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Just My Little World

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My family, interests and obsessions!!
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jacen-solos

                                                 What about the North?         Ned Stark’s daughter will speak for them. She’s the best they could ask for.

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chiburkie

Spotted at the @VanityFair #Cannes2019 party: Robert Pattinson, Antonio Banderas, Miles Teller, Chloe Sevigny, Quentin Tarantino, Luca Guadagnino, @rilaws and of course our host @radhikajones.

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People freaked out about Heath Ledger being cast as the Joker.

People was sceptical about Ben Afleck playing Batman.

Then people saw some set photos and suddenly got interested.

This happens EVERY TIME someone casts a well known comic book character. At least wait til you see a trailer before giving up all together.

(Yes, will I probs make some more #SparklyBatman jokes? Yes. Am I optimistic? Yes! I for one wish Robert Pattinson good luck as Batman!)

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cullenedward

Robert Pattinson’s casting as Batman

I think he’s perfect for the role, but if you don’t, just shut the fuck up about his body.

He’s had body issues forever since he was being constantly picked-apart by Twilight fans. Here’s a quote from one of his interviews:

“Body dysmorphia, overall tremendous anxiety. I suppose it’s because of these tremendous insecurities that I never found a way to become egotistical. I don’t have a six-pack and I hate going to the gym. I’ve been like that my whole life. I never want to take my shirt off. I’d prefer to get drunk.”

He has also said that he was never even going to try to get a six pack. And yet.

Over the past year, Robert has been spotted working out religiously. He’s doing what he hates most, what gives him horrible anxiety, all for a role he’s probably always dreamed of. And you people are still out here trying to verbally abuse him and critique his appearance. It’s like 2007 all over again.

If you honestly think he’s not a good choice, fine, but leave his body out of it. Body-shaming men is just as bad as body-shaming women and it’s just fucked up that he has to go through all this all over again.

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Ok so I'm not going to do this anonymously because i don't fear getting chastised for my own ignorance but there are other alternatives to abortion aren't there? I mean i honestly don't understand this bill nonsense but it mostly at least to me sounds like it's just to keep children alive. I mean there are adoption centers and people who will actually pay women who are pregnant to act as surrogates. Why is anti abortion so bad? And how is this a woman's autonomy probpem. Please educate me

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First, I want to thank you for acknowledging that your perspective on this may be informed from a place of systemic oppression of AFAB people, and for seeking out information. When people add on to this post with the purpose to educate, I implore you all to remember this person is seeking information. Please avoid shaming them or ridiculing them.

Let’s first address your questions:

1) “There are other alternatives to abortion aren’t there?”

Let’s first define abortion. “In medicine, an abortion is the premature exit of the products of conception (the fetus, fetal membranes, and placenta) from the uterus. It is the loss of a pregnancy and does not refer to why that pregnancy was lost. A spontaneous abortion is the same as a miscarriage. The miscarriage of three or more consecutive pregnancies is termed habitual abortion or recurrent pregnancy loss”  (Shiel MD, MedicineNet).

¼ womxn will have abortions in their lifetime. Abortion is a medical procedure that can be requested or required for a lot of different reasons:

  • The pregnant person may not be able to carry an embryo to term safely.
  • The pregnant person may not have the financial support to pay for the medical bills that pregnancy costs in the US (prenatal and delivery alone can cost around $18k).  
  • I also want to add that people in this country are not given any kind of financial support for the time taken off for prenatal or postnatal care. Being out of work for this time could mean entering extreme poverty.
  • The pregnant person may not have the financial support or stability of lifestyle to support a child.
  • The pregnant person may not be physically up to the task of carrying a child to term and delivering. Not all womb-having people are up to what childbirth does to the body. Childbirth is one of the most dangerous things that a body can be put through.  In the US we’re just under 20 maternal deaths per 100,000 births, which is the highest in the developed world. Some undeveloped countries have better stats than we do
  • Abortion may be required as an emergency life-saving procedure for the pregnant person. And waiting for approval by a committee could mean the death of that person.
  • Medical interference can also be needed if the embryo has already been determined unviable (basically will not ever have life) because having dead tissue remain in the womb will kill the person. Wombs don’t always do what they’re supposed to and often they will still act as if the pregnancy is going along normally when the embryo stopped growing and forming.
  • Abortion as a medical procedure is part of basic reproductive healthcare. Denying it is like denying the use of a c-section or blood transfusions.

