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DayBook

@africancreativity / africancreativity.tumblr.com

Knock and it shall be opened , Seek and ye shall find
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alwaysbewoke

Being crazy ain’t ok.

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anomaly1

^^^

verbally abusing your boyfriend is not ok. Manipulating your significant other to get what you want is not ok.

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Being controlling and not seeing it isn’t okay

I’m happy to see this is actually getting notes.

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I’m a woman, I don’t have the right to be an abusive bitch just because of my anatomy.

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pinkgliitter

Going through his phone, calling him when he’s out with his friends or just out, not giving him space alladet

fyi, if we were talking about a man, all of these comments would be about leaving his ass. If your gf is doing ANY of these things. LEAVE her. You don’t deserve it.

Saying he can’t even look at another woman without a problem? Toxic. Saying he can’t have women for friends, even when they were there first? Toxic. Getting angry when he wants time for himself to hang out with his friends instead of being under your titties 24/7? Toxic. Gaslighting him when he has a problem with you and making it seem like he’s making shit up? Toxic. Accusing him of cheating everytime he does something that doesn’t involve you? Toxic. Making rules for him and denying him his autonomy? Toxic. Putting your goddamn hands on him because you know he won’t touch you back? Toxic. You’re insecure and abusive and you need to check yourself.

I didn’t know female toxic behavior existed

It very much like male toxic behavior and very much not okay.

Your mental health is more important than another person.

Your well being is more important than another persons “feelings”.

And with Corona now, a lot of people are with abusive SOs. Please, look for help. I think there are hotlines you can text and call and they are not just for women!!!

Stay safe ❤

the national dv hotline helps men too. 1-800-799-7233 or 1-800-787-3224 for TTY.

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Bob Marley died due to melanoma. He was only 36 years old. His melanoma started under his big toenail in 1977. The first doctor that he consulted thought that it was a soccer injury. After it began to look worse, Marley consulted another doctor who biopsied the spot and discovered that it was melanoma. The recommendation was to amputate his toe, but Marley chose to have excision surgery instead, during which the surgeon removed the nail and surrounding tissue. Marley had no further treatment and did well until he collapsed in New York City in 1980. He was rushed to the hospital and tests revealed that the melanoma had spread to his brain, lungs and stomach. He refused his doctor’s treatment plan and went to Germany to try alternative treatments including exercise, ozone injections and vitamins. Marley’s condition continued to worsen and he decided to charter a plane in order to return to Jamaica. While in flight, Marley’s condition became critical and the plane did an emergency landing in Miami where he passed away. He never made it back to his beloved Jamaica. Marley was reportedly only 82 pounds when he passed away. We share Marley’s story every time we teach about melanoma because his story demonstrates that even people with darker skin can get melanoma. In addition, in those with dark skin melanoma often develops in places that do not get a lot of sun exposure like in the mouth, on the tongue, under finger nails and toenails and on the palms of the hands and soles of the feet. RIP Bob Marley. Just like your music, your melanoma story lives on to educate people about the dangers.

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