Thank you! @flawlessbellamy

Okay, if anyone has the got leaked eps link can you hit a girl up?

Me too I've seen people's opinions so i need answers!

Reblog to have something good happen at 1:42 tomorrow

S1E6 - “Pride, Pomp and Circumstance”

Nonnatives were reblogging this without the caption. Keep it. Read it. Acknowledge it.

Fun things they don’t teach you in sex ed.

Talcum powder has asbestos in it. Has for years. Leave it be

I hope all of you wake up tomorrow with better skin and a happier heart

ok: not wanting kids

not ok: having no empathy for children and thinking emotionally abusing them is okay

seriously can yall stop fucking debating this? all i said was ‘dont abuse children’ jesus fucking christ

telling ppl attracted to men that there are no good men out there or that men can’t love only normalizes poor treatment from men & doesn’t do anything helpful

Also also it perpetuates internalized hatred and low self-esteem in men who are genuinely good and it leads to poor mental health and the sense that as a result of being the gender they are they are automatically to be reviled.

one of my favorite additions to any post i’ve ever made

Unpopular opinion: Finn may have been a cheater but he still treated Clarke better than Spacekru ever did.

Wtf why is this so true

“But your abuse made you kind”

I was always kind. My abuse tested my kindness and you are testing my patience.

‘no, my abuse made me a spineless jellyfish living in perpetual fear of standing up for myself, but thank you for framing that as a positive thing you like about me’

“I am a good person despite my abuse, not because of it”

Abuse made me hypersensitive to other people’s emotions while neglecting my own boundaries and comfort because I’m afraid of upsetting someone or having them lash out at me.

I was already strong. I was already smart. I was already empathetic. Anything I learned over time comes from me and not from my abuse or my abuser. Fuck anyone who asks survivors to give abusers even a singular ounce of credit for their own attributes. Literally eat a bag of shit covered dicks and never speak again.

I learned to value kindness thanks to the people who taught me what kindness was. I learned intelligence, courage, bravery, compassion, and love thanks to interacting with intelligent, courageous, brave, compassionate, loving people. My abuse and my abuser did not make me any of those things. My abuse made me afraid and angry and sad, and worst of all numb. My abuse made me doubt and fear every single thing- my interests, my friends, my family, even myself. My abuse was painful. My abuser made me feel broken, worthless, inept. I refuse to give any credit to my abuser for the things the people I love taught me. Ever.

soft asks:

Bi culture: Being attracted to women with short hair and men with long hair

 also bi culture: being attracted to soft cute men and buff intimidating women

this is so important