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i'm nat and i STILL love marco bodt in 2023. used to be chingeki but now i am also chingeki on a newer blog
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zodiac this or that

aries:  thunder or lightning? tattoos or piercings? truth or lies? fight or flight? bette davis or joan crawford? balcony over the sea or balcony over the city? carriage of a train on the countryside or car ride in malibu? elegant sail boat or luxury limousine? pisces or taurus?

taurus: cats or dogs? chocolate or vanilla or strawberry? spender or saver? fruit or vegetables? brunch on the porch or supper at a classy restaurant? flowery perfume or musky cologne? ladurée macarons or chocolate soufflé? battle of the hepburns: katharine or audrey? aries or gemini?

gemini: alone or with company? tv or films? talking on the phone or texting? marilyn monroe or judy garland? old newspapers or antique radio? picnic in a lush field or champagne under the moon? famous news journalist or famous fashion editor? taurus or cancer?

cancer: rain or shine? naughty or nice? summer or winter? dreams or nightmares? introvert or extrovert? water or land? elegantly crying in a tub or elegantly crying by a lake? records by 1950′s singers or classical piano music? wine in an expensive parlor or wine by an expensive pool? bowl of peaches or bowl of grapefruit? olivia de havilland or natalie wood? gemini or leo?

leo: brunettes or blondes or redheads? fame or fortune? king or queen? sunlight or moonlight? straight hair or curly hair? winter break or summer vacation? diamond chandelier or romantic candlelight? elegant cruise ship or smoky jazz club? receive a grammy or receive an oscar?  mae west or myrna loy? cancer or virgo?

virgo: messy or neat? neutral or colourful? north or south? spring or autumn? black or white? tall or small? lauren bacall or ingrid bergman? bouquet of roses or edible arrangements? reading under a tree or reading on a bench swing? lost in a forest or lost in a museum? leo or libra?

libra: hugs or kisses? best friends or partners? long hair or short hair? yves saint laurent or gucci?  rose garden wedding or old church wedding? go to see a ballet or go to see a musical? quiet art gallery or history museum? hollywood vanity mirror or victorian hand mirror? catherine deneuve or rita hayworth? virgo or scorpio?

scorpio: pleasure or pain? love or hate? white chocolate or milk chocolate or dark chocolate? love or lust? night or day? now or forever? the ritz paris or chateau marmont? bedroom eyes or messy hair? live in a historical drama or live in a noir spy film? lace top stockings or sheer hosiery? vivien leigh or grace kelly? libra or sagittarius?

sagittarius: outdoor or indoor? are you a storyteller or do you get to the point? brutal honesty or be diplomatic? small town or big city? paris honeymoon or vegas honeymoon? summer in italy or summer in moroccocarnival under the stars or morning fair? claw footed bathtub or luxury spa tub? betty grable or jane fonda? scorpio or capricorn?

capricorn: films or books? coffee or tea? late nights or early mornings? benevolent leader or dictator? writing or reading? encyclopedias or collection of poetry? typewriter or quill and ink? classic black heels or faux fur heels? pearl necklace or diamond bracelet? marlene dietrich or ava gardner? sagittarius or aquarius?

aquarius: fact or theory? mac or pc? group work or individual? noise or silence? family or friends? deep space or deep sea? sketching in a museum or journaling in a café? world war ii films or romantic period films? long talks or long letters? lana turner or vanessa redgrave? capricorn or pisces?

pisces: guitar or piano? fantasy or reality? song or dance? drugs or drink? past or future? love letter or serenade? silky beige bathrobe or monogrammed cotton robe? plush white hotel bedding or soft pink lace bedding? elizabeth taylor or jean harlow? aquarius or aries?

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tycoonafish

This character in this painting is simultaneously beautiful and menacing, but if I saw them in a social setting I might try to talk to them. That is unless their only way if communication was via high pitched bloodbourne style beast screams and the urge to either murder me, consume me, or assimilate me into their face.

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pigeony

what if you’re giving birth to twins and it’s the end of daylights savings day and the older twin was born first but the second twin travels back in time and is born an hour before the first twin, would that be fucked up or what.

I don’t even remember typing this holy shit

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dagrfinn

Being born physically later, but chronologically older is a fucking power move if I’ve ever heard of one. 

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atratum
“We Wear Culture” is a collaboration between Google and more than 180 museums, schools, fashion institutions, and other organizations from all parts of the globe. It’s part of Google’s Arts & Culture platform, which is digitizing the world’s cultural treasures, and functions as a searchable guide to a collective archive of some 30,000 fashion pieces that puts “three millennia of fashion at your fingertips,” Google says.
But it isn’t just a database. Google has worked with curators to create more than 450 exhibits on different topics—say, how the cheongsam changed the way Chinese women dress—making the site an endlessly entertaining, educational portal filled with stunning imagery touching on everything from modern Japanese streetwear to the clothes worn at the court of Versailles.

i can already tell this has made writing for historical fandoms – the worst part of which, for me, is absofuckinglutely hands-down the clothing – much easier. 

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yamino

It’s not only about ancient history– the first one I clicked on is called “Museum of Transology” and it’s about how fashion has played a role in trans lives.  I can’t wait to explore this further!

