There’s nothing more heart warming than the moment you realise you’re healing,
The moment you realise that you are where you are meant to be right at this moment,
The moment you feel proud of yourself for trying your hardest no matter the obstacles,
The moment you realise how strong you actually are
please keep on fighting
-Victor Hugo
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Exactly!!
i feel like i’m constantly relearning to love the world again after very painful experiences and grief but sometimes it’s as simple as stepping outside and seeing a flower with a bright yellow centre and thinking “oh, how stunning!”
boobs are good
grieving someone who is still alive is so painful, it’s like your head knows they are still here in arms length but you can not get too them. You can not reach out or hold them anymore.
This is your reminder that you don’t need anything fancy to make a good day. Just a soothing shower, a nice meal, and a little fun activity. Don’t overlook the little nice things in life. They’re right in front of you. you just have to be the one to notice them. It’s your first time experiencing today: let it be fun and enthusiastic!!! It’s your first time being the self that you are today— i’m so excited for you!!! I love you so much <3
“It is quite unbelievable that there will be people that I will love unconditionally that I have not even met yet. Somewhere out there, in a supermarket or singing in the shower, there are souls that have not touched mine yet but will, eventually.”
— J.D.M.
You don’t need to be perfect or entirely healed to deserve love and care from others. Genuine growth cannot happen only in isolation: growth and awareness happen with new experiences. Relationships are meant to be mutually healing, caring, and supportive experiences. Don’t shrink back into yourself and promise that you’ll return to the world once you’re more healed or a “better” version of yourself. You deserve to be cared for, loved, and held close RIGHT NOW. Why? Because you’re a human being. You are part of a community and that is the goal of having one: loving you even when it is hard for you to love yourself.
Reminder to stop selling yourself short, stop giving all of yourself too someone else when you get nothing in return. You are worth much more than that.
I will forever gently remind you that your worth does not depend on your ability too be productive, no matter how much you get done you’re still worthy. Always.
