shoutout to nonbinary people loving women who are not sure if they relate to womanhood and feel a connection to women or not

it’s okay not to be sure about your gender identity! it’s okay not to know if you have a connection with womanhood or just share your experiences with women!

it can be especially difficult because nonbinary people loving women are often pressured to identify as sapphic and to relate to womanhood, and it might be hard to tell your own feelings from what it seems you ‘should’ feel

nonbinary people loving women who don’t know if they relate to womanhood or not are wonderful and lovely and will definitely figure it out if they want to!

Every day you get closer to a full recovery.

Embrace who you are, because who you are is gorgeous

You are SO much more than your disorder.

[drawing of a pink tulip saying “Keep at it. You can do this. I believe in you.” in a pink speech bubble.]

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because I am so discouraged/pissed off, here is some positivity babs!!

Here’s to the people questioning their gender and sexuality

Here’s to the people who were questioning for weeks, or years and still don’t have a label that fits them.  Here’s to the people who just started questioning and already found a label.  Here’s to the people who don’t even want a label. 

Figuring out your gender is difficult. Since the day we’re born, we’re forced into either “male” or “female” binaries, and are often told that we don’t have any other options. Suddenly feeling as though you don’t fit into those binaries is confusing, to say the least. 

Figuring out your sexuality is just as difficult. There’s a vast spectrum of sexualities that you probably didn’t even know existed. 

I want to tell all of you something; questioning your gender and sexuality is a normal part of life. Some people know exactly what they are without having to question, others can spend years questioning until they find something that fits them. 

It’s okay to question only to find out that you’re actually cis or straight. It does not make you a liar. It does not mean your experiences are any less real or valid. 

Questioning is normal, there is nothing to be ashamed of. 

I promise 💕 just hang on.

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