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honestly? im done with the lies. being little spoon fuckign sucks okay? it really does. its hot and sweaty and cramped and you better believe that arm wrapped around you is gunna go from “acceptable foreign weight” to “there is a literal blue whale colony collapsed atop you” in about 2 minutes flat. yall forreal want a FLESH BLANKET encasing you??? a goddamn slab prison of human skin and Person Tissue draped across your corporeal form??? find a God and grovel for redemption.

being big spoon though? divine. precious. it grants the sensation of being a benevolent egg white, swaddled loosely within your blanket shell as you in turn cradle the precious yolk within your grasp. you are a sublime deity of warmth and comfort, one who may bestow your blessing on any mortal you deem fit. an unparalleled joy to perform.

and you can grab a tit ty

can yall please stop reblogging this post i made after eating three entire packages of marshmallow peeps washed down with a near-deadly amount of nyquil 

Just say you’re a top and move on OP

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pyomorphic

I’m going to kill mark zuckerberg for, among other things, being the most swagless creature on the planet. how you have all this money but you can’t dress yourself?? take off those ugly gray shirts and wear some fucking heron preston….. some fucking balenciaga. take a fucking trip to barneys and get your clout up you imbecile

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ive been reading a book that basically explains how so-called “brain differences” between the genders is the result of gendered socialization and not the cause of it. i honestly expected the book to be very cis-centric but its actually the opposite, the author stresses that testimony from trans ppl is actually indispensable because we’ve, in a sense, “lived both experiences”

more cis feminists should have this mindset

one of the first examples that she uses to introduce her point about how perception by others can shape a person’s performance actually uses a trans woman. it explains that as a certain trans woman became to be seen as a woman more and more frequently, the ppl arond her eventually started viewing her as being ill equipped for tasks that they did not bother her about pre-transition. eventually she even found herself underperforming in these tasks herself.

whats the name of the book

Delusions of Gender by Cordelia Fine

I knew it was this book before I’d finished reading the first two lines. Honestly this book is indispensible if you want to debunk any gender determinism people claim is science. I can’t recommend it enough.

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dodgylogic

She’s written a new one! It won the Royal Society prize for science book of the year, and it’s called Testosterone Rex, and it is excellent.

(Bonus: it’s making old white men really really mad.)

(Bonus bonus: I am myself a neuroscientist, and the old white men mentioned above – who are not – could not have missed the point harder if they’d actively tried. Which. Maybe?)

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tamarrud

“What can I do to help Syria?”

Well, after educating yourself and advocating for the rights of the Syrian people in their fight for freedom against a brutal dictatorship as well as naming and holding accountable those who aid the Assad regime such as Iran, Hezbollah and Russia among others, *breathes*, you can help by donating to any of the organisations/groups listed below. 

These groups mainly help on the ground in Syria providing aid; be it medical or psychological as well as food and clothes to those in need.

SAMS Foundation: the foundation works with Syrian American health care professionals and operates 106 medical facilities throughout Syria
Doctors Without Borders (also known as MSF): the organisation provides front-line medical treatment as well as providing drugs, medical supplies and equipment
Questscope: the organisation’s work is mostly centered on providing immediate trauma support and psychosocial counseling
Save the Children: the organisation is on the ground in Syria and in refugee communities providing children and their families with warm clothes, shelters, clean water and emergency care
Syrian Civil Defense (also known as The White Helmets): they are about 3,000 neutral, impartial and humanitarian Syrian volunteers who operate as first responders in rebel-held areas across the country. They were recently nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize.
Karam Foundation: the organisations is focused on educational opportunities for Syrian children, currently raising funds to rebuild schools in Syria.
NuDay Syria: the organisation’s mission focuses on bringing housing and food to displaced families with single mothers or wounded family members. They are especially concerned with the lack of safe shelter and living for single mothers with daughters.
Hand in Hand for Syria: the organisation provides aid including food, clothing, water, sanitation and crucial medical assistance 

According to the United Nations, there are almost 14 million Syrian refugees around the world (so far) in need of humanitarian aid. The groups below are mainly focused on helping Syrian refugees:

Migrant Offshore Aid Station: this charity exists to save children like Alan Kurdi, with a fleet of rescue boats patrolling the Mediterranean to save migrants lost at sea.
Refugees Welcome: dubbed as a kind of “Airbnb for refugees” this German nonprofit matches people with spare rooms with refugees in need of housing. If you don’t have a spare bed in Germany.
The Worldwide Tribe in Calais: a group of social activists documenting stories in the Calais migrant camp, they also raise relief funds.  
Small Projects Istanbul: the initiative provides classes and cultural enrichment and scholarships to Syrian children in Turkey.
International Medical Corps: they run a service center for Syrian refugees that provides medical care, classes and job training.
Medical Teams International: the organisation focuses on health and dental care for Syrian refugees in Lebanon. 
Mercy Corps: the group provides direct aid to Syrian refugees in the form of food and supplies, and by increasing access to clean water and sanitation, shelters, and safe spaces and activities for children
Shelterbox: the group has been providing emergency shelter and supplies to families affected by the Syrian crisis in Iraq Kurdistan, Jordan, Lebanon and Syria, including clothing, stoves and, water filters.
UNICEF: the UN agency focuses on assisting Syrian children by providing healthcare, nutrition, immunization, water and sanitation, and classes.
Oxfam: the nonprofit provides aid to Syrian refugees in Lebanon and Jordan such as clean water, sanitation services, and hygiene education to help ward of cholera and other intestinal diseases.

Yes, donating won’t stop barrel bombs from falling on besieged civilian areas (that comes by being vocal about Assad’s crimes) but it can definitely help create a start.

Speaking of educating yourselves, an initiative called Syria Social Campaign would send you one or two articles concerning Syria each week! You only have to submit your email address.

I have also found a more detailed list of things you can do to help aside from donations made by Syrian Solidarity Committee. I highly recommend going through it as it has many excellent recommendations.

Here’s the Syria Solidarity Calendar for those who would like to take part in solidarity events around the world

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