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@destroydaddydoms-blog

I'm a former​ online sex worker who is concerned about the increasing fetishization of children/incestual relationships and acceptance of it in online sex work and other communities. No SWERFs, TERFs, radfems, ddlg/cgl sympathisers, or littles/daddy doms! I am an adult but I plan to keep this blog as SFW as possible. Please let me know if you are a minor and aren't comfortable with me following you!

The radfems and other anti cgl types… I wonder how they’d react when they learn about neotenic species.

Neoteny refers to a type of evolution. In particular where the species retains juvenile traits in adulthood until they become a distinct species. (Which takes a very long time of large amounts of that species consistently choosing neotenic mates over several generations.)

Neotenic animals include: house cats, domestic dogs, the axolotl and humans. Basically most things you probably find cute are neotenic. (Are today’s birds neotenic dinosaurs?? Idk. I’ll look it up…I checked very quickly and it looks very probable though not fully confirmed).

Basically stop trivializing what pedophilia is. Being attracted to juvenile features in *adult* members of your same species isn’t pedophilia, it’s neoteny. And a good chunk of evolution (including human evolution) wouldn’t happen without it.

And trust me, there’s a huge fucking difference between attraction to adult women with shaved or less hairy vulvas, and literally sexually assaulting a *child*. And if you can’t see that difference you’re really fucking gross and I need you to keep away from me. I have too much trauma for that equation to be even somewhat okay.

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destroydaddydoms

The problem isn’t attraction to childlike traits in adults. The problem is the simulated CSA. The problem is the lack of respect people have in the cgl/ddlg community for minors, CSA survivors, and others who don’t want their interaction. The problem is going into a SFW tag with safe search on and being exposed to porn.

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korra4-kinks-n-ships

Well considering my blog is nsfw and the tags I used, and your blog saying no cgl, I wouldn’t expect you to reblog from someone with kink in their name. Like idk why y'all do that shit. If you wanna fight then don’t pretend you’re safe for people who don’t want to stumble upon who knows what

Are you going to respond to my arguments or just complain about the type of blog I run?

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anti-cgl-moana

Why do kinksters think kids “tawk wike dis”? Like most kids just mess things up by saying “sleeped” rather than “slept”. And why do kinksters act like children remove words/change i into me like it just reeks of xenophobia (like that me love you long time thing people used to make fun of Asian people with.)

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phantomflora

bc theyre not regressors lmao theyre filthy age players; they “play” / “pretend” to be a fucking child for sex.

ik sometimes age regressors talk in fractions of sentences while regressed bc while you are regressed, you are literally in a delicate state of mind and it can be difficult for some people to even speak (its this way for me). thats why age regressors cant have sex while regressed either; it can cause panic or anxiety.

thats how you know the difference between trash fucking age PLAYERS and actual age regressors.

Anonymous asked:

to those other anons: d/dlg and c/gl are kinks, they use kink terms and while they can be sfw, they are kinks. age regression is different and always sfw, and usually a coping mechanism due to trauma

yes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i completely agree

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The radfems and other anti cgl types… I wonder how they’d react when they learn about neotenic species.

Neoteny refers to a type of evolution. In particular where the species retains juvenile traits in adulthood until they become a distinct species. (Which takes a very long time of large amounts of that species consistently choosing neotenic mates over several generations.)

Neotenic animals include: house cats, domestic dogs, the axolotl and humans. Basically most things you probably find cute are neotenic. (Are today’s birds neotenic dinosaurs?? Idk. I’ll look it up…I checked very quickly and it looks very probable though not fully confirmed).

Basically stop trivializing what pedophilia is. Being attracted to juvenile features in *adult* members of your same species isn’t pedophilia, it’s neoteny. And a good chunk of evolution (including human evolution) wouldn’t happen without it.

And trust me, there’s a huge fucking difference between attraction to adult women with shaved or less hairy vulvas, and literally sexually assaulting a *child*. And if you can’t see that difference you’re really fucking gross and I need you to keep away from me. I have too much trauma for that equation to be even somewhat okay.

The problem isn't attraction to childlike traits in adults. The problem is the simulated CSA. The problem is the lack of respect people have in the cgl/ddlg community for minors, CSA survivors, and others who don't want their interaction. The problem is going into a SFW tag with safe search on and being exposed to porn.

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anti-cgl-moana

Why do kinksters think kids “tawk wike dis”? Like most kids just mess things up by saying “sleeped” rather than “slept”. And why do kinksters act like children remove words/change i into me like it just reeks of xenophobia (like that me love you long time thing people used to make fun of Asian people with.)

I wish you could turn off notes for a specific post because I’m tires of seeing people telling me I’m a piece of shit for a post I already apologized for. I don’t want to delete it because I believe in personal accountability and I don’t want to give shitheads fuel to criticize me but idk what else to do :/

I deleted the original but left up the reblogs so hopefully that shows I’m not just trying to backpedal

I wish you could turn off notes for a specific post because I'm tires of seeing people telling me I'm a piece of shit for a post I already apologized for. I don't want to delete it because I believe in personal accountability and I don't want to give shitheads fuel to criticize me but idk what else to do :/

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weeb-potato

My psych teacher has a poster in her classroom that says “Everytime you call your boyfriend ‘Daddy,’ Sigmund Freud’s ghost grows a little bit stronger,” and if that isn't​ threatening, then I don’t know what is.

promo pls

Can someone please promo me? I’m a newish anti-ddlg/cgl/map blog and I’d love to see something in my notes other than annoying anti-sjw blogs!

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lumoz86

hey guys! i would like you all to follow some retard online that haves a strange desire for bloodshed for all of those who have fun in a holyday!

don’t forget the scum of the earth, Trump Supporters, who this cunt also thinks deserves to die! what a great person for you to follow!

Why are you visiting my blog? I posted an apology for my joke that was in poor taste if you cared to actually look into my blog.

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the-map-community-is-dangerous

Watch out for paraphilias-are-human. A MAP positivity blog supporter who like all of them, think there are nothing wrong with MAPs (when all of them are fucking disgusting.) Also believes that fiction doesn’t affect reality even though there is proof that the brain reacts to fiction the same way it reacts to reality. Wow, drawn cp is wrong.

Victim is not a dirty word.

• Opening up about your trauma and being honest about how it hurts you does not mean you’re “playing the victim.”

• Admitting you were victimized and now have long-term effects or PTSD as a result of it does not mean you have “a victim complex.”

• Struggling with trauma, abuse, or mental illness and needing to talk about it does not mean you are “weak” or “throwing a pity party.”

One of the most notorious ways to heal from trauma is to talk about it, over and over again, to as many people as you can, to regain a sense of power over the situation.

If someone tries to shame you for being “weak” or imply that you’re “trying to be a victim” by talking about your emotions and trauma, then they are not allowing you to heal and that’s fucked up.

A “victim complex” and “playing the victim” have nothing to do with actual victims of trauma and abuse. These phrases were originally used to describe people who were skilled at pretending to be victims when it suited them, as a conscious attempt to avoid responsibility for their actions.

Despite what you think, when you shame someone for “being a victim,” you’re not helping them and you’re not being “brutally honest.”

You’re just being invalidating as fuck and reinforcing the false belief that the victim is somehow to blame for what happened to them, a belief that many victims of trauma already struggle with.

You’re literally just making their trauma worse.

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