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The anti community isnt helping anybody, and are hurting innocent people.You do not need to like a ship or drawing, but somebody who enjoys creating that stuff is not a monster. I am anti map and you cannot change my mind. Please don’t try to. Drawings of fictional minors will never be child porn, as the idea that they can be is belittling and dangerous. There is 1 mod on this blog, Mod Bunny. I go by any pronoun, but please do not call me a girl unless we are close.
Anonymous asked:

It may not be actual child p*rn but it still sexualizes children and is pedophilic, if you can defend that I'm concerned.

I don't look at a dangan ronpa character and go "that's a kid" I go "evil gyru Girl friend could kill me and I would thank her" I don't look at owari no seraph characters and go "thats a kid" I go "can Mika PLS be real so he can ****************" I don't look at persona 5 characters and go "thats a kid" I go "okay can joker and akechi seriously be real so we can ******" They 2d. They aren't people. Don't register the same in the brain

Anonymous asked:

"anti-map", they say, using the exact same terminology as maps, targeting the exact same people as maps, and acting exactly like maps

who what now

@mikudiary2 has compiled a receipts collection for the most egregious anti behaviour. Please check it out if you're able to handle it! It's going to get even more comprehensive, so check back for updates.

You know I'm no stranger to trying to raise as much awareness as possible about what antis have done in fandom. Heavy trigger warnings are on the page, but a rundown: rape threats, antis who are actual sexual offenders, death threats (graphic), suicide baiting, mentions of gore, pedophilia accusations, racism, ableism, transphobia, misogyny, homophobia, and much more.

Please share if you can!

Anonymous asked:

I reported you to cybertip :) Pedos aren't welcome here :)

What the fuck? What the fuck???

I debated not publishing this, but no, the rest of the fandom needs to see how batshit insane this discourse has gotten. 

I’m assuming anon is referring to CyberTipLine, the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children’s online form for reporting horrible crimes such as the manufacture, distribution, or possession of Child Sexual Exploitation Material, child sex trafficking, and sending unsolicited obscene material to a child. And boy do I hope this is a joke ask, because otherwise, this dingus is trying to report me for writing extremely vanilla ns/fw fanfiction of two adults who are canonically adults—or, in other words, basically the polar opposite of anything even remotely resembling CSEM.

Don’t fucking do this shit, people. 

Aside from the fact that freemance is literally not p*dophilia—it just isn’t, no matter how you try to spin it—submitting false reports to the tip line takes away time and resources that could be devoted to investigating actual crimes involving actual, living, non-fictional children. I am literally at a loss for words to describe how utterly, horrifyingly fucked up it is that there are people on this website who care more about fictional characters (who, again, are not even being fictionally victimized in this particular instance) than actual missing and exploited children. I really hope this is a one-off thing, because the thought that multiple people might’ve flooded the line with reports about my goddamn freemance fanfiction and distracted experts from a child who is in real danger makes me feel sick. 

I don’t necessarily blame the anon here, because for all I know, they’re a child themselves and they were led by others to believe that they were genuinely doing the right thing. But the people who started all this discourse are 17-18+ years old. They are legal adults or near-adults who should fucking know better. I checked a couple of their blogs and it looks like they’ve shared posts about CyberTipLine recently. Given that, I feel entirely justified blaming this on them. 

I know they’ll probably never see this, but if there are still any anti-freemance people lurking on my blog: You all need to calm the fuck down and realize that your ship war crusade has real-world negative consequences for the kinds of actual victims you claim you so desperately want to protect. Tell your friends that this kind of response is not okay.

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floating-goblin

what in the actual fuck, anon

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mr-frej

wow the actual galaxy wide mind stretch.. the absolute unnecessary actions taken by total fools……………..

Welcome to the world where actual pedos roam free because shipping the wrong fictional ship is a worse offense.

Fuck you anon. I hope they track you down and charge you for making a false report. 