I also want to add that many of these GOP states are seeking to classify any and all contraceptives as “abortion” as well. This isn’t included in this bill specifically but it’s been named as part of their agendas.

2) “I mean I honestly don’t understand this bill nonsense but it mostly at least to me sounds like it’s just to keep children alive.”According to the CDC, 91.1% of abortions are performed at ≤13 weeks’ gestation. At this time, this is an embryo and fetal tissue. It’s not a child. Pro-life people are placing the eventual *possible* life of a being that isn’t even formed yet above the autonomy and rights of a living human being (the pregnant person). A zygote without a brain or the ability to survive outside the womb is not a person, and therefore not a child. We have determined that something without brain activity is not alive. People with wombs are not incubators. This is not the sum of our existence.

Right now you cannot force a person to give blood or organs in life-saving situations. Why should it be okay to force a person to donate their entire body as an incubator if they don’t want to, which has health complications, and long-lasting effects on the body? We even afford humans that are DEAD more rights than womb-having people in this country. It is illegal to take organs or tissue from dead bodies with no brain activity without consent, but it’s legal to force a living person to act as an incubator for tissue and chromosomes that aren’t even formed to make a person yet?

Also, this bill has SO much more nuanced support for the oppression of women than just keeping “children” alive. This affords the state the right to investigate any suspicion of “intentional abortion.” This means, if a person miscarries, they may be subject to invasive investigation and murder charges on top of grieving for their loss and recovering medically. This bill also in no certain terms basically considers all womb-having people in their state to be the property of the state by allowing people to be extradited and charged if they have a LEGAL abortion procedure in another state.

3) “I mean there are adoption centers and people who will actually pay women who are pregnant to act as surrogates. Why is anti-abortion so bad?” We currently have 108,000 foster children up for adoption right this second in the US. This doesn’t even include unwanted pregnancies being given to private adoption agencies. Adopt one if you want to save a child, but forcing people to enter crippling debt, put their body through the abuse of childbirth, and possible forced poverty because of lack of childcare or compensation for missing work isn’t okay.

Additionally, anti-abortion really only seems to be concerned with one thing - popping out children. There is ZERO concern for the health, wellbeing, or survival of that child OR the parent afterward. This is oppressive and forced childbirth expectations. And again, reduces womb-having people as nothing more than a means to an end. Their life and wellbeing aren’t considered - they’re incubators.

4) “How is this a woman’s autonomy problem.”All of the above. The entire idea of denying women normal reproductive medical procedures or criminalize a natural thing that our bodies DO is inherently oppressive. Deciding that a womb-having person is just supposed to do their best to carry to term an embryo regardless of danger to their life, medical needs, e, inability to care for the child, inability to pay medical bills, or the abuse that childbirth puts on the body… and possibly condemning them to death, poverty, or life-long debt removes the ability for a person to choose what is done or what is done TO their body. It’s inherently oppressive.

Make no mistake, these bills have very little to do with saving the lives of children, and everything to do with keeping women impoverished, oppressed, and without any control over their own bodies and lives. These bills are also written and signed without ANY input or oversight primarily by the people they affect. This is not a choice that womb-having people made… these are oppressive laws being forced upon them.

Some final personal notes from me: I am currently in a place where I would suffer greatly from these laws if they were to be implemented in my state. First of all, if I were to get pregnant, mine would be a high-risk pregnancy. It is likely that I could lose the pregnancy anytime within the first two trimesters, which would require an abortive procedure to remove the remaining tissue. If I’m to get pregnant, I need to know that modern medical procedures that are agreed to be the most effective best practices would be available to me by a doctor without the threat of criminalization or debating on whether it’s necessary/legal. This affects all people who may ever become pregnant. This is a clear and present fear for us. It’s not just anti-abortion. If that’s all it was… the answer would be simple, don’t have one. If you need one to save your life, you can choose to say no. But it’s not. This is about controlling womxn, denying us healthcare, and we are afraid. We are all desperately terrified of this becoming the new normal across our country. ONE in FOUR pregnancies ends in the need for abortion. And if you need one, you get one. This is about whether or not we have access to SAFE and MEDICALLY sanctioned abortions. 

