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You are terrifying, and strange, and beautiful.

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Forgiveness is warm. Like a tear on a cheek. Think of that and of me when you stand in the rain. I loved you completely, and you loved me the same. That‘s all. The rest is confetti.

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50 Quotes About Moving On

I may think of you softly from time to time. But I’ll cut off my hand before I ever reach for you again.

Arthur Miller, The Crucible

I am slowly learning that some people are not good for me, no matter how much I love them. I deserve someone who is gentle and kind, because my soul is getting tired. Realizing that I deserve something good is one of the first steps.

Michelle K., Why I Need to Say Goodbye to You

How do you move on? You move on when your heart finally understands that there is no turning back.

You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It wont happen automatically. You will have to rise up and say, ‘I don’t care how hard this is, I don’t care how disappointed I am, I’m not going to let this get the best of me. I’m moving on with my life.

They say you don’t get over someone until you find someone or something better. As humans, we don’t deal well with emptiness. Any empty space must be filled. Immediately. The pain of emptiness is too strong. It compels the victim to fill that place. A single moment with that empty spot causes excruciating pain. That’s why we run from distraction to distraction and from attachment to attachment.

I want to thank you for never being there anymore. Your absence has forced me to find my own way.

— Unknown

You get a strange feeling when you’re about to leave a place. Like you’ll not only miss the people you love but you’ll miss the person you are now at this time and this place, because you’ll never be this way ever again.

You never get over it. But you get to where it doesn’t bother you so much.

Jeffrey Eugenides, The Virgin Suicides

…You can’t get away from yourself by moving from one place to another.

—  Ernest Hemingway, The Sun Also Rises

I needed to be somewhere different. Maybe I needed to be someone different, too.

— Heather Davis, The Clearing

I didn’t leave because I stopped loving you, I left because the longer I stayed the less I loved myself.

You get a strange feeling when you’re about to leave a place. Like you’ll not only miss the people you love but you’ll miss the person you are now at this time and this place, because you’ll never be this way ever again.

You knew me once, but you won’t know me twice.

James Joyce, Finnegan’s Wake

Let it hurt. Let it bleed. Let it heal. And let it go.

I let it go. It’s like swimming against the current. It exhausts you. After a while, whoever you are, you just have to let go, and the river brings you home.

— Joanne Harris, Five Quarters of the Orange

When someone won’t let you in, eventually you stop knocking. Know what I mean?

Taking a deep breathe, I made one of the hardest decisions of my life. I walked away.

Richelle Mead, Vampire Academy

I just hope that one day—preferably when we’re both blind drunk—we can talk about it.

— Salinger, J.D.. Franny and Zooey. 

It’s better this way. A little lonelier but better.

Lisa Schroeder, The Day Before  

It is so hard to leave—until you leave. And then it is the easiest goddamned thing in the world.

Of course, you never really forget anyone, but you certainly release them. You stop allowing their history to have any meaning for you today. You let them change their haircut, let them move, let them fall in love again. And when you see this person you have let go, you realize that there is no reason to be sad. The person you knew exists somewhere, but you are separated by too much time to reach them again.

Chelsea Fagan, How We Let People Go 

Growing apart doesn’t change the fact that for a long time we grew side by side; our roots will always be tangled. I’m glad for that.

— Ally Condie, Matched

i believe in growth. the kind that hurts and the kind that heals.

…I love you so much. So, so much, and I probably always will. I just don’t like you anymore. I’m sorry.

There was nothing to talk about anymore. The only thing to do was go.

When life is sweet, say thank you and celebrate. And when life is bitter, say thank you and grow.

Shauna Niequist, Bittersweet

Scar tissue is stronger than regular tissue. Realize the strength, move on.

You’ve got to let go of who you were, to become who you will be.

You were hurt badly, and those scars will be with you for ever. I feel sorry for you, I really do. But think of it like this: it’s not too late to recover. You’re young, you’re tough. You’re adaptable. You can patch up your wounds, lift up your head and move on.

