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Bisexual Baker

@bisexualbaker / bisexualbaker.tumblr.com

Neurodivergent, white, genderflux; she/her/hers or ey/em/eir. Gentile. I go by "Socchan" pretty much everywhere else. I am a full grown adult person. God of Soft Toys and Puns. And yes, I am also a bisexual person employed as a baker. If I screw up something in an image description, please let me know so I can fix it!
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silly-ehggy

No in between. Reblog if you vote pleas

Again, please reblog if you vote. At least like, man

For everyone not from the US this is 15.5°

"No in between," OP says.

But thanks to human biology, and the way we store and burn (brown) fat in response to our environment, in order to keep warm, 60F / 15.5C in January feels a lot different than 60F / 15.5C in July.

I gave it some thought, and ultimately made my vote based on what I would be wearing if there was a straight week of that temperature, regardless of time of year.

For me, it's not warm enough for shorts, so that makes it "cool".

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queerautism

If you are a trans person in the UK either under the care of a gender clinic, or even on the wait list for one, please do send them an email or letter opting out of your patient records and data being used for 'research', like the clearly transphobic review that's coming for adult services next.

This is especially important if you are under 30 years old.

There's a great template letter you can use here, it took me less than five minutes to copy stuff and send off an email.

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psikonauti

Jon Ching (Hawaiian)

Transference, 2023

oil on wood

[Image: Large mushrooms growing from a tree; a dragonfly and a ladybug have alighted on the mushrooms. A closer look at the mushrooms reveal that they look more like geode cross-sections, while the dragonfly's abdomen is a deep green cut oval gemstone (and its thorax is reminiscent of a particular malachite stalactite, smoothed down), and the ladybug's shell is a red gemstone in a triangle or heart-shaped cut.]

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hack-saw2004

in light of police across the country cracking down on pro palestine protests with brutal force, it feels like a great time to remind everyone to shut the fuck up around cops. don't make small talk, dont act friendly, don't fucking engage with them!! if you are arrested DO NOT speak without a lawyer present. protest organizers, get into contact with local pro bono lawyers who can be there for your arrested comrades. no matter what, if cops are there, shut the fuck up unless you are actively doing a protest chant. dont tell cops why you were there, dont tell them if you're affiliated with the school you may be protesting at, dont tell them if you came there with anyone, dont tell them anything!!!

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Reblog for a larger sample size, if possible.

I voted for Ominous Cloak. BUT!

I was this close to voting for Traffic Cone, because I've had a cosplay daydream for years now of dressing like a cow pylon from Katamari Damacy. Complete with my face made up to look like the King of All Cosmos and carrying a speech bubble reading, "It's a coowww!"

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gabrielora

When I was younger and researching the autism diagnosis criteria and symptoms, I thought “oh I couldn’t POSSIBLY be autistic.” Because when I read “takes everything literally” I thought it literally meant EVERYTHING and I was like “I don’t take EVERYTHING literally, just most things!” And I just realized the other day that it didn’t actually mean EVERYTHING and that was an overstatement.

ok hold on actually i rb'd this before with just tags but im going to come back in on this again

any medical diagnostic you will ever undergo does not mean "always 100% Every Time Ever you have this problem". And it sucks because they will phrase it in a way that SOUNDS like 100% Every Time including on the testing for being a person who has trouble with how specific phrasing is supposed to be.

literally the example I always use is I spent way longer without glasses then I should have because the eyesight chart diagnostic is "identify the letter", so I went 'ok the point of this is to do good identifying letters'. Then i realized

they want to know if I can see. Not if I can identify that a blurry shape is an A because of its unique outline.

So i started qualifying my answers with "blurry". Blurry A, Blurry Y, Blurry Z. Now I have glasses.

they do not make this clear. I do not know why. But you can more or less apply this to any medical diagnostic, and if it's a written diagnostic if your answer is 'sometimes' and the only answers are 'yes or no' you put Yes.

Do I have trouble getting out of bed? Sometimes, yes. So the answer is Yes.

Regrettably tests are made for and by non-autistic people and aimed at non-autistic caregivers and medical experts, which isnt how it should be, and makes it one more complicated thing to navigate. World a hell.

Also, if you're filling out Disability paperwork, you're supposed to answer it for your worst days, and without accommodations.

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alexseanchai

it's sock-shoe-sock-shoe if I'm changing socks at the same time I'm putting shoes on, or if getting dressed after my shower involves putting shoes on, but it has been a tragically long time since I've been able to go comfortably sockless even in summer, so I voted sock-sock-shoe-shoe because that's what I almost always do

My shoes are typically in an entirely different part of the house than my socks. Unless I want to carry my socks to where my shoes are before putting both of them on, both socks first makes the most sense.

