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Victorious Stranger

@kaldurcalm / kaldurcalm.tumblr.com

Icon is from rhymes.y on insta or rhymesart on etsy. you can buy it! it's a print!  header from beyonce-knowles-carter. I'm an adult. this blog is going to be adult sometimes. the flat chested gap toothed girl is the best I've been so far not here for antis. kiss the girl brain in a won't say I'm in love body.
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Smut goes on @toritomuttz, but I get nsfw here often.

@bpdlagaan is for heavy real world stuff. I'll usually reblog that here, but when I need a mental break I compartmentalize.

I almost always have a queue going. It's been full since Baldur's Gate 3 came out.

I'm never going to judge someone for what they read, write, or draw.

I am going to judge you if you're mean to them about it. Block. Report if you think it's necessary. Blacklist. Move on. Those are the only appropriate actions for you.

Wishing harm on an actual person is far worse than anything they could ever create.

Everyone deserves a safe space in fandom. No exceptions.

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kaldurcalm

Vibrating because of this post but idk if they'll get mad at me if I add my thoughts to it

Gale is the one who was literally isolated in what he calls a tower for actual years.

His relationship with Mystra is also closer to Rapunzel's relationship with mother Gothel; he thinks she genuinely loves him at first and has to come to understand that the relationship was always unbalanced.

His interests are also closer to Rapunzel's; in the epilogue he can take up knitting and painting and start a book club.

Wyll knew a lot earlier that Mizora wasn't a good person and she never locked him away. I love him and I'm sorry it's just that the story beats for Gale line up a lot more closely.

Karlach could also fit, but that would be stretching it a lot. Hell isn't exactly isolation and she knew Zariel was a dick the entire time.

Actually... Wyll could fit Flynn Rider too. The Blade is a made up name he clings to in order to protect himself. Flynn based his personality on storybooks; bards tell stories about The Blade of Frontiers. They both had to fend for themselves at early ages.

Personality wise they're very different, but I think this concept could also fit the Wyll x Gale agenda.

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loonyoz

Not mad at all! I love these ideas! People should always feel free to add on or rebut my ideas (as long as it’s done respectfully ofc)

I definitely altered the Tangled story to fit my wyllstarion agenda lol

Love the idea of gale, as rapunzel and you’re right, it does fit his story/character well. Could also see Wyll as a less morally gray Flynn for sure. Also I love Karlach but girlboss has that hyperactive adhd for sure and would breakout of that tower SO fast

Well it took ten years for Avernus and she has the same sort of spunk.

Other than that it's mostly just me trying to figure out which characters would fit. At first I was going to say that none of the ladies fit Rapunzel, because they're different character archetypes.

I could stretch and say that all of them fit a bit because they've all been isolated in some way and dealt with controlling mother figures, but it's a pretty rough comparison.

I do think that they would all love and identify with a good telling of Rapunzel, even if they didn't want to admit it. I like to imagine introducing Karlach to all of the plays she missed while she was in hell. And I think Rapunzel would love her.

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nyancrimew

discomfort and disgust aren't the same thing as immorality and even though a lot of immoral things are also disgusting that isn't what makes them immoral, always keep this in mind when you judge other people for what they say, do or like

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Someone shared a post about the pear of anguish, saying it was used to torture slaves, and I thought its design was interesting but something felt slightly off, so I looked it up.

The first thing you see when you look this thing up is that its usage is disputed.

Apparently the mechanism doesn't seem to work the way it's said to work? It's said that people would slowly enlarge the opening in order to spread an orifice wider and wider, and that it could even break jaws.

The thing is, this device does not seem to open in this way. It seems to spring open. The screw mechanism is for closing it.

I relayed this information, thinking this was someone who would actually care about fact checking. "It might not actually have worked in this way. Its usage is disputed."

For some fucking dadblamed reason, they took this as me... questioning the existence of racism? And denying the suffering of black people?

I do a little more digging, and it's basically the same thing over and over. One guy insists that it's totally a torture device, because why else would it be in torture chamber museums?

I don't know, buddy, maybe because people like to make up stories and scare others.

That's one running theory for the existence of this thing: people wanted a good story. They wanted to be able to sell that story in order to make money. So they made elaborate devices and charged people to see them, or displayed them in order to scare their guests.

This part of the speculation, by the way, is from medieval times. There are no modern accounts of this item's usage.

We have so many accounts of slavery. We have so many ways to spread information. We're still able to converse with some of the children of the people who are still alive. We can still see the documents they left during that time.

