i absolutely adore older fans in fandom!!!!! i wish there were more of you!!!! to me, you are nothing but an extremely welcome presence!!!! here’s why:
- you all bring a really great perspective to your content creation. i’m 22. i’ve never owned a home or gotten married or raised children or had an actual career. lots of older fans have. when you write fic or hcs or draw art or do anything else based on those experiences, you’re often writing as someone who has actually done it. kidfic written by an actual parent? fluffy established relationship old married couple by someone who’s actually been married 10+ years? i wanna read that!!!!! it’s gonna be way better than what i as a 22 year old am gonna write on those topics. obvs i’m not saying you only have to write about grown up topics. even if you’re writing a college au, you’re bringing 30 more years of life experience to that than i am. that’s incredible!!!!! i want to consume any of the art you create simply bc you are far wiser/more experienced.
- i love having older friends! i worked at a used bookstore in high school w a bunch of 50/60 year old women & we had a ball!!! they gave me really good advice, told amazing stories, and made our four hour shifts fly by. much like the previous point, older friends are amazing bc they have such a different perspective than i do. i’m not asking older fandom ppl to be my mom, but i’m about to graduate college & what i wouldn’t give to have an older friend (not parent or professor) give me some advice about post-graduation life!!! your age is an asset imo!!!
- selfishly, i love seeing older people in fandom bc they give me hope for my own future. i’ve been in fandom for 11 years. literally half my life. it’s something i’ve remained passionate about for over a decade. i don’t see my love of fandom going anywhere any time soon. so i love to see actual adults (as opposed to baby adults like me) who are still in fandom bc it tells me i can do that too!!! 50 year olds on ao3 or w funko pops on their desks or gushing over cute fanart make me think that i don’t have to give up my passion as i get older, and that means a great deal.
- older fans get shit done. who do you think funds the ao3 donation drives? hell, who actually runs ao3? it ain’t the 14 year old kids, i’ll tell you that much. (kids, you are still extremely valuable & i treasure you all) adults w professional skills & actual incomes are frankly what keep the backbone institutions of fandoms running. we need you.
- and finally, you have every right to be here! even if i hadn’t just listed a bunch of reasons why your presence is incredibly important, you’d still belong here, bc you don’t have to earn fandom. ageism is bullshit. it’s discriminatory. you deserve to be here as much as anyone else. ppl in our society, esp women, are given such shit for aging & i’m not here for it. i don’t want to see wonderful people driven away from fandom bc of sexism & ageism. you belong here.
i feel really strongly about this, if you couldn’t tell. older fans are always welcome in fandom. we need you & we value you. i’m so sorry your age is a source of shame, but i think it’s actually incredibly cool!!! keep writing your amazing fic & know many of us (myself included) would be thrilled to learn our favorite fanfic writer was in her 50s.