Reblog if you think a woman can be complete without children

Y’ALL HAVE TIME TO REBLOG THIS. IT TAKES LESS THAN FIVE SECONDS.

White Feminism

I wish more white people - and white women especially - would get over their white fragility and truly understand how words and actions like these do more harm than good to women of color. They need to stop making everything about themselves and catering to other whites women like women of color don’t exist.

ok but are you willing to date a trans woman even if she never wants to have sex? will you still love her if she's ace or has sensory issues or has dysphoria or just doesn't want to ever have sex for any reason? do you still see her as a full human being worthy of respect, kindness, care, and love even knowing she will never have sex with you?

I don't think it's healthy to frame it like this. Some people want sex in a relationship and some people don't. Ostracizing people that want sex in their relationship isn't helpful.

if your trans girlfriend comes out as ace and you need sex in a relationship that she doesn't feel comfortable doing with you, then you should either work something out so that you can get your sexual needs filled elsewhere or stop dating her. this applies to all relationships of course but so many trans women are valued exclusively for their willingness to be sex objects and I'm fucking sick of it. can you imagine what it's like to be one of the most fetishized minorities in the world while being ace? do you have any idea how much it fucks with trans women's self-esteem when people lose interest in them and stop even pretending to care about them because they don't want to have sex? do you know how many of them stay with partners who coerce them into sex that they don't want so that they can at least feel like someone cares about them? you'll have to forgive me if my sympathies lie with my fellow ace trans women instead of the people who treat them as sex toys they can dispose of when they're deemed no longer useful.

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Your favorite writers have stopped updating, not returned from hiatus, or simply deactivated altogether, because they get no support.

If you're one of the people who goes to X writer's inbox and says "I know I don't reblog from you-" lemme just stop you right there.

We have lives. We have duties, things to do, responsibilities, because a big chunk of us are adults. It's okay that you have other things, that you're not always available, that you might be going through something and can't always read or reblog everything. Writers get that.

But no writer wants to see you tell them "Hey, I know I don't reblog from you!"

They know. They're in a slump for a reason. The reason isn't you not reblogging or supporting them, the reason is hardly anyone doing it.

And if you go to them and wave the "hey!! I don't reblog from you even though it's all you ask in return for your free work!" card, chances are, the writer will be upset. They can't very well point out how tactless you're being, because then they might just be cancelled or called out for being rude to you when you are deliberately being tone-deaf to their situation as well.

Like you, writers have lives outside. Writers have jobs, or are searching for them; they have worries, duties, things going on, worries, etc.

The difference is they sit for hours upon hours to write, while it would only take you between a second and a minute to reblog.

Reblogging is absolutely not difficult. Fast reblogging is incredibly quick and practical, but "slow" reblogging isn't slow either. You don't even have to add a comment to the reblog, an empty reblog is just as appreciated.

Supporting your writers is literally not difficult, and if you as a reader and as a consumer aren't going to do it, then it's totally fine if you choose not to. Your life, your blog, your choice.

But don't go at a writer to remind them "Hey I know I'm among the people who doesn't support you but I still like what you write" and expect them to be overwhelmed with joy without feeling the slightest tinge of resentment.

Likes do nothing!!!

If you're in the position to support a writer, do it. It's not hard.

Inaction to inhumanity is not an option.

#FreePalestine

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expectation vs reality [writers edition]

So real