Why would they leave this out? If it were actually in use, why would they relay the whippings, the confinement, the rape, the starvation, the harsh working conditions, the lynchings, the forced assimilation, and just... not mention this part?

Their friend piled on. I told him my statement was based on the way the device functions, and not "white people wouldn't do that." I told them that I didn't expect better from him, because I didn't know him, but I did expect better from them.

Apparently this was me making assumptions.

Gonna be honest, I didn't read the entirety of their responses, because this sort of thing is maddeningly upsetting to me. I thought I was safe to say something because, when I accidentally sent them a video by Alexis Nelson, they called it funny and informative. I know that doesn't seem like much, but... honestly, Alexis isn't going to be up everyone's alley, and sometimes that's due to bigotry. So I thought they would actually care, and not be mad about being checked. I've been in that situation plenty of times, and I normally don't say anything if I don't think I'm going to get through. I only say something if I have hope for that person.

I thought I might actually have a potential friend, and said person responded to "Hey this information might not be accurate" with... honestly, I can barely even parse the way they worded things? Something about slavery happening whether it was disputed or not.

I just wanted to fact check an unsourced facebook post.

#this has contributed to me feeling like no one wants to listen to anything i have to say and every relationship i have is doomed to fail!!#which I recognize is unhealthy!!#fellas is it splitting to get mad and unfriend someone for this nonsense#hm. maybe not what splitting is.#it's just so frustrating when someone is self righteous about their victim mentality#and every additional 'I'm not attacking you actually!' statement is perceived as an additional attack#I know I've done that but I'm WORKING ON IT#so it's frustrating to encounter in the wild and it sends me into the stratosphere#the fuck do you MEAN 'slavery happened even if it was disputed' i meant the SPECIFIC DEVICE YOU'RE MAKING CLAIMS ABOUT#I'm wildly oversimplifying. it was one hell of a sentence.#WHY DO YOU WANT MORE PAIN#THERE'S ENOUGH AS IT IS#WHY IS BAD IF I SAY THIS MIGHT NOT HAVE ACTUALLY BEEN USED TO HURT PEOPLE#WHY AM I THE ENEMY#WHY AM I THE ONE MAKING ASSUMPTIONS#I THOUGHT WE COULD BE FRIENDS#sorry I'll go try to forget about this now#between this and someone saying she needs ai because commissions are too expensive and free images aren't good enough i just...#don't feel like saying anything to anyone anymore#and I missed my window for productivity today. I should have sat down to write and I didn't#and now I'm tired and frustrated because bg3 glitched wyll's cape away and i don't know which save to load to get it back#or if it's my compute#it already ate my opportunity to get everything from dammon#i might need to reinstall#personal#why did i even try. i was shaking so bad. why does it hurt this much.
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my cat is incredibly sweet and wants nothing more than to be within a 5 ft radius of a person at all times, gently chilling in your orbit. he is also VERY, VERY DUMB 

it’s a slow morning so husband and I are reading, not making much noise. meanwhile, Barold goes downstairs to use his box and when he comes out, he starts yowling like his lil heart done broke. husband goes to to the top of the stairs all worried like, “Barold, what’s wrong?”

kitty zips back up the stairs and just oozes onto husband’s feet, purring high-powered lawnmower style. the realization hit us both at the same time…

this. boy. this itty bitty kitty boy. 

he couldn’t see or hear us for ten continuous seconds, forgot. we. were. home. and immediately burst into tears !!!!

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and I just wanted to update you that moments ago, this big orange infant found himself on the wrong side of a baby gate, could not hork his lorge butt over it, and so just started WAILING until everyone in the house came to rescue him. Me, my partner, the dog, our other cat… everyone came to be like, “Barold, what’s wrong?”

after this harrowing ordeal, he is now in my lap

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chonylolu

me: I have GOT to get weirder!

also me when I do get weirder: *visibly shaking* I'm going to be killed with hammers by everyone for being a freak.

I've grown and changed a bit. can say the best solution is to find more freaks to be weird with.

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justporo

Based on your oneshot Shooting Stars

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I kid you not that my reaction to this was: BURYING MY FACE IN A PILLOW AND SCREAM BECAUSE THIS IS SOOO BEAUTIFUL!!

How do you keep doing this oh my god, I feel so honoured and so grateful, your art is so wonderful and beautiful I would like to eat it! Thank you so so much, darling, I will hold this very close to my heart, along with your other pieces you blessed me with!

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It’s extremely easy to get me into new music. Recommend me a song or two from your friends’ band. Hold on. How many of you know a band

Ok. Now post a link for me

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ms-demeanor

listen to me as a murderous mermaid.

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