🌸Soft Asks🌸

🌸Blankets: Have you been in love?

🌸Stuffies: How did you meet your best friend?

🌸Fluffy Pillows: What happened in your most recent dream?

🌸Scented Candles: How do you relax?

🌸Gem Stones: What’s your birthstone/favourite stone?

🌸Pyjamas: Describe your favourite pyjamas!

🌸Fuzzy Socks: What’s your favourite movie?

🌸Kittens & Puppies: Name of your pet or your ideal pet?

🌸Laughter: What’s the funniest joke you’ve heard?

🌸Mittens: Do you like the snow?

🌸Hot Coco: What’s your favourite Starbucks drink?

🌸Soft Kisses: Describe your OTP

🌸Rainy Days: What do you do on a rainy day?

🌸Flower Petals: What’s your favourite flower?

🌸Cotton Candy: What’s your favourite candy?

🌸Bubble Baths: Your favourite memory?

🌸Wooly Scarfs: What song do you think relates the most to you?

🌸Roasted Marshmallows: Your camping with friends! Describe the forest you’re pitching your tent in.

🌸Bird Songs: Name 5 things you love

🌸Old Books: Do you read? If so, what’s your favourite book series?

🌸Warm Hugs: Who would you love a hug from right now?

🌸Clouds: What’s the best shaped cloud you’ve seen?

🌸Fae: Describe yourself as a fairy

🌸Holding Hands: What was the name of your first love?

🌸Cupcakes: Favourite cupcake flavour?

🌸Tealights: Describe a romantic date perfect for you

🌸Gardens: What’s the sweetest gift you’ve received?

Tavpdfw you actually finally make a friend or manage to somehow get into a group of people but:

- the moment someone cuts you off or talks over you it makes you shut down and regret talking to anyone ever

- you feel so inferior that it causes a physical aching in your chest and you just want to burst into tears but you can’t because if you dare embarrass yourself like that you might as well set yourself on fire because it feels just as horrifying

- eventually (meaning like 10 minutes tops goes by) you get so exhausted and anxious from being around people that you start feeling sick to your stomach and just want to dive off a cliff

- you try to say something and stutter or stumble on your words because your anxiety’s so high and you :) just :)) die :))))

- your thoughts go from “oh my god I’m actually maintaining a conversation with people I don’t really know!” to “I am literally the biggest piece of trash in the world and everybody here and everywhere else hates me”

- you try really hard to fight the urge to leave until you’ve finally had enough so you just make up excuses like “I need to go because my ____ is waiting on me” and once you’re finally alone you just feel like you can breathe again and you wonder why the fuck you put yourself through this and swear to never do it again even though you know you will again because the crippling loneliness and desire to have friends will get to you again

Isn’t it great when your anxiety wants to make you worry about a very special person to you not liking or caring about you anymore? IT’S VERY REASURING

Longs term effects of emotional abuse:

• a distrust in your perceptions

• a tendency to be fearful or on guard

• self-consciousness or fear of how you are coming across

• an inability to be spontaneous

• a distrust of people and in future relationships

• anger that bursts out unexpectedly

• sensitivity to anyone trying to control you

• the feeling of anxiety when someone lets you decide

• withdrawal from social interactions

• unexplainable feelings of shame/guilt

• unusual weight gain/loss

• changes in appetite

• unexplained anxiety or depression states

• self destructive behavior

• isolation from friends/family

• substance abuse

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I LOVE ALYCIA AND AISHA’S FRIENDSHIP

Disclaimer

I SUCK and get sad a lot

Jesus Christ was a brown Jew in the Middle East, conceived out of wedlock in an arguably interracial if not interspecies (deity and human) relationship, raised by his mother and stepfather in place of his absent father.  He may not have had a Y chromosome.  He spent his early youth as a refugee in Egypt, where his family no doubt survived initially on handouts from the wealthy (You think they kept that gold, frankincense, and myrrh from the wise men?  Hell no, they sold that stuff for food and lodging).  He later returned with his parents to their occupied homeland and lived in poverty.

The religion of Jesus’s people has no concept of a permanent hell and instructed its priests on how to induce miscarriages.  Jesus explicitly rejected the concept of disability as a divine punishment.  He spoke out against religious hypocrites.  He had enough respect for women to let his mother choose the time of his first miracle.  He blessed a same sex couple.  He told a rich man that he must give up his wealth to get to heaven, and also told a parable about a rich man suffering in agony in presumably Gehinnom (basically Purgatory) just to hammer the point home.  He told people to pay their taxes.  He declared “love your neighbor” to be one of the two commandments on which all laws hang.  He commanded his followers to help the poor.  He commanded them to help the sick and the needy.  He spent time with social outcasts.  He healed the servant of a high priest during his arrest rather than fighting back.  He was put to death by the occupying government because he was a political radical.

Trump and his administration are xenophobic, misogynistic, racist, fear-mongering, warmongering, tax-dodging, anti-Semitic, anti-choice, anti-welfare, anti-equal pay, anti-LGBTQIA+, anti-immigration, support tax cuts for the rich, support Citizen’s United, want to keep refugees out of this country, want to limit our ability to speak against the government, plan to abolish the Affordable Care Act, and they wrap all of that up behind a banner of “Christian family values.”  If you support them, you have no right to call yourself a follower of Christ.

it’s so rare, yet so fulfilling, to see the J-man on my dash

One of my friends is literally the most religious Christian I have ever met. What does that mean in regards to her lifestyle and outlook? She loves everyone. EVERYONE. Unconditionally. And she supports healthcare and education and birth control and everything that’s necessary to have a healthy, stable society.

Because that’s what her homeboy JC would want.

Canon Jesus is better than Fandom Jesus.

imagine your otp

“We’re girlfriends, Clarke.”

GET A LOAD OF THAT DOG

[distantly] THAT DOG

forest spirits

This is so peaceful and tranquil looking