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Absolutely unhinged

@ultrahamilham / ultrahamilham.tumblr.com

26 year old multishipper who just so happens to be a trans male writer with the best wife in the world. Also icon and banner belong to the wife, gagakumadraws.
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Bringing the side blog back!

Alright my friends! So with me moving back into writing, I've decided to start using my side blog again. So, I ask that you send any non fanfic related asks on over to @ultra-canadian-bacon! I don't want to flood my followers with random asks, so go ahead and send all your random asks on over there! It would be very much appreciated!! <3

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EMERGENCY LIFE UPDATE

I know I don't post much here, but @gagakumadraws and I are having a huge life emergency.

I know I said I wouldn't say where I live, but right now that doesn't matter because we don't have a place to call home anymore.

This morning, our house went up in flames. We lost everything we own to the fire. If we had to put a monetary value on it, we would say about $25k - $30k was lost including sentimental items from my late mother.

My cat Luna ran off but she was spotted somewhere nearby so we know she is safe for now. Everyone got out safe which is super important.

We have to start all over and we are overwhelmed to say the least. My amazing co worker has created a go fund me for us, so I will share the link here. Every penny counts. We need to find a new place to live ASAP. My uncle can give us a place to stay for a while but it's only temporary.

Times are tough so if you can't donate please don't worry. Sharing will help us as well ❤️

EMERGENCY UPDATE

Our other cat Jax; the one saved from the fire is now in critical condition.

He was perfectly fine from the day of the fire up until today. He had seen his normal vet and they said this could happen, but at the time he seemed fine to them. He started to show signs of serious smoke inhalation. We brought him right to the animal hospital, and now we are just waiting to hear some news.

He is in good hands, but fuck my heart can't handle this.

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EMERGENCY LIFE UPDATE

I know I don't post much here, but @gagakumadraws and I are having a huge life emergency.

I know I said I wouldn't say where I live, but right now that doesn't matter because we don't have a place to call home anymore.

This morning, our house went up in flames. We lost everything we own to the fire. If we had to put a monetary value on it, we would say about $25k - $30k was lost including sentimental items from my late mother.

My cat Luna ran off but she was spotted somewhere nearby so we know she is safe for now. Everyone got out safe which is super important.

We have to start all over and we are overwhelmed to say the least. My amazing co worker has created a go fund me for us, so I will share the link here. Every penny counts. We need to find a new place to live ASAP. My uncle can give us a place to stay for a while but it's only temporary.

Times are tough so if you can't donate please don't worry. Sharing will help us as well ❤️

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Anonymous asked:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY I HOPE IM NOT LATE 🎂🧁🎂🌈

AH! Thank you! Don't worry you're not late! Thank you so much!

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Anonymous asked:

You got time to get a job but not to write any fics? You are useless as a writer

I have time to support my way of living and not produce free content? Oh how DARE I prioritize myself and my family over a hobby!

🤣🤣🤣

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Anonymous asked:

Wow so now we gotte to trust our life to a fucking tranny. hope u die ugly

Hate to break it to you, love but chances are you're trusting your life to people of many different walks of life that you may not agree with. Dispatchers, paramedics, nurses, doctors, really anyone can be within the alphabet mafia and you won't know.

Hate me all you want but you'll need to accept that fact. Have the day you deserve my dear ❤️

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Anonymous asked:

Which city do you dispatch for? You don't have to answer!

I won't be giving the city, but I will say I dispatch within Southern Ontario!

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Anonymous asked:

Okay so you're a first responder now? Cool! Is it hard?

Yes I am! In some countries 911 dispatchers aren't first responders but they are here!

It can be hard, but it's incredibly rewarding!

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For the one person who wanted this update, I'm excited to share that I have gotten my dream job! I am officially an ambulance communications officer! I've worked towards this goal for years and I'm so happy!

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Hello Pumpkins!

I hope you have had a good festive season so far. The time has passed by in a blur, it feels. However, I decided I wanted to do a bunch of festive pieces again this year, starting with this one!

The original idea was to do the whole 12 Days of Artmas but I decided to take it easy and not stress about schedules or anything like that. I did make myself a handy dandy prompt list, though. The first prompt is Cozy. With some help from my husband I came up with ideas for all of them and to thank him for his help (he used his best puppy eyes on me, I had no choice), I dedicated the first piece to him, his Baldur's Gate 3 Tav and Astarion. I mean, I'm not even mad, they're so cute.

PS. If you want HD quality and a downloadable version, head over to my P-at-reon.

Excuse you, I didn't have to pull out my best puppy eyes! I used a toned down version! I save the best ones for when I know you'll say no!

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Buck: I never even finished that book report or people from Finland. I never even learned what they're called.

Maddie: Finnish.

Buck: I'm trying to!

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I was searching for some pretty Hanukkah gifs to schedule a post tomorrow wishing my Jewish followers Happy Hanukkah and I found a fit/shape/body building site that posted this

And I thought to myself, I simply must show my Jewish followers fit Menorah Man

muscle tov

MUSCLE TOV IM SCREAMING 

This was NOT how i planned to wish my Jewish followers Happy Hanukkah but with that said I must share these additions to the post:

Happy First night of Hanukkah my friends

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Anonymous asked:

Hey long time no see Kai. Going to sound silly but I used to have a crush on you and I kept it to myself until now. I've been following you for a long time and seen how you treat Hen and I want to thank you for showing what a healthy relationship is like because I found my true love recently and he's beyond perfect. I broke the cycle finally and I just want to thank you because I feel like you played a small part in it.

Hey! I'm so glad you found someone you can build something with! I truly wish the best for you my dear!!! I'm glad I was able to show you what a healthy relationship can look like. Please just keep in mind that a healthy relationship looks different with different people. Just keep communicating and I'm sure all will be good!!

Thank you for keeping me updated ❤️

Also sorry, I have no idea when you sent this. It's been a while since I've opened Tumblr 😅 life has been... Interesting as of late.

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Anonymous asked:

Are you OK? Lots of trans hate going around

I'm... About as okay as can be expected. I'm better off than many trans people right now. Transgender people are being attacked in many countries, especially the US. I have it cozy here in Canada, compared to all of that. The hate online is fucked and it bothers me, but I'm worried about my friends in America. I'm worried about the trans youth, I'm just... so DONE with all the bullshit. It's 2023, we should be going forward, not backwards. I'm hoping everyone will be okay...

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