

Morning routine ideas

Creating a proper morning routine can be so much fun, especially now that so many people are starting summer break; it's the perfect time to get used to a new routine! <3

  • Open your curtains + Window. Fresh air and sunshine are always good for you.
  • Read something, waking up the brain, haha.
  • Say good morning to your pets and/or plants. It's something cute.
  • Wash your face and brush your teeth. Best feeling in the morning.
  • Drink a glass of water and take your vitamins. I like taking my vitamins on an empty stomach, so a bit before breakfast.
  • Make yourself breakfast; I never understood how people can go without breakfast. I would be dead by noon, lol.
  • Try eating breakfast outside; literally so relaxing.
  • Exercise, go for a walk, try some yoga or pilates.
  • Journal, Paint, blog. Do something creative that makes you feel good and inspired; I obviously write blog posts, hahah.
  • Brew a fresh cup of coffee or tea. Slay.
  • Connect with your friends or family. A simple good morning text is enough and might make their day a bit better :)
  • Choose an outfit. Whatever you feel comfortable with, your clothes should always empower you!
  • Put on your favorite perfume; I like 'Thank U Next' by Ariana grande, 'Black Opium' by YSL, or Victoria's Secret body spray.
  • Make your bed and maybe tidy up your room a bit.
  • List three things you want to do today. You can also write down more but don't push yourself too much.
  • Do your makeup and/or hair, I'm currently trying more simple makeup for summer, and I'm loving it!!
  • Listen to your favorite song, my fav atm is Cry Baby by The Neighbourhood, lol.

Please feel free to add more suggestions in the comments! <3

✩‧₊*:・love ya ・:*₊‧✩

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malusokay

How to get better

The first step to living the life of your dreams is being in-tune with yourself. Getting on track can be challenging and confusing, so I made a list of suggestions that might help you start your journey! <3

Body :

  • Drink a large glass of water first thing in the morning. Gotta stay hydrated!
  • Take vitamins. I personally like taking my vitamins on an empty stomach. If you can, go get a blood test to see what your body actually needs.
  • Don't skip meals! Food is fuel. You also DONT have to earn food through exercise.
  • Try going on morning walks. Feeling the fresh morning air always makes me feel better.
  • Cut down on caffeine. We all know that too much caffeine is bad.
  • Start including more vegetables and fruits in your meals. If you guys want a 'what I eat in a day/week', let me know! :)
  • Stretch regularly. I try to stretch for 10 to 30 minutes a day; it helps me with my migraines and overall makes me feel better.
  • Get some sunlight. You don't have to spend hours tanning if that's not your thing, just a bit of sunlight will already help you feel better.
  • Track your water intake. I'm guilty of being constantly dehydrated, so keeping track of my water intake really helps me!
  • Use lotion. Your skin will thank you.

Mind :

  • Read more. I've been neglecting my book lately... don't be like me.
  • Get rid of clothes that don't fit. There is no need to keep them, especially if you struggle with your body image.
  • Use your phone less. Weekends mean Phone free evenings/nights for me. It really helps you reconnect with yourself.
  • Focus on something you're passionate about, and invest all your efforts into developing it.
  • Write down things that you are grateful for. Journaling is great too!
  • Establish a propper morning/night routine. Taking care of yourself should always be your main priority.
  • Listen to more music. Listening to music helps me to get out of my mind when I'm overthinking.
  • Plan your days. I started planning more about a month ago, and it's actually really fun!
  • Get a Cat. Adopting my rescue kitten Charlie and slowly helping him heel and get comfortable really pulled me out of my worst depressed phase, and I've been doing a lot better ever since. Would totally recommend haha.

Soul :

  • Watch more Sunrises and Sunsets. I try watching one of each at least once a week.
  • Go for walks in nature. Going on walks in the forest/countryside really has become one of my favorite things.
  • Meditate. It doesn't really do much for me, but I recommend giving it a try! (maybe I'm just doing it wrong, lol)
  • Learn to say No. Still one of the hardest things for me, but it's getting better day by day also, remember that you DONT have to explain yourself when saying no! <3
  • Try reading poetry. You can also check out the App 'Motivation'.
  • Get a Plant. A year ago, I planted an avocado seed, and now I have a really cool plant! Slay.
  • Say goodbye. Don't surround yourself with people who don't bring positive energy into your life.
  • Complain less. It can be tough to stay positive but try to focus on the good things, even when they are really small. <3

As always, please feel free to add more suggestions in the comments! <3

✩‧₊*:・love ya ・:*₊‧✩

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31.07.22 | cleaning sundays are my favorite. Last assignment for my art direction masters and summer break (yay~).

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