look alive sunshine

men can't be "just friends" with each other. ur either gay or u hate each other. and if u hate each other that's also gay

‘what’re u going to do w ur degree’ nothing. i’m going to start blowing things up

something i think a lot of able bodied people dont understand is that being chronically ill affects your emotions. constantly being exhausted and feeling bad is going to make you sad or depressed or angry or jealous. constantly being in pain is going to affect your mental health. never feeling "good" is obviously going to affect the way you act.

okay everyone reblog and tell me your favorite perfume. but if your favorite is glossier you… don’t bother

I think the most fun part of monsters inc is boo calling sulley “kitty” and mike wazowski by full government name

I still occasionally get the sir uh no ma’am no sorry sir comments almost 6 years on T and a lot of people don’t get why that happens to me but what people don’t get is that most people out in the world aren’t like expecting to see trans people so if they catch sight of my bra line under my shirt or hear me talk slightly high pitched something short circuits in their brain as they try to rationalize that with the rest of my appearance.

I mean I pass the vast majority of the time. Even without binding or packing. But sometimes you’re gonna cause a little short circuit. And you know what? Usually the other person is the one embarrassed in that situation. Not you. For the most part with strangers what gender they think you are isn’t your problem. If you act like your gender should be obvious to them then they’re the ones who will be flustered. Not you.

Make a confused and slightly judgmental face at them or correct them like uh, sir like it’s obvious when they misgender you and that’ll take care of a lot of your problems, I’ve found.

A lot of the way to combat getting misgendered around normies and conservatives is just to act like they’re stupid for thinking you’d be anything other than what you are. There’s mannish looking women and womanly looking men out there and everybody knows that and if they make wrong assumptions about you that’s egg on their face. Like asking a fat person when the baby’s due. The embarrassment in that situation lies on the person asking that question. Not the fat person.

The same principle applies to when a stranger misgenders you. If you act like it’s obvious and you’re confused why they’d think you’re the wrong gender then the crowd is more likely to be with you.

Also if a stranger ever walks up to you and asks if you’re a man or woman you’re within your rights to say “What kind of question is that?” or “Why’s that your business?” and walk away from them.

summer is coming up lads..

fight fight kiss kiss fight fight

@arengnera for the best explanation of the conundrum

my client just said "there's bigger fish to fight" which is objectively a much better idiom

SHUT UP SHUT THE FUCK UP OH MY FUCKING G