Gone. The saddest word in the language. In any language.

Mark Slouka, God’s Fool 

I know—better than anyone—that once someone’s made up their mind to leave you, there’s nothing you can do to make them stay.

Terra Elan McVoy, Being Friends with Boys

Even if I see you again, I will never see you again.

When someone won’t let you in, eventually you stop knocking. Know what I mean?

My life has changed, and I’m changing with it.

Sophie Kinsella, The Undomestic Goddess That is the saddest part when you lose someone you love—that person keeps changing. And later you wonder, is this the same person I lost?

Amy Tan, The Kitchen God’s Wife

The hardest part about walking away from someone is the part where you realize that, no matter how slowly you go, they will never run after you.

When someone leaves, it’s because someone else is about to arrive.

Paulo Coelho, The Zahir

It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you’ve known forever don’t see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.

Some people enter your life in a whirlwind and no matter how hard you try you can’t stop thinking about them, even after they leave…especially after they leave.

They won’t understand until you leave. The minute you walk away you’ll become ‘the best they’ve ever had.’ It’s crazy how loss triggers love.

Someday you’re gonna look back on this moment of your life as such a sweet time of grieving. You’ll see that you were in mourning and your heart was broken, but your life was changing.

— Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love.

know that feeling. You have to do something. You have to change something radically, because you can’t stay like you are for another second, or you’re going to explode.

Jennifer Echols, Forget You When someone leaves, it’s because someone else is about to arrive.

It’s hard to let go. Even when what you’re holding onto is full of thorns, it’s hard to let go. Maybe especially then.

Of course, you never really forget anyone, but you certainly release them. You stop allowing their history to have any meaning for you today. You let them change their haircut, let them move, let them fall in love again. And when you see this person you have let go, you realize that there is no reason to be sad. The person you knew exists somewhere, but you are separated by too much time to reach them again.

Chelsea Fagan, How We Let People Go

Never waste your time wondering about what might have been. Get busy thinking about what still might be. And trusting that whatever it is, it will leave you glad that what might have been, never came to be.

To say goodbye is to die a little.

Raymond Chandler, The Long Goodbye

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Carly Simon writing You’re So Vain about such a specific man, yet including the line “you probably think this song is about you” so that if he took it personally he would prove her point? Unparalleled power move

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“I used to believe that the human race as a whole was basically a few steps above wolves. That given the slightest change in circumstances, we would all, sooner or later, tear each other to shreds. That we were, at root, self-interested, cowardly, envious and potentially dangerous in groups. I have since come to believe — after many meals with many different people in many, many different places — that though there is no shortage of people who would do us harm, we are essentially good. That the world is, in fact, filled with mostly good and decent people who are simply doing the best they can. Everybody, it turns out, is proud of their food (when they have it). They enjoy sharing it with others (if they can). They love their children. They like a good joke. Sitting at the table has allowed me a privileged perspective and access that others, looking principally for “the story,” do not, I believe, always get. People feel free, with a goofy American guy who has expressed interest only in their food and what they do for fun, to tell stories about themselves — to let their guard down, to be and to reveal, on occasion, their truest selves. … People, wherever they live, are not statistics. They are not abstractions. … I’m not saying that sitting down with people and sharing a plate is the answer to world peace. Not by a long shot. But it can’t hurt.” - Anthony Bourdain

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I have to admit, Chris Hemsworth singing with his family, turns my heart into goo.❤️ +

wasnt this song about his brother? ldfkmghkjmdf #PowerMove

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even more of power move, he tagged both liam and miley in it in the comment for everyone to see

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“Travel isn’t always pretty. It isn’t always comfortable. Sometimes it hurts, it even breaks your heart. But that’s okay. The journey changes you; it should change you. It leaves marks on your memory, on your consciousness, on your heart, and on your body. You take something with you. Hopefully you leave something good behind.” Anthony Bourdain ( June 25th 1956 - June 8th 2018 )

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