I have a natural bias against adult men and I know it’s bad and I know I need to fix it but I can’t help it? It’s just I’ve never had any positive adult male figures in my life and I’ve just grown up in an environment where I’ve learned to be anxious around them and now I don’t know how to rearrange that part of my brain?
no yknow what fuck the entire concept of virginity
- fuck the idea that a woman is only good or worthy if she hasn’t had sex
- fuck the idea that this one quality that can make a woman worthy can be “taken” from her by or “lost” by her to a man
- fuck the idea that sex is a rite of passage for men but the end of innocence for women
- fuck the entire gross fetishization of the ‘pure’ virgin female and the competition among men to be the one to 'ruin’ her
- women are not a commodity for men to defile
- we are not defined by the way men have or have not touched us
- and we certainly do not need to deprive ourselves of intimacy and pleasure with people we feel close to just so that some day, some man might see us as more valuable for it
I have this really bad habit of sending two unrelated texts back to back but bridging them with an “also”
So it’ll be like “hey have you seen this funny tweet” quickly followed by “also the news said polio is back”
Someone i can raise a dog with, have morning sex, travel and go to festivals.
it is actually really sweet when someone stays up late to talk to you
What if they fall asleep by accident though?
then you love it even more because they stayed up even though they were dead tired just to talk to you ya doof
I love all my friends.
20gayteen is really delivering y’all. gay olympians are taking over the world. hayley kiyoko is about to give us legendary bops. janelle monae is dropping bisexual anthems and kissing tessa thompson. gay films are on the way. we ain’t playing around!!!
you know what? fuck it, man. the world is held in the fists of people who like to break things. at this point i’m saying who gives a shit. wear that victorian dress you don’t have an excuse for. dress up like a witch, pointed hat and all. who cares anymore. why worry about it when there’s bigger stuff to worry on. i’m saying. yeah, this lipstick is too dark, wanna share? i’m saying go talk to her, tell her that you like her hair. i’m saying she’s out of my league but i’m still swinging, i’m saying yeah i’m in a ballgown and it’s a pta meeting. what about it. eat the extra brownie, tell her your feelings. i’m saying if nothing matters than we might as well give nothing meaning.
This is so inspiring
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May 4th, 2015 - don’t settle for less
7 months later I can hardly still follow my own advice
(via goldenli3s)
Spin the bottle must be an even better game if you were bisexual
friendly advise to not revolve your life around one person, one feeling, one place, one memory, one problem. the complexity of life and the diversity of the world is beautiful and you have the right to explore it. do not settle for less. you deserve better.
my goal is to be kindhearted, have soft hair, and always smell like flowers.
amir khusrow (1253–1325 CE)
This guy is in 3017
Maneuvers.