I was just wondering if the idea of warm and soft with a bit of " I'll smack ya if you're a fool" was worn out when it comes to lances mother. I don't wanna be too cliche and possibly insulting since a lot of Hispanic mothers are interpreted as that
so mind you this is an opinion and not the general rule, but when it comes to writing that sort of relationship it comes down to tone. a lot of time when hispanic people write hispanic mothers like that it’s either a tone of a joke or nostalgia in a way because they experienced it. but when people write that and haven’t lived through it, it can come off as offensive.
i think the best way is to if you want to have that sort of dynamic, understand that there’s a line that you may very well cross. there are ways to write authoritative parents without making them an abusive stereotype.