Yes I caught up on some DMs since writing this earlier and saw @flowerslut/@hotmail called people off too which I really appreciate!!! The dogpiling was not her fault at all and the harassment/hate I’ve been referencing since her ask has nothing to do with her. I now know her original ask was not coming from a bad place and neither of us wanted things to spiral the way that they did. She also checked in on me when she saw I was getting shit even though she didn’t need to bc she’s not responsible for other people’s actions. I don’t wanna re-start anything but I just wanna update/make it clear that my posts dragging Jasper stans who were racist and/or harassing me were not directed at her (nor were they directed at any one person) because she was nothing of the sort. I’m clarifying bc since she sent the first tag ask it might seem like that’s what I was referencing, but it wasn’t. I was referencing the resulting hateful and/or racist tags and anons I wound up getting, most of which I just straight-up deleted bc they were overwhelming, gross, and I didn’t wanna publish them. I’m still confused as to why the tagging issue became such a huge deal — as I’ve explained since, the neurodivergency I’m waiting to be seen for has me regularly baffled by/struggling to understand what does and doesn’t matter to other people, especially when it differs to what does or doesn’t matter to me — but if I could go back in time I simply wouldn’t have answered her original ask and saved us both a lot of trouble tbh 😐