Just everything about this is vile. And what’s with the smiley faces? Antis think this shit is cute, when it’s a serious issue that they’re making light of for the sake of harassing people in fandom. 

Fbi having their time wasted when they can seriously save a child’s life and put scum bags in prison for life

If you do something like this, you need to understand that you have possibly just gotten a real child raped or killed because the person who could have helped them was busy chasing your false lead.

You did that, anon. That’s on you.

if youre wondering why i took the post down with the anons i got, the police have gotten involved and mum said they cant be public!

Anonymous asked:

I'm sorry someone's sending you that :/ gotta love the casual ableism, huh? Anyway, I think you're amazing, I really love your blog, and you just seem like a really nice person ❤ antis are just the worst

there was SO much ableism in those asks it was unreal

Thank you so much! They honestly are

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vronicamrs-deactivated20231201

the dumbing down of nazism to the point where people think it’s represented by vague notions of general evil like “the dark side” in star wars is so fucking offensive i don’t know how to put it into coherent sentences 

if you think antisemitism and racism are such simplistic issues that every “evil” character represents an irl nazi and we can fix it all by symbolically blowing up a fictional death star full of them you honestly have no fucking business using those terms

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bellesolo

so few people actually give a shit about jewish people enough to have spent 5 minutes reading about antisemitism to understand that it didn’t begin and end with hitler, to have any context whatsoever about our culture or history or current serious threats to both, but everyone thinks they have the right to throw these token phrases around to prove a point on frivolous shit like a movie about space wizards. because they saw inglourious basterds once 

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bellesolo

sorry everyone, i forgot that being a shipper invalidates my voice about my own heritage lol my mistake 

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i-am-thesenate

“I’m against antisemitism except if it’s directed at shippers. In that case I’m feeling more meh about it :)”

Friendly reminder that when we Jewish shippers speak out about this we get called the k slur and told to go back to Israel so maybe shut the fuck up with that “antisemitism doesn’t apply to Jewish shippers” horseshit thanks

ppl really be like “fat acceptance is dangerous” meanwhile fatphobia caused my mother to put me on a starvation diet that I later learned is listed as one of the top ten most dangerous diets and could have killed me

but better dead than fat I guess!

ANYWAY if you support fat shaming or are anti body acceptance and positivity please fuck off

The argument “show your parents what porn you’re consuming” is… Bad. First of all, my parents would flip at me consuming any type of nsfw content, my mother got upset that I liked Naruto, BNHA, and calls most of my interests occult. Second, starting sexual talk with someone who did not consent to it is pretty much harassment. Third, it’s just… Not a good argument because of many variable factors in one’s environment, and it is just “You can only consume nsfw content someone else approves of!”

It’s even worse because it’s more like “you can only consume nsfw content an authority (parents/boss) approves of” and antis would very much like to be your authority.

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dreddigon

are the people who throw such enormous tantrums over fictional interactions between fictional characters with age gaps really now advocating for real life children to start involving real life adults in their real life sexual habits is this really a thing that’s happening because what even the fuck lmao

It is. I have had people use the argument against me. I have strict, Christian parents who are also homophobic and transphobic. So yeah.

Can you imagine.

I avoided porn as a teen. But I frequented a women’s bookstore that had a big poster, on the wall, with an erotic line drawing of two women lying together.

I guarantee you that if my peers had taught me that I had to run any porn by my parents first, I would’ve taken this literally and thought that I had to show them the poster. (And what? See if they approved? Ask them if it was okay that I thought it was hot?)

And I can tell you, my dad, who sexually abused me, would have reacted the same way he did when I foolishly asked if he and my mom still had sex.

He would’ve been WAY too eager to overshare about sexual stuff with me. He probably would’ve started gushing about how sexy he, too, thought the poster was, and then tried to talk to me some more about what my turn-ons were or something. UGGHHGHHGH

That would fuck anybody up. But if it’s coming from someone who sexually abused you, it’s literally traumatizing.

