13, 18, 22!
13 - my birthday this year was good! i turned 30! which is a milestone, for sure, but was right in the thick of final dissertation writing so it's kind of a blur. I had originally planned to defend in april, but that came up fast after the whirlwind spring semester (campus pretty much shut down for two weeks after the mass shooting so while that should not have actually affected my timeline, i still ended up feeling like i was exactly two weeks behind 😂). i had hoped to defend just before my 30th birthday (april 29!) just so I could say i did, but i finally acquiesced sometime in march, I think, to admit my original date was too aggressive 😂 then my advisor had a month long trip abroad, which meant instead of delaying the couple weeks I needed, i pushed back about 6 weeks and had a weirdly stressful but also leisurely (?!) finish. we had a big party celebrating both dissertation and birthdays (and also kind of engagement, since we never had an engagement party) after my defense! basically everyone came up post-defense and my friends were like "you've been too busy to let us celebrate you! we're doing it all" which was very sweet and appreciated.
18 - a memorable meal this year, hm. I suppose thanksgiving this year was quite memorable! fiancé and i hosted our parents for the first time! we've been in apartments for the last few years but are renting a whole ass Adult home since moving for my postdoc. It was really nice to be able to have both his mom and my parents stay with us, have plenty of space to sleep everyone, and then be the ones making the meal. mitch cooked a fantastic turkey and we had a lovely time.
22 - favorite place i visited this year! I didn't travel much this year, but went to atlanta, athens and charlotte this summer! the charlotte trip was with my best girl friends from college and was a lot of fun. it was a goal of mine to re-prioritize and spend more time with friends and family after I finished grad school, so these trips were all part of that effort! charlotte was really fun (even though we had quite the airbnb fiasco!). we spent a bit of time at an olympic training facility nearby which was cool, too!
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