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@vou-duvidar / vou-duvidar.tumblr.com

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just saw something insane i had to share it w someone. saw an AMAB person say they’re a he/him lesbian and using words like d*ke ... the internet was a mistake if someone said that to me irl i’d turn and run

Things like this make me keep a distance from LGBT spaces. Like, I'd love to get to know more LGBT people in irl but NOT in those spaces. As a woman, I’ve lived much of my life having a terrible time trying to vocalize my discomfort from being pestered by males of any sort and being abused in the process, and I don’t want to go to another place where males can just push themselves on us or we’re gonna be punished for saying no. The Kweer community is a mess and will accept any bs from males.

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wild-zamboni

Ratatouille is a good movie and all but can we stop ignoring the weird sub plot about how it's wrong for rats to steal? Like. What are they supposed to do then? Buy food? From the grocery store? With WHAT MONEY ratatouille?

I feel like I'm crazy. They make such a big deal about rats stealing? Like they have options? What do you think would happen if a rat shows up at the food bank to feed his wife and kids? He'd be killed remi.

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It's just so telling when you realize how trans activism (not exactly all trans people) moved from the concept of sex dysphoria to gender dysphoria/identity - not only because sex is a no-no subject (to them) with too many nonsensical understandings, like seeing intersex as just a different sex from the other two - that the body stopped being an issue (for the most part or at least the part they want legal changes for) while the words for the sexes (and the socializations they pass through=genders) and what people normally relate to them became The Issue.

Suddenly, the issue is on the words: women, men, female, male, because of the associations they make.

Female and male can't even be used to correctly inform people's sexes because trans activists and their associates cannot seem to distinguish the sexes from stereotypes pushed on the sexes, as if the sexes themselves were to be blamed for the stereotypes, not a patriarchal culture of violence and subjection that needs control over the people (especially of women) to maintain itself.

It's a half assed, formal and superficial solution to a cultural, deep rooted issue most liberals aren't willing to uncover and fight against.

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circling back to where we started

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radfemramblr

I know it is wordier, but they don’t say gay. They say “Having sex only with the same genitalia as you is gross and wrong.”

I want them to see this and make the connection. They think they support homosexuality. They need to see their exact words reflected.

Also it’s more like

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“… Where I said “lesbian” the word lesbian was changed to “queer.” I was rebranded. I became the mythological “if the situation was right” lesbian. The appropriated slur “queer,” has become the popular descriptor of choice for a “yes” girl or a “maybe” girl— An “I’m not going to rule anything out because I’m open-minded” girl. It doesn’t carry the sting of lesbian. The stigma of lesbian. The boundaries of lesbian. Lesbian is a solid “No.” ”Not even if…” And that unwillingness to bend is the very reason lesbians are targeted with insidious psychological warfare.”
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So the j & j vaccine is causing blodclots in mostly women...this is just another reason why its important to acknowledge that sex is real and that men and women are not the same. Erasing our reality costs women their life so think abt that the next time you think or say "woman is a social constuct." No, were real life human females with a completely different physiology.

From what I understand women in general have stronger reactions to all of the COVID vaccines out there currently. It’s so alarming that there isn’t super concrete information on this, and that much of the info I’ve been able to find out is largely anecdotal.

Yeah its so annoying that the testing is not accurate because it had to be rolled out fast and its even more annoying that womens biology is never taken into consideration when it comes to vaccine trials. I read an article on refinery about how women are usually left out in medicine and vaccine trials and the ironic part of it all was the headline of said article, it was like "people are experiencing strange period symptoms due to the vaccine." Like that right there is the start of the problem, say women instead of people and realize its affecting us women differently than men and that only women have period symptoms. Lol I went off a tangent but I agree, its alarming that there isnt more research on how its affecting women.

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vou-duvidar

Astrazenica's vaccine (which uses a similar model of vaccine) has also caused blodcots and, in a reason of 13/14 were young women. The developted/extra rich/ex-colonizer countries are slowly banning it for young women but, as far as the general south goes, we don't have much of a choice nor does psychopath presidents like bolsonaro are going to do anything to prevent these "side effects" to happen to us. Not that most of young people are getting shots here anytime soon.

Btw, there are hypothesis that anticonceptional pills and smoking may have a factor in the generation of those (brain) bloodcots.