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vaspider

something you said has been on my mind for a while - "kink is not inherently sexual". good faith! I don't understand that at all, could you explain it a bit?

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This post is educational, hooray! Extensive discussion of kink under the cut. Nothing explicitly sexual is described in detail.

Please note that in this post, I use the terms top and Dom/me interchangeably. This is because I personally identify as a "top" and not a Dom. Some communities draw sharp lines between these two terms, and it's useful to make sure that you're using the same definition as other people when you're talking. Some people use "top" solely to refer to the giving or penetrative partner, which is not synonymous with the dominant partner. Topping subs, power bottoms, and all other permutations exist. I just use that term for myself because I don't like being called a Dom. It sounds like a guy's name to me, I don't like it.

The line between kink and stimming is almost non existent for some people

Similarly the line between larping and kink is basically non existent for some people

And the divide between slapstick comedy and BDSM is way thinner than you think

Tbh the line between sex and a slapstick comedy is thinner than you think

I missed this before and the last line made me laugh out loud.

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kodiescove

Peace be upon you Jews of Jumblr!

With the rise of antisemitism, and one of my favorite things about my Muslim faith being zakat(prescribed charity giving), what are some charities you would like me to give to in these trying times?

I've seen plenty of places to donate to help Palestinians, but I haven't seen anything to help any of you Jews that are facing antisemitism as backlash to all of this.

Forgive me if it has passed, but I know it's around Passover(I believe that's the holiday going on right around now?) And I'm sure there are Synagogues or Jewish charities that could use some donations.(at least I think. I know that Churches and Christian charities take donations around Christmas and Easter.)

I'd truly like to help all who are affected by this war. Whether it be Isreali Jews in Isreal, or diaspora Jews(I think that's the term? What I mean is, Jews who do not live in Isreal) who are struggling with increased antisemitism.

No charity is too niche, though I may not be able to donate to all of them, as I am on SSDI(a form of disability) so it's not like I have hundreds or thousands to throw around. But I know that anything can help.

Love, your friendly disabled queer Muslim with all the questions.

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jewishgay4il

@thisgingerhasnosoul were u perchance talking about JQY, JQ, Eshel, or Keshet? As well as AWiderBridge and the Jerusalem Open house or IGY?

Maybe??? I remember it was a big master list of a bunch of different orgs, but I just can’t for the life of me remember the details. I wish I had a better memory 😭

Ive only seen a master list of orgs that actually do work for Israelis/Palestinians, nothing for queer jews so idk, but ill def share if I come across (either of them!)

On it! This is @screamingfromuz's list, which includes suggestions for all sides affected by the war. The only groups I didn't see listed specifically are Druze and the Thai workers who got caught in the middle.

For diaspora Jewry, there are several synagogues who are raising funds for building repairs after vandalism, if you're looking for something on topic. If it's more general, there are a ton of great Jewish non-profits that could always use help. One example is HIAS (Hebrew Immigrant Aid Society) was originally founded to help Jewish refugees, but over the years has expanded its mission to include refugees from all backgrounds. Mazon is another great organization fighting hunger all over the world.

Honestly if there's anything super specific you're looking for, I'd be happy to make a recommendation or ask around.

Thank you so much for your compassion and commitment to Zakat; may we all merit to see a peaceful resolution to these horrors and soon.

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neosatsuma

I'm too old for this list.

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alexseanchai

I'm old enough that including Pokemon wouldn't help, because I was watching Sailor Moon before Ash first got Pikachu.

Okay, I'll add some of my earlier remembered anime titles:

These are, of course, just the ones I remember off the top of my head. There were plenty of others. I also included a few that were before the big anime boom of the late 90s/early 00s, though I'm sure there are more I don't know about.

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kaijutegu

Posting due to an emergency- please share widely if you're local to Chicagoland.

If anyone in the Chicagoland area sees this, a friend's service dog prospect is in need of immediate boarding from tomorrow until May 6. Winnie is about 40 pounds and is not dog-reactive at all, but the person caring for her was hospitalized and so my buddy is looking for a short term emergency foster!

I'm available to help with any transportation (you wouldn't need to drive her anywhere!) and compensation+coverage for food/medical/etc. would be involved. You wouldn't need to pay for her stuff, just make sure she has a place to stay and walk her and call me if she needs to go to the vet.

If this is something you or someone you know could help with, please let me know. It's an emergency situation, so for the first time in... well over a year, I am opening my inbox in case this is something you can help with. Please DM me if you or anyone you know can help.

Doing a rare signal boost, since I know @kaijutegu IRL and can vouch that this is real and necessary. Posted originally and reblogged on 4/25, so the need for an emergency foster starts 4/26. Chicago folk, please let her know if you’d be able to help.

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