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@maz-rain

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I have a natural bias against adult men and I know it’s bad and I know I need to fix it but I can’t help it? It’s just I’ve never had any positive adult male figures in my life and I’ve just grown up in an environment where I’ve learned to be anxious around them and now I don’t know how to rearrange that part of my brain?

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no yknow what fuck the entire concept of virginity

  • fuck the idea that a woman is only good or worthy if she hasn’t had sex
  • fuck the idea that this one quality that can make a woman worthy can be “taken” from her by or “lost” by her to a man
  • fuck the idea that sex is a rite of passage for men but the end of innocence for women
  • fuck the entire gross fetishization of the ‘pure’ virgin female and the competition among men to be the one to 'ruin’ her
  • women are not a commodity for men to defile
  • we are not defined by the way men have or have not touched us
  • and we certainly do not need to deprive ourselves of intimacy and pleasure with people we feel close to just so that some day, some man might see us as more valuable for it
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I have this really bad habit of sending two unrelated texts back to back but bridging them with an “also”

So it’ll be like “hey have you seen this funny tweet” quickly followed by “also the news said polio is back”

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seedling

it is actually really sweet when someone stays up late to talk to you

What if they fall asleep by accident though?

then you love it even more because they stayed up even though they were dead tired just to talk to you ya doof

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filmedyke

20gayteen is really delivering y’all. gay olympians are taking over the world. hayley kiyoko is about to give us legendary bops. janelle monae is dropping bisexual anthems and kissing tessa thompson. gay films are on the way. we ain’t playing around!!!

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inkskinned

you know what? fuck it, man. the world is held in the fists of people who like to break things. at this point i’m saying who gives a shit. wear that victorian dress you don’t have an excuse for. dress up like a witch, pointed hat and all. who cares anymore. why worry about it when there’s bigger stuff to worry on. i’m saying. yeah, this lipstick is too dark, wanna share? i’m saying go talk to her, tell her that you like her hair. i’m saying she’s out of my league but i’m still swinging, i’m saying yeah i’m in a ballgown and it’s a pta meeting. what about it. eat the extra brownie, tell her your feelings. i’m saying if nothing matters than we might as well give nothing meaning.

This is so inspiring

follow for more optimist nilihism

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I hope you find someone who doesn’t make you sad at night and someone who reminds you how much they love you every day and who laughs at your jokes and wants to listen to your music and who genuinely what’s to be with you and doesn’t make you second guess their love for you. I really hope you find that. Because you deserve that.

May 4th, 2015 - don’t settle for less

7 months later I can hardly still follow my own advice

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I’m sure you remember that time when you and I talked, about what scared us the most…I sure do remember how quiet you become and how you somehow, more and more closed in on yourself - when I never mentioned that losing you would scare me. You took me wrong but at the same time not. I wasn’t scared of you leaving me, not that action alone anyway. I was more afraid of, scared of the time afterwards. That time that would come after you had left. A time without you, was more hard to imagine than the whole leaving business. You thought of course that you didn’t matter to me. You were so wrong. You did matter and it scared me to death. Not you leaving, as the action itself didn’t scare me but every time I tried to imagine a life without you, I couldn’t cope and broke down. And then you left, for real - because of those misunderstandings and now, I’m living the hell. The time after you. It sucks. I still wonder how to go on, with the living. With everything. With all. Without you.
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peachisty

friendly advise to not revolve your life around one person, one feeling, one place, one memory, one problem. the complexity of life and the diversity of the world is beautiful and you have the right to explore it. do not settle for less. you deserve better.

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