Gunne Sax Ruffle Gown
Thinking about the dichotomy of "I feel uncomfortable/triggered in the presence of x/y/z environments I would like to be someplace without that" that I constantly see online and when I tell my therapist I really get uncomfortable when people raise their voices around me even if they aren't actually mad and her response of "you can only control your own reactions and emotions, it's not really fair to police others on how they should exist in your presence" and honestly it sucks to hear but she's right.. it's good to have people be conscientious of what triggers you but really it's up to us to do the hard work of building that emotional resilience. The idea of people around me having to be hypervigilant of what they say and do lest I start getting dysregulated does not sound fun at all, I want people to feel comfortable being themselves around me and that means training my dumb lizard brain to chill tf out. Living in a constant state of avoidance sucks ass for everyone involved.
Rootbeer (Gifβd by @starbashir ) & Kombucha (unknown, Brittany Broski)
This is a huge part of why listening to public trans discourse as a trans biologist is infuriating. 4chan OP is based AF.
Never thought I would see the sentence "4chan OP is based AF" be used and I especially never thought I'd agree but here we are
Iβm sorry but name ONE trope better thanΒ βbroken people with different kinds of baggage come together and form their own familyβ there is nothing to top it
who up chemicaling their romance βοΈβοΈ
NASA replied to a Shawol's comment using HARD's lyrics π
SHINee atoz shared the comment on ig story
SHINee left a comment under the post: shinee: HARD like NASA πππππ
Jinki liked the postΒ π
these really turned out even more gorgeous than i expected, i canβt wait to see other people with them and loving and using them <3
imagine one of those country songs that's all "no more women I'm in love with my truck" but as the song progresses it becomes increasingly clear that the lyrics are describing a literal gay relationship with Optimus Prime
Cogpsi nerds are just like this, maybe.
i am going to create the worst lotr fancast
send me anon hate and Iβll do the rest of the cast
hmm. who am i missing
i feel like this is some sort of hate crime.
tags via @bunabi
how does it feel to be the funniest person in the world
Friendly reminder that fan-made content (fanart, fanfic, fanvids, etc) are:
- extremely time consuming. Remember someone actually took time out of their life to create that, time they couldβve used to, idk, sleep, for example
- entertainment youβre consuming for free. I canβt stress this enough: youβre enjoying someone elseβs craft for free. You paid exactly zero money to look at/read/watch it.
- S H A R E DΒ with you, not made for you. This is the most important point: someone created that, put it online and you found it. No one forced you to consume that fanwork, you C H O S EΒ to do it.Β
Whenever you feel like leaving a mean comment, anonymous hate or make a ~clever post about howΒ βlol look at all of these overused tropes every fic writer crams into their ficsβ remember youβre being a dick to someone who shared their work with you. Youβre not being funny, youβre not being edgy, youβre not being brave for calling something out - youβre being a dick.
Also adding that, because it is free, you donβt get the right to barge into creatorsβ messages to demand content. If you want something tailored just for you, be prepared to pay for it.
love a character that's like. i survived (<- not a brag) (<- this is a curse that weighs on me every waking hour)
Was going to make a joke about how on a station full of interesting and exciting characters Julian really chose to latch onto the most just some guy in all of Star Trek for a best friend and then I realized that miles represents everything that julian wants to be like Julian wants to be the best at what he does through hard work like Miles and not through genetic augmentation because he feels like he hasnβt really earned it and he wants to have a family that he can go home to every night because Julian feels incredibly lonely most of the time
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u see kaine approaching towards you like this wyd