Controversial opinion, but can we, as a fandom, stop referring to Loki as Laufeyson
And that is the best take I've seen on this topic and one that I completely agree with. I hope you don't mind me reblogging your tags @semisolidvoid
I completely and utterly disagree.
By doing that, we're not any better than Odin, or the Loki show who forgot Loki's Jotnar heritage.
It is part of him. A part unexplored, but so very interesting.
A part Kate Herron, Michael Waldron & Eric Martin tried to erase... because let's face it, they don't care about Loki... ^^'
Look at this concept art for Utgard. LOOK AT IT. Does it look like the work of barbarians or monsters like Odin would have Loki (and Thor, and the others) believe? HELL NO.
Jotnars had most likely a great civilization. One Loki had THE RIGHT to know about... But Odin robbed him of that.
As far as I am concerned, I am still certain Laufey did not abandon Loki. Odin supposedly found him in a temple? WHAT WERE YOU DOING IN A TEMPLE, GLAD OF WAR??? That's a sacred place were civilians take refuge and the enemy is not supposed to set foot in ^^'
Plus there was the What if story...
AND WE KNOW ODIN AND HIS LIES.
Laufey probably thought that if he let Loki believe he was pure evil and kill him, Odin would reward him and potentially give him the throne.... (oh my sweet summer child ^^')
But even if Laufey had been truly evil and abandoned him (pretty sure he did not, but let's imagine), that does not mean all Jotuns are evil, like Odin pretends they are.
That does not mean Loki should not embrace his Jotun roots.
That does not mean he should not go to Jotunheim and try to be a better king that both his fathers - adoptive and birthfather- were.
Plus, the Laufeyson name is still the closest thing we'll get to his mythology name, Laufeyjarson ^^'
STILL BETTER THAN ODINSON.
Just because it's a part of him, that doesn't automatically mean he identifies with it. No one is denying his heritage, but rather respecting his own choice not to identify as such.
I feel like insisting upon calling him a name he so clearly rejects and one that has been weaponised against him as the means of disownment, would be taking away his agency..again.
if I chose not to use my father's last name because he wasn't a part of my life, am I erasing part of my identity or am I making a personal choice that that part of my identity is either a) not particularly relevant to me or b) a painful part of my history that I haven't worked through and therefore don't want to be casually associated with? what matters most here isn't that Loki's birth father is a part of his history, nor what the truth about that history may or may not be (which, as always when Odin is the one telling the story, is up in the air). it's nothing to do with passing judgment on Laufey and declaring him, let alone all Jötnar, as a villain; nor is it in any way absolving Odin of his crimes. what's most relevant (and I would even argue is the only thing that's relevant to this debate) is that Loki would not be comfortable calling himself by that name—nor with being casually called that by other people. we know he wouldn't be, because at least to date, he's specifically chosen not to identify that way. the last two times (three, if we count IW, but ehhh let's not) Loki introduced himself to someone, it was specifically not by invoking Laufey's name. that's not irrelevant. it's a highly intentional choice he's made for himself—as someone of Loki's status would typically introduce themselves by their patronymic, not simply by their realm of origin. we see this when Thor introduces himself to Laufey as Thor Odinson on Jötunheim, and we can safely extrapolate that the same would be applicable for Loki.
and in fact, to illustrate this discomfort with Loki's birth name even further, we can turn to the prelude comic for The Dark World, which is among the comics that are technically canon to the MCU. Among its pages, we see Odin refer to Loki as Laufeyson specifically for the purpose of hurting him. if you want to thumb your nose at Odin, following his lead may not be the best way to do so. just a thought.
but the real divide here seems to be that @jonquilclegane is hung up on what they believe *should* have happened in canon, whereas the rest of us here (at least those who are anti-Laufeyson, so to speak) are focused on what *is* canon. would it be nice if Loki eventually learned to embrace his Jötun heritage? of course it would be. but that's not where he's at. and to be quite frank, from my POV, to attempt to force it upon him because we think that's what's best for him would make us no less cruel or manipulative than Odin and Frigga. as @abby118 said, it's taking away his agency... again. I rather think he's had enough of that from people who claim to love him.
nikko's tags...
my 5c:
really i think the point here is, what does LOKI introduce himself as? after being made aware of his parentage?
LOKI of asgard. LOKI.
the only time he calls himself "LOKI of jotunheim" even, was when he was attempting to create a deception for the svartalfar and have them believe he was not an ally of thor and asgard.
and i honestly, think that is the only thing that matters. it's not important what anyone else believes might be best for him ultimately. and it has nothing to do with any kind of judgement on the jotnar - positive, neutral, or negative. it's totally irrelevant.
the fact is, he doesn't choose to title himself with his sire's name. so unless and until he does, i wouldn't feel at all comfortable deciding that for him. it's not my place. why? because it's not my name.
far too many people try to tell others what they ought to be doing, rather than listening to what they need and want.
personally? i don't take my paternal surname as my own. i never have. even though i'm on good terms for many years now with my formerly estranged father and his family; it wasn't part of me growing up, so i don't feel like it's part of me now that i'm an adult.
so maybe that's why it's easy for me to understand LOKI now. and especially given that he's in no way resolved all or possibly any of his thoughts and emotions connected to his heritage. i at least, knew who my father was all along. he didn't.
and if he doesn't choose to officially embrace that connection? well that's his right. and none of our fucking business, really.