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Welcome to my ASOIAF This is an anti-d&d blog (you can blacklist #the show and #desolation & disappointment) I tag everything so if you don't want to see something you can always blacklist. (you can also tell me to tag some TW for you)
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dhaaruni
ā€œWhen we kill women in our stories, we arenā€™t just annihilating female gendered bodies. We are annihilating the feminine as a force wherever it resides ā€” in women, in men, of the natural world. Because what we really mean when we say we want strong female leads is: ā€œGive me a man but in the body of a woman I still want to see naked. Itā€™s difficult for us to imagine femininity itself ā€” empathy, vulnerability, listening ā€” as strong. When I look at the world our stories have helped us envision and then erect, these are the very qualities that have been vanquished in favor of an overwrought masculinity. I donā€™t believe the feminine is sublime and the masculine is horrifying. I believe both are valuable, essential, powerful. But we have maligned one, venerated the other, and fallen into exaggerated performances of both that cause harm to all. How do we restore balance? Or how do we evolve beyond the limitations that binaries like feminine/masculine present in the first place?ā€
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I saw everyone on twitter tearing Emma Watson apart for saying sheā€™sĀ self - partneredĀ instead of single and decided to watch her interview for British Vogue to know what the hell was she trying to say with that. I was very surprised to find a 30 minute video in which amongst other things she talks about the following:

  • She felt undeserving when she was appointed as UN Women goodwill ambassador and sought out Gloria Steinem to learn about feminist activism.
  • She thinks the criticism she received for being a white feminist was useful because it made her educate herself.
  • She says thereā€™s a desperate need to reform the education system in the UK to change the way they are taught the history of how Britain has been involved in foreign affairs and how they profited from slavery.
  • She felt anxious about approaching 30 because thereā€™s a lot of pressure to have a husband and a baby by then and sheā€™s still figuring her life out.
  • She was so young when she was casted in Harry Potter that she doesnā€™t remember much of her life before it and she went to therapy to deal with her issues with fame. She used to feel very guilty for being unhappy because she thought she should enjoy fame more.
  • The interviewer is a transgender woman and they discuss transgender issues for a while. Emma is in regular contact with a trans child which makes the topic of trans rights emotional for her because sheā€™s very anxious for this kidā€™s safety.
  • She talks about her role as Meg March in the new Little Women movie and defends that unlike what many people say choosing to be a wife and a mother doesnā€™t make Meg a less feminist character and quotes a line from the movie, ā€œJust because my dreams are different than yours it doesnā€™t mean they are unimportant.ā€ Ā 
  • She wishes more people would realize sheā€™s not Hermione Granger but also understands why they want to see that in her because Hermione is a symbol for her too.
  • She used to think she could never be happy without a partner and now that she has learnt to navigate that better and is genuinely happy single sheā€™s started to think of herself as self - partnered in contrast to the time when she thought of herself as single = lonely.

Every media outlet decided to focus in an out of context quote from the three minutes she talked about her dating life when the actual interview had a lot of depth and way more important things were discussed. Iā€™m sad and angry but not surprised.

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kendalroys
I never thought, growing up, I could really achieve my dreams, no matter how hard I worked. So when I did, I was, like, ā€œWell, this could all end tomorrow, so I better do something good with it while it lasts.ā€ Iā€™ve got a voice and I donā€™t necessarily have all the ideas, but I do have a platform from which to spread it.
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Jodie Comer wins Leading Actress for Killing Eve at the BAFTA TV Awards (May 2019) | Jodie Comer wins Outstanding Lead Actress in a Drama Series for Killing Eve at the 71st Primetime Emmy Awards (September 2019)

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