the fundamental tension between wanting to dissociate modes of dress from gender and people wanting to use modes of dress to signify their gender so they don't have to play the Pronoun Game
There was a trans girl I used to follow on tumblr, who I think is no longer here but might have just changed her name and I lost track
who commented on how it was easier to pass in Utah than it was in San Francisco. In Utah people were like "wearing a dress, has earrings, must be a girl, check!" Whereas in SF people would pass her on the street and say "hey man, nice dress!"
Are you people seriously implying Utah is better than California for trans women
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