kinda hurts, now that they’re pulling away

are people really trying to come for Love, Simon, a chill gay teenage romcom actually directed by a gay man and starring a bi man as the love interest like……………… y’all were bending over backwards defending literal pedophilia with CMBYN but the second there’s actually somewhat decent and much-needed #representation its problematiqué for some obscure reason? ok

ive been on tumblr a long time and i remember when everyone said “oh don’t romanticize mental illness” and it was agreed that doing that was gross and a good way to kill people indirectly

but somehow we’ve come full circle and there are people who legit defend their right to be anti-recovery there are people who don’t want to get better and spread the idea that you can’t get better as if it’s gospel and it’s fucking frightening to me bc nobody seems to want to say “hey? this is toxic and untrue and is your disease speaking, and it’s not something you should accept.”

and i feel like every recovery post gets about 500 of these people saying “this isn’t something that will work” “cool karen i’m depressed” “maybe it worked for you but it won’t work for other people” and that’s… just… im so sorry if you’re 15. i’m sorry if you’re in high school and watching grown adults tell you it doesn’t get better. that nobody says that with time and help and patience the world stops being so heavy, that accepting your illness as a fact is one thing but accepting it as the only way to be is just wrong, that you can learn to live with it and still find some degree of “happy”…. if i had seen this shit back when i was … oh god starting at 12 when i was already self-harming …. i think i’d have actually honest-to-god killed myself. not a joke, not a funny tumblr punchline, i would have actually just killed myself. 

i’m saying this right here and right now to the adults on this site. if you for any reason shoot down positivity that’s causing no harm - you might have indirectly worsened someone else’s condition, and you should try and do better in the future. if you find it necessary to tell people “recovery is a lie”, you need to do better. i know everyone has different circumstances, but i also know that mental illness behaves in such a way that everyone thinks they can’t recover.  if you feel like you should be spreading the Word Of Relapse, you are causing toxic language to be normalized and you need to do better. 

im team “cool karen ive got depression and that means i’m going to try this because i’ve got to try something” i’m team “romanticize recovery” i’m team “it isn’t working now but it might in the future and it’s worth staying to find out” im team “hey this didn’t work for me but it might help somebody else out”

fuck guys it shouldn’t be an unpopular opinion to say “i don’t want any of you to die”.

Oh thank fuck someone finally said it!

in this post, i will detail my rankings and reasons thereof of the sluttiness level of every character in hamlet, or their “ho ratio,” if you will,

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where’s the rest of the post op

@star-chart

this is the most powerful image on the internet.. reblog to join the circle

Reblog to destroy all evil energies in your life

Every time I go downstairs to the laundry room, this pigeon tries to seduce me.

“we have incompatible genitals” is now my favorite excuse.

Look at this adorable idiot trying to be all seductive and shit. I want like five of them. 

is that what your pigeons look like

Looks like this is doing the rounds again.

oh jesus (Via)

(Jezzmoz)

I was going to pass over this but the ‘oh jesus’ at the end totally sold me. I lost it. Brilliant.

lads…… it’s march. how we coping

we aren’t

this is the best and most chaotic scene of the entire series and nobody can convince me otherwise

a college republican went crying to tucker carlson last night because some black classmates photoshopped his face onto a literal cracker

Yo this is my school!!! Okay let’s provide some backstory:

So my school is v White but also v liberal

Anyways we’re also a very academic/professional-driven institution so a lot (not all) of our students are taught about things like intersectionality, feminism, acceptance, etc through academic settings

And this boy, Ryan Wolfe, apparently took an issue to that and he published his opinions in the student-run conservative review website

Here are some of the topics he wrote on:

- how to “survive” social justice

- how intersectionality is fake

- SJWs want the most oppressed people to be in power because they’re the most special

- why the women’s march wasn’t inclusive (and why all the conservatives on campus were great for not causing riots when two of the leaders of the march came to campus)

- how BLM is ruining public perception of police officers

- “how to survive college as a conservative”

- conservative professors speaking out about being outnumbered and the minority

Anyways, total fuckboy

So back during the 2016 election season, the few conservatives we have on campus got together to host a panel about the future of the Republican Party and how it isn’t racist or whatever

And this panel is made up of entirely white people

So someone (I forget who) started a joke comparing them all to saltines

And Wolfe (the saltine) went off on them on twitter doing the typical fuckboy thing and complaining about how safe spaces don’t exist and saying that the panel wouldn’t be a safe space for anyone (ironic, no?)

And AFTER THE PANEL SOMEONE (her name’s Bri) JUST GOT UP AND HANDED THE GUY A BOX OF SALTINES WITH HIS FACE PHOTOSHOPPED ONTO THE CRACKERS

And THIS BOI GOES AND TRIES TO COMPLAIN TO THE ADMINISTRATION ABOUT FEELING UNSAFE ON CAMPUS AND UNABLE TO EXPRESS HIS OPINIONS LIKE BOY WHAT DO YOU THINK A SAFE SPACE IS

Our diversity and inclusion committee (also our committee for addressing prejudice-related harassment on campus) was like lol r u serious and he was like yeah

So they were like fine I guess we do technically have to do something if it’s harassment so they did the same thing they always do for smaller harassment cases on campus (two steps: 1) separating the students, 2) mediated meetings) the third step was the judicial case and the University was like nope we’ve already addressed your ridiculousness as much as we’re willing to sorry bud

And then he went and cried to Fox News and I got a text from my dad at 11:30 at night “racism at wake forest has gotten out of hand this is not acceptable” and I got to go down this rabbit hole of finding out about all this mess just like the rest of you and boy it gave me such a good laugh

(Also people are now calling him “Cryan” instead of “Ryan” so if you want to get that going please do)

Anyways for those of you wondering (like me) why this is just now coming out despite the fact that it happened a year and a half ago, it’s bc he’s graduating and wants a job as a journalist with Fox News so like laugh but also be v critical of the whole thing bc it’s very intentional on his part

Ryan the Cryan Saltine

I wasn’t prepared for this yaoi bed jfc

i need this fucking bed

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Nicely done, m’lady

he’s in

i actually want to die

lotor, a cishet: hand over the lions now or prepare to be defeated in the battle!

team voltron, gays: ??????

lotor: oh, right. apologies.

lotor, clearing his throat: asfgshs fight me?? umm lol @ voltron meet me behind the space mall,,,,,, i jus wanna talk … or could i myb get the uhhhhhh lions ? ghagsfav yeet

team voltron: ooooooh ,, lmaoo !! hey um op do u take constrictive criticism?? bc u suck adsvsgags binch wtf i’m sobbingh … btw lion machine broke ,, better luck next time sweaty ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ take a sip of this tea babes,

Haha no

i know you furries love the concept of genetic engineering into your fursona but imagine how ugly u would be? like realism wise it would be horrible. all fursonas are cute but when forced into reality then that’s when we should stop playing God

I won’t stop until i get my paws

Good luck opening a door you thumbless furry

Doggy door.

Die