I really encourage you to do some additional research and reading from educational sites. Be wary of both FOX News, CNN, major news networks, and any journalists with a religious agenda. Further reading: https://prochoice.org/education-and-advocacy/downloads-resources/https://iwhc.org/2018/09/abortion-normal-and-vital/https://www.prochoiceamerica.org/issue/abortion-access/I’d really appreciate if any followers could tack on additional resources, statistics, and personal stories. This is SO important. 

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First i want to say: this is by far the best, most informational, most well written piece on abortions I’ve read in awhile that actually relies on facts and not “gotch ya” style slogans.

Right now im taking spironolactone a hormonal acne medication. The one major rule when taking any acne medication is DO NOT GET PREGNANT. This medication is know to create LIFE THREATENING birth defects. I would need an abortion as quickly as possible if I were to become pregnant. This bill would put huge barriers in that process, OR I might even have to wait until my life is in JEOPARDY before the legal system would allow it, OR in many cases doctors would have to let me die in front of them because otherwise they go to prison for performing an abortion. (This actually happens.)

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According to the March of Dimes, as many as half of all pregnancies end in miscarriage, often before a woman misses a menstrual period or even knows she is pregnant. More than 80% of miscarriages occur within the first three months of pregnancy. Though it may sound wild, anti-abortion laws have already been used to investigate miscarriages on the suspicion that the pregnant person may have done something to potentially endanger a fetus. (X)

The Ohio anti-abortion bill mandates that in the case of an ectopic pregnancy (when a fertilized egg implants in the fallopian tubes outside the uterus) the egg must be reimplanted into the pregnant woman’s uterus. This is unscientific; there is no medical procedure to reimplant an ectopic egg. A ruptured ectopic pregnancy is a medical emergency that can cause internal bleeding. The egg must be surgically removed to save the mother’s life. (X)

These laws are all about imposing conservative Christian beliefs on every woman in this country.

READ ALL OF THIS.

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honorthegods

This is part of the Project Blitz agenda. They also want to impose Christian education in public schools, and “biblical values concerning marriage and sexuality”, such as “establishing public policy favoring adoption by intact heterosexual, marriage-based families” and “establishing public policy favoring intimate sexual relations only between married, heterosexual couples”. 

We need to stand together to oppose this: pagans, polytheists, witches, Satanists, humanists, atheists, and LGBTQA+ people, along with those of good will from the more mainstream religions. All together, there’s more of us than there are Christian nationalists.

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outofcheese

We are Women - ColoradoLike This Page · May 15  · To those in Georgia, Alabama, Ohio, and Texas, we stand with you. If you need to take a trip to Colorado, just message the page. We will pick you up from the airport/bus station, ensure you get where you need to go, hold your hand, and ensure you are safe. We will visit some tourist attractions and ensure you have the necessary documentation for a proper vacation and will protect your privacy. We stand with you. We will not sit idly by and allow your health to be threatened. Not now, not ever. #NoJudgement #PreserveRoevsWade #WeWontGoBack Update: Thank you to everyone willing to offer support to those that need it! Sign up to help here: https://forms.gle/jz7SKP1eW8Zo3R7AA A big round of applause to our friends at Keep Abortion Safe for their awesome billboard! Be sure to give them a “like” for all they do!

Abortion is not what I chose 12 years ago, but my dad offered to drive me 2 hrs to a clinic in the US. My mom wouldn’t have agreed, but it would have been my choice. I will defend any woman’s right to make this decision for themselves, their health, their emotional well-being and their bodily autonomy. For whatever reason, it should be OUR choice.

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Am i impressed with the storytelling of this season? Not at all

Do i think its what most of these characters deserved? Definitely not

Am i still very excited that Sansa Stark, a character who got hate from Day One for being weak, useless, too soft, and too boring by SO many people, will be one of the last people standing, having completely earned the respect and power she now has? 

You Bet Your Fucking Ass I Am

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