Warning: that is NOT to say vaccines are UNSAFE, but there should be more attention to women's physiological differences from men. also they should avoid these vaccines in women

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I feel like social media identity politics has honestly rotted so many people’s brains that they feel that unless a victim doesn’t tick off the boxes of a list of marginalized/oppressed identities, people are unable to sympathize with them. So like for example let’s say an able bodied white woman gets sexually assaulted, because she doesn’t fit the criteria of what these people think being “oppressed” means, she doesn’t deserve sympathy. Which...I have to say is alarming. I keep seeing the goal posts shift as to what “oppressed” means and who qualifies. Like I remember in the wake of that Epstein shit, I believe it came out that Ghislaine Maxwell lady had tried to essentially “recruit” a 19 year old Paris Hilton to hand over to Epstein and I remember seeing people on the internet collectively go “who cares? She’s rich and white.” Like...yes she’s wealthy and white but she was also a 19 year old who could have been groomed and handed over as a sex toy to a pedophile. Idc what demographic you belong to, nobody deserves that fate. Please understand I’m not caping for anyone it’s just that it’s incredibly disheartening to see so many people tout themselves as feminists (literally keep intersectional feminism out of your mouth if you’re not using the term correctly) but simply ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ when reading about the violence and trauma inflicted on women they either don’t like (lbr if Candace Owens was brutalized nary a one of them would care) or don’t think are “oppressed enough” to warrant action much less sympathy.

its Not even a question, this attitude is all over social media. It’s “Karens”. And terfs. Dehumanising labels are slapped on women, mostly white women in this case, and they are no longer considered human beings worthy of life. which is one of the many reasons young white women are finding ways to claim marginalisation. So they can have respect and humanity in leftist circles. So they don’t get dismissed as unworthy of humanity. it also gives people, male and female, excuses to openly express hatred of women and spit out all their violent fantasies and get applause for it.

white men do not get this treatment.

You know ... I never thought of it like that. Women and girls who are seeking “oppression” points just want to be treated with respect and dignity in online circles. Because your value is how much oppression you go through daily.

But men who seek oppression points do so to win the arguments they created in the first place. It blows my mind how everything is just sexism at its core. Just wow.

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vou-duvidar

I knew some shit show was being cooked when back about 10 years ago everybody was suddenly gay or would make posts about how gay they were (even people who clearly weren't gay.) All things good were the gay ones and straights' were all bad things - like a superficial trend, homophobia was very much alive.

It's no surprise that now girls are collecting oppression tags to be heard and considered worth of sympathy...

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I feel like social media identity politics has honestly rotted so many people’s brains that they feel that unless a victim doesn’t tick off the boxes of a list of marginalized/oppressed identities, people are unable to sympathize with them. So like for example let’s say an able bodied white woman gets sexually assaulted, because she doesn’t fit the criteria of what these people think being “oppressed” means, she doesn’t deserve sympathy. Which...I have to say is alarming. I keep seeing the goal posts shift as to what “oppressed” means and who qualifies. Like I remember in the wake of that Epstein shit, I believe it came out that Ghislaine Maxwell lady had tried to essentially “recruit” a 19 year old Paris Hilton to hand over to Epstein and I remember seeing people on the internet collectively go “who cares? She’s rich and white.” Like...yes she’s wealthy and white but she was also a 19 year old who could have been groomed and handed over as a sex toy to a pedophile. Idc what demographic you belong to, nobody deserves that fate. Please understand I’m not caping for anyone it’s just that it’s incredibly disheartening to see so many people tout themselves as feminists (literally keep intersectional feminism out of your mouth if you’re not using the term correctly) but simply ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ when reading about the violence and trauma inflicted on women they either don’t like (lbr if Candace Owens was brutalized nary a one of them would care) or don’t think are “oppressed enough” to warrant action much less sympathy.

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TELL YOUR MOTHERS, SISTERS, DAUGHTERS AND EVERY WOMAN YOU KNOW! NEVER USE A MALE GYNAECOLOGIST. ALWAYS REQUEST AND INSIST ON A FEMALE GYNAECOLOGIST!

Kill them all

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vou-duvidar

It's true that male gynecologists can't be trusted, but I feel compelled to point out that the woman who made this tiktok is mega misogynistic. Her former tiktok handle was toiletbowldevil. She identifies as "nonbinary" and says that the reason elective sterilization like hysterectomies, oophorectomies, tubal ligations, etc., are inaccessible to women of childbearing age is because we're lazy and ineffective activists, and not like, because we live in a patriarchy that values us primarily as sex objects and tools of reproduction.

If you search for abortion on my page, the video where she spouted this misogynistic bullshit is one of the first results right now.

omg....I really hope she changed...but I don't expect she did

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