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I know adverbs are controversial, but "said softly" means something different than "whispered" and this is the hill I will die on.
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Wizard worm just emerged from a wizarding hole! Lucky you!!!✨🪱🪄🍀
Claim this luck! I know you can use it right about now!
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ok writeblr i have a question and it does not matter if you answer re fanfic or original work:
do you nerds know what themes you intend to tackle in longer works before you start, or are the themes a fun little surprise you don't uncover until the nth draft?
Both. I have the theme I intended, and then the theme I actually write, which are always two different things.
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Schitts Creek 3.01: “Opening Night"
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Little Dabi sketch
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HELLA’S 5K CELEBRATION ⤷ 💖 + orange for @cal-kestis
Kate Sharma & Anthony Bridgerton in BRIDGERTON
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Every so often this show makes me laugh so hard I scare my cat
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reblog and put in the tags what you think will fix you
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“Get a load of this guy” likeee I’m trying!!!!!!!!!
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Everything is blue His pills, his hands, his jeans And now I’m covered in the colors Pulled apart at the seams And it’s blue And it’s blue Everything is gray His hair, his smoke, his dreams And now he’s so devoid of color He don’t know what it means And he’s blue And he’s blue
Source: Halsey (“Colors”)
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"No one remembered my birthday-" Well, but did YOU tell anyone it was coming up and you wanted to celebrate it with them?
"I wish someone would see through it when I tell people I'm fine-" Well, but have YOU considered not lying when people ask you how you're doing?
"I am so resentful of my friend because they keep doing this thing that really bothers me-" Well, but have YOU directly communicated that the thing is bothering you?
"I am burning out because my friend keeps expecting me to help them with serious struggles-" Well, but have YOU tried to establish the boundaries you need to feel okay?
"No one ever asks me about this thing I really care about-" Well, but have YOU brought it up yourself?
"I miss my friend but they haven't texted me-" Well, but have YOU been reaching out to them?
Sometimes people are mean, uncaring assholes, in which case you get to be mad. But sometimes you just need to communicate better. Try communication before you assume someone doesn't care!
Having someone who knows you on such a deep level that they see past your mask, or sense you need a check in is such a deep satisfying fantasy. It's up there with living in a cottagecore farm, or buying all your friends houses when you win the lottery. But you have to make peace with the fact that this is also a fantasy. It is unfair to expect people to "just know" when to respect your boundaries or to push them.
Being cared for is not a fantasy. But you have to let people know you need it. And you have to understand that sometimes they will let you down. Just like you totally could live in a cute farm, but you still have to shovel shit, and the crops sometimes die anyway. Or maybe you win the lottery, but you still have to manage your money and learn real estate law.
The fantasy isn't the caring, the fantasy is not having to do the work. And it sucks. It's embarrassing. But like the meme says, it's not rotten if it's YOU. So do it for yourself.
"The fantasy isn't the caring, the fantasy is not having to do the work"! Thank you for that addition. Because it's not a naive expectation to want someone to care to treat you right. But it requires communication and mutual effort to actually get there
#I miss my friend but they haven't texted me- Well but have YOU been reaching out to them?#<- exactly that#it should not all be on one person to do the reaching out#and I get if someone is socially exhausted or burnt out#but if you care about someone#you still make the effort and if in that situation push past that and reach out#and yes this is about someone in particular#no I won't say who#but it's been several months since we've talked and I've stopped making the effort because so did they#and yes they do know how I feel because I've shared with them about other people who I've stopped talking to/dropped#for various reasons but one was lack of effort BACK#and if you're socially exhausted or burnt out or having a hard time#that doesn't mean you're the only who is#cause I'm those things too at certain points#but I still put in the effort despite having that feeling#and I can use /nbh because this person hasn't been on social media in years
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why the FUCK are weekends only 2 days long do you really think that's enough to recover from the horrors of the work week. really.