Celebrating Yuumaβs birthday with best company @raburabusama and @pihlajamarmeladi πππ
Thank you again ! β¨πβ¨
@pihlajamarmeladi / pihlajamarmeladi.tumblr.com
Celebrating Yuumaβs birthday with best company @raburabusama and @pihlajamarmeladi πππ
Thank you again ! β¨πβ¨
Happiest Birthday to our boisterous wolfboy! ππΊ We enjoyed tasty cake, treats and drinks with @raburabusamaβ and @ashwingβ π₯ Thank you darlings for wonderful day!
Christmas event was not a lucky one for me but looks like with setsubun weβre back in business!
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ps. Akir ais asking how you like him as a beautiful ane-san ;;w;; And Koku is asking if it is really okay to be enthralled by oni (if it's you baby, 100%)
A bit late but here we are!
πππHappy birthday Kou-kun!!ππππ
We had a little party with lots of lΓ€skiΓ€ispulla, macarons, mochi donuts, anime, sake and fine wine in your honour with the lovely @pihlajamarmeladi and @ashwing uwu. Love u lots
Happy Birthday! π₯°π±π Wonderful party, I had such a great time πππLove you all!
Kokuyou showcasing the insane rime ice situation
did somebody say azushin
# DIABOLIK BOYS AS QUOTES ?!
βΉ warnings : suggestive content
βΉ characters : shu, ayato, kanato, laito, subaru, ruki, azusa, kou, yuuma
βΉ note : happy new years !! and sorry for all my reijiβs lovers i did not find anything for him (γββ)
i'm never getting over the fact that romance as a genre, as the HIGHEST selling genre, exists largely because straight women fantasise about being loved and treated kindly by men and men constantly make fun of this because they think it's just that unrealistic that they could cherish women and that women are stupid in the first place for wanting such an impossible thing
everyone keeps talking about fifty shades in the notes but I wrote this post thinking about pride and prejudice which is basically the blueprint of all romantic novels and romcoms and romantic relationships in media ever sinceβa bookish loner has a fight with a guy that is above in the social hierarchy than her because she thinks he's an ass and he later turns out to be a sweetheart when he's kind to her/helps her out.
many romantic works that are labelled as romanticising abuse simply focus on the wrong aspect of this equation, where they make him an ACTUAL rich inconsiderate arse. Twilight falls in this zone (Bella has only one personality trait which is she loves Austen, how obvious can it be) and so does, consequently, fifty shades.
but that doesn't change these fact that the CRUX of the liz-darcy formula is this: a man will listen to what I have to say and apologise for his behaviour and put my needs first. a man will love me for the bits (headstrong nature, a preference for solitude) that society asks I change. that's the female fantasy. a rich handsome dude will love me for who I am and put my needs first.
and straight women have been mocked for this! for decades! because of wanting to be seen and heard and loved by the men they're dating! and I say straight because while self indulgent romances exist for wlw's and queer men, I have never, in my life, seen a queer person mock another queer person for reading romance. this derision only exists by straight men for straight women because the idea that they could dare to have standards in their relationships deserves to be mocked and shamed.
cishet men don't need a romance genre because their dream fantasy woman pervades every single genre in every single medium, in all her hundreds of iterations where she sacrifices every aspect of her self to fulfil their needs and effortlessly fulfils impossible standards and finally is killed off so he can heroically avenge her before promptly finding another male fantasy to use and discard. but women are labelled shallow for wanting a darcy, when darcy has a personality and friends and family and motivations and isn't dressed in gold bikinis and sensuously brutalised and tortured for our benefit.
In my experience, most of the people (people, because it's not just cis straight men doing it) making fun of romance literature do so because in general things aimed at women tend to be seen as less and because romance is about Feelings and that's not a Serious topic.
I have never seen anyone make fun of romance literature because they think it's unrealistic for women to think they should be cherished, though I suppose that's just where my experience differs from OP's.
Romance is a huge genre. Not every romantic hero is a Mr. Darcy. Some women don't even want a Mr. Darcy. But that's the great thing about romance literature, there's (literally) something for everyone!
We enter into a different world, a different ara in Paths of Avarnight on the newest page! But howβ¦? β¦Only one way to find out!
Link only to Tapas today since Webtoons is broken and wonβt let me log in (this is apparently a wider problem at the moment, so Iβll update the page there when I can)
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Meanwhile:
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β£ BlackStar Theater Starless Masterlists [1][2][3]Β Β Β β£ Main Masterlist
β£ Buy me a Ko-fi? β£ Commission: Open || Requests: Closed
Β Β Β Art by dugguhart
β DIABOLIK LOVERS AS QUOTES : pt3
warnings. none
characters. laito, kino, yui, shu, yuuma, ruki, azusa, ayato, kou
βThank you, for all the time.β
Happy HijiChi day again. \o/ This gave me quite some trouble, but I think itβs cute, so here you go~