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I’ve recently been sent this very concerning doc regarding Proud Hufflepuff from this instagram account. As some of you might already be aware, I am not her first victim of harassment and this doc outlines in detail all of her previous cases of harassment which she has gotten away with it scotch-free and without any apology towards any of her previous victims. It also includes irrefutable evidence that Proud Hufflepuff = The Heartslabyul Hatter.

This should really hit the nail on the hammer of how you all are letting a grown women run around completely unchecked. Like I said before, this fandom is a hellhole and I’ve already seen so many creators leaving the fandom. Maybe y’all should sit down and re-evaluate why there are so many weirdos and creeps roaming free. Hold people accountable for once.

it would help more if you all reblogged instead of just liking because proud hufflepuff/hatter is trying to evade responsibility by running into another fandom (obey me and genshin impact most likely). i don’t want these other spaces to cozy up to her without knowing what she’s done. protect other possible victims by sharing, thanks.

An Analysis On the-heartslabyul-hatter's Posts

tw: gaslighting, general toxic behavior

Disclaimer: If you don’t know what’s going on, I’d suggest asking someone else to recap what’s been happening because I don’t trust myself enough to accurately describe what’s happening and I don’t wanna spread misinformation. I don’t know the absolute full situation myself but I’m just sort of— thinking out loud?

Also take this with a grain of salt. This is merely me trying to study the behavior and actions of this individual. Please don't, by any means, send any hate to Hatter. This post is an analysis, not meant to spread hate.

Why I'm doing this :: Alright, so— Perhaps I don’t have a right to talk about this since I am not a good person. I know this for a fact. I have done some messed up shit and I’ve been a toxic friend/partner/etc. I’ve gaslit people, manipulated friends, and hurt people I claimed to care about. The real reason I’m taking medication right now and having therapy is because I didn’t want to hurt people. And I may not be a good person but hopefully— With enough patience, effort, therapy, and honest self reflection, I’ll be able to be an okay person.

However, I thought that it would be a learning experience for me and the people who read this if I tried to study Hatter's words and posts.

First Observation

In the first screenshot above, you can see that Hatter is claiming to be concerned with Kulfi getting in trouble with the law. But in the second screenshot above, she calls her stupid and immature, then proceeds to laugh and ridicule her. This implies contradictory behavior.

Now, I did some research and found that this may also be considered gaslighting:

This seems to fall in line with how Hatter was talking about Kulfi. She's expressing concern but also ridiculing her.

I also managed to find more screenshots from a deleted callout post of hers where this seemed to have started. First she says she's concerned, then immediately insults her.

Then there was the fact that if Hatter was truly concerned, then why bring up the fangame to the official twitter if she says that Kulfi could get in ""legal trouble""? What exactly is the reasoning behind that?

Second Observation

The insults, the ridicule, the talking down. This is also considered gaslighting as it likely aims to lower Kulfi's self esteem or make her seem less credible in the eyes of the audience.

[source]

Third Observation

This is Hatter's apology post on the matter. Now, how could this seem like gaslighting exactly? Well, according to this article:

Hatter doesn't seem to address the actual matter at hand: spreading false information on a nonprofit fangame, and instead focuses on different points instead and tries to debunk them so that Kulfi will seem less credible in the eyes of the audience.

She claims to be the "bigger person" but continued to insult Kulfi (a minor, might I remind you) in later posts after the apology.

End Notes

I am aware that with my past, I may not be the most credible person to talk about this topic. But personally I believe that if I truly wanted to become better, I must educate myself better on this topic. And what better way to learn than to analyse and understand the signs of gaslighting.

Putting that aside, feel free to give feedback on this post. I am not always aware if I've made an error or not since I tend to make careless mistakes. I am open to discussing this topic but please, please, be civil

An Analysis On the-heartslabyul-hatter's Posts

tw: gaslighting, general toxic behavior

Disclaimer: If you don’t know what’s going on, I’d suggest asking someone else to recap what’s been happening because I don’t trust myself enough to accurately describe what’s happening and I don’t wanna spread misinformation. I don’t know the absolute full situation myself but I’m just sort of— thinking out loud?

Also take this with a grain of salt. This is merely me trying to study the behavior and actions of this individual. Please don't, by any means, send any hate to Hatter. This post is an analysis, not meant to spread hate.

Why I'm doing this :: Alright, so— Perhaps I don’t have a right to talk about this since I am not a good person. I know this for a fact. I have done some messed up shit and I’ve been a toxic friend/partner/etc. I’ve gaslit people, manipulated friends, and hurt people I claimed to care about. The real reason I’m taking medication right now and having therapy is because I didn’t want to hurt people. And I may not be a good person but hopefully— With enough patience, effort, therapy, and honest self reflection, I’ll be able to be an okay person.

However, I thought that it would be a learning experience for me and the people who read this if I tried to study Hatter's words and posts.

First Observation

In the first screenshot above, you can see that Hatter is claiming to be concerned with Kulfi getting in trouble with the law. But in the second screenshot above, she calls her stupid and immature, then proceeds to laugh and ridicule her. This implies contradictory behavior.

Now, I did some research and found that this may also be considered gaslighting:

This seems to fall in line with how Hatter was talking about Kulfi. She's expressing concern but also ridiculing her.

I also managed to find more screenshots from a deleted callout post of hers where this seemed to have started. First she says she's concerned, then immediately insults her.

Then there was the fact that if Hatter was truly concerned, then why bring up the fangame to the official twitter if she says that Kulfi could get in ""legal trouble""? What exactly is the reasoning behind that?

Second Observation

The insults, the ridicule, the talking down. This is also considered gaslighting as it likely aims to lower Kulfi's self esteem or make her seem less credible in the eyes of the audience.

[source]

Third Observation

This is Hatter's apology post on the matter. Now, how could this seem like gaslighting exactly? Well, according to this article:

Hatter doesn't seem to address the actual matter at hand: spreading false information on a nonprofit fangame, and instead focuses on different points instead and tries to debunk them so that Kulfi will seem less credible in the eyes of the audience.

She claims to be the "bigger person" but continued to insult Kulfi (a minor, might I remind you) in later posts after the apology.

End Notes

I am aware that with my past, I may not be the most credible person to talk about this topic. But personally I believe that if I truly wanted to become better, I must educate myself better on this topic. And what better way to learn than to analyse and understand the signs of gaslighting.

Putting that aside, feel free to give feedback on this post. I am not always aware if I've made an error or not since I tend to make careless mistakes. I am open to discussing this topic but please, please, be civil

Turning off asks for a while due to receiving more death threats lately.

I think I’ll be taking a hiatus from the twst fandom for a while too because of this.

You don’t start being a good person when you’re perfectly kind and perfectly honest and perfectly tolerant, you start being a good person when you try. The fact that you care makes you a good person. The fact that you’re willing to learn makes you a good person. As long as it’s genuinely what you want, the only way you’re going is up.

Turning off asks for a while due to receiving more death threats lately.

I think I’ll be taking a hiatus from the twst fandom for a while too because of this.

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