not sure if this will make sense to anyone besides me but: the antidote to negativity is not positivity, its warmth
positivity tells a sad person that there is no reason to be sad. warmth asks the sad person if they want to go get some ice cream
Been a moment since I saw this. Glad it’s back on my dash when I needed it.
finals season is upon us
Learning never stops 🤓
[ 8 NOVEMBER 2020 ]
heard y’all like wall pics?
your life can look so different, so much better, in just a few months. keep going.
Details: Aurora and Cephalus and Venus on the Waves – by François Boucher
10:43 AM | breakfast + yesterday’s journal entry
~listening to~ ugotme by omar apollo
every minute spent on planning saves you ten minutes spent on execution. short essays probably don't require that much preparation beforehand, but if you're writing something longer you should probably spend some time planning first. this is the process i go through when planning my essays, and i find it works really well!
matcha latte > coffee
12/30 days of summer productivity
cluttered desk views, x-files and watercolours
might just mess around and reclaim my human worth as intrinsic instead of defined by my productivity
quiet autumn mornings in london 🍂🍁
[ 8 NOVEMBER 2020 ]
heard y’all like wall pics?
listen to yourself and watch your language. instead of saying “sorry for ranting”, say “thank you for listening to me”. instead of saying “sorry that i am overemotional”, say “thank you for trying to understand something difficult”. instead of saying “sorry if i am a burden”, say “thank you for the time and energy you invest in our friendship”. good things will come when you realize you are not an apology.
this is so important. it helps absolve you from self-deprecating thoughts the more you practice this!
this is hard