And that’s a pretty mild example. If I’d actually been into porn, being shamed into sharing it with my abuser, to get it vetted and approved?!, might have literally killed me.

This idea is completely against everything that psychology knows about developing a healthy relationship with sexuality. The absolute LAST thing a teen should be doing is bringing their parents into their exploration of sex.

Go to them with questions if they’re safe to ask.

But telling them that what they should be asking is, “please can you watch this porn and tell me if I can get off to it”… that’s covert sexual abuse from a distance.

I had been gonna say that not only is it against everything we know about healthy sexual boundaries between parents and teens, but also, it’s YET ANOTHER EXAMPLE OF ANTIS PUTTING SEXUAL ABUSE SURVIVORS IN HARM’S WAY WHILE CLAIMING THEY’RE PROTECTING PEOPLE…..

But that’s redundant. Because even for teens who haven’t been sexually abused, this is downright abusive. Telling them they shouldn’t have sexual boundaries with authority figures is a BAD IDEA.

This clearly comes from the anti idea that their sense of “ewwwwww this is gross and bad” isn’t just being creeped out, it’s some kind of… goddamn psychic power that lets them know what is and isn’t healthy for all other people. And that they need to patrol all communities, using their superpower to protect everyone.

It never occurs to them that there might be information they’re missing. Because all the information out there contradicts their gut sense that something is gross, and their belief that that means something bigger than “I think that’s gross.”

So they end up demanding that teens not even develop, or respect, their own sense of what to talk to a trusted adult about, around sex, or what feels safe or unsafe to them, or whether they even have a trusted adult… they’re just like, “don’t have your own boundaries. Have the boundaries we tell you you can have, around sex.”

Yeah that’s DEFINITELY not abusive. And teaching them that that’s how to live DEFINITELY isn’t teaching them to get into abusive adult relationships. AWESOME.

Our hamster Cat has passed away. She really was the funniest thing, and would always chew with her tongue lolling out (there was no problems with her mouth, thats just what she did). She will be missed dearly, and Im glad we go to give her a second chance after her owner gave her up because she didnt like the colour (she was a child so Im not angry at her either, more so at her parents)

I love you Cat, and goodbye

Steven Universe from Steven Universe is pro ship!

is he though

I mean.. he’s in therapy and he’s being taught that your intrusive thoughts don’t make you a bad person, and in my therapy we’re taught that only our actions define us, so likely: Yes! Steven knows that what your read/write does not make you a bad person because you aren’t actually doing what you’re writing about

would he tho

funny considering people do cope using fictional incest- and my therapists know this- which is also not hurting real people as long as you tag your stuff correctly-

But anyway. If you dont care cause you were making a joke, why comment? 

bc its a joke. yall get so defensive 💀

Im not being defensive, you would know if i was

I just dont get why you commented on my content, clearly disagreeing, then dont like when I interact back?

Steven Universe from Steven Universe is pro ship!

is he though

I mean.. he’s in therapy and he’s being taught that your intrusive thoughts don’t make you a bad person, and in my therapy we’re taught that only our actions define us, so likely: Yes! Steven knows that what your read/write does not make you a bad person because you aren’t actually doing what you’re writing about

would he tho

funny considering people do cope using fictional incest- and my therapists know this- which is also not hurting real people as long as you tag your stuff correctly-

But anyway. If you dont care cause you were making a joke, why comment? 

Anonymous asked:

....why does Sebastian kinda sound like my mum and sister??? I think I should be concerned about that...

oof if thats true then i would be really concerned about that.. sebastian is not a good... person? demon? idk

But really I hope things get better for you anon...

truscum really be out there like “I’m nice and polite! sure I will call you a liar and a faker right to your face and push for you not to be treated with dignity or receive the healthcare you need but I use academic language! how dare you call me a bigot!”

"Why can't you stay nice and polite while I'm advocating against your rights and identity? This is exactly why you don't deserve respect 😔"

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