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hey! listen!!

@hey-llison / hey-llison.tumblr.com

llison/ben | 26 | pronouns: they/them | self insert writer | tloz blog: @thezoraprince | volo blog: @volos-togepi | avatar created by me :)
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β‚ŠΛšβŠΉβ™‘ meet fizzarolli β™‘βŠΉΛšβ‚Š

i'm so happy to have brought this little guy home. he's had the zoomies all day, exploring his new home. he specifically loves hiding under the filter and pretending to get stuck.

he's dramatic, and it fits the name for sure. i love him so much.

welcome home, froggie <3

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online communities are so strange because people slip away so easily. you can be on here for years, folding people you've never met into the fabric of your daily life, and then they disappear, leaving only ghost posts scattered across tumblr behind. or their blog stays dormant, for weeks, months, years, until you're only still following them because you remember that they love sunflowers or they were kind to you when they didn't have to be or the last thing they posted was sad and raw and you still worry about them sometimes.

and sometimes they come back when you least expect it, years later, even, and there's this sudden rush of relief like there you are, there you are, even though you barely knew each other.

there's a strange kind of love to it. i don't know you and i want to hold your hand across miles and time zones and oceans. i can still see the imprint of you in this community you left. you don't anyone will notice or care when you're gone, but we notice and we care and we wish you well.

i hope you're all okay out there. i hope the sun is shining on your face and you are breathing deeply. i miss you.

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aropride

list of genders i think are really awesome

  • cis women who are so femme it loops back around to genderfuckery
  • genderfluid but like, really fast (high pressure (gender)liquid?)
  • anything that sparks tumblr discourse about you specifically
  • trans people who aren't "presenting" as any gender. see also: autistic people who aren't "presenting" as any gender
  • otherkin/therians whose spirituality influences their gender
  • everything 2007 scene kids had going on
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you're allowed to love being trans if you:

  • just came out
  • havent transitioned and dont plan to
  • have known you are trans for years but kept it to yourself
  • don't want surgery or hormones
  • dont disclose your trans status or genders to other people
  • dont change your name
  • never have dysphoria
  • your transness is tied to your neurodivergence
  • your transness is tied to your nonhuman identity
  • dont feel like you have a gender or gendered experience
  • feel like gender isn't really that important
  • are intersex
  • are two-spirit, hijra, or have another cultural gender or expression identity, or "third gender"
  • are a person of color
  • are an afab demigirl
  • are an amab demiboy
  • have a complex identity
  • have a very simple identity
  • cant figure out your gender for the life of you
  • cross dress
  • do drag
  • present socially in ways that are "normal" for your agab
  • have crushing dysphoria
  • don't know how to pass
  • pass effortlessly
  • are a butch trans woman
  • are a femme trans man
  • are demigender
  • don't like to be reminded you're trans
  • have a very specific gender
  • have a gender that's specific to you and you alone
  • have hated being trans at one point
  • stopped transition and restarted it at some point
  • have had to change your gender, name, pronouns or presentation multiple times
  • change presentation a lot
  • have a gender that's hard or impossible to put into words
  • dont want to figure out what your gender is exactly
  • are plural/a system
  • are genderfluid, gnc, genderqueer, multigender, polygender, genderflux, neutrois, maverique or genderfuck
  • are xenogender
  • are a lesbian or gay
  • are transneutral
  • are transfemasc/transmascfem
  • ..... are trans.

every trans person is allowed to love being trans. good day, love yourself today!

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That's 1 in every 5 people.

"In recent years, several laws targeting transgender adults have been proposed or enacted. These laws eliminate Medicaid coverage for transgender healthcare, permit pharmacists and hospital systems to discriminate against transgender patients, and impose restrictions on providers in various ways. Until recently, little information was available on how these new statutes affect transgender adults. While their care is often not explicitly prohibited, they may still experience disruptions due to anti-transgender laws. Now, a just released Data for Progress poll reveals that 24% of transgender adults have had their healthcare disrupted or discontinued as a result of anti-transgender legislation."

Start LOUDLY supporting your trans friends!!! Post pride flags! Remind everyone you're an ally! Make support for trans people so incredibly mainstream again that it's impossible to ignore!

Check the map below and please get to work on organizing to fight the bills being presented in your state!!!

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