heya babes

i have no idea if any of you are still around here but i just wanted to let you know that i opened my tumblr again (a new one, my old one is gone forever lol) so if you’re still interested, you can follow me??? *dies* i’m not really in the tg fandom anymore but for old times sake i will still reblog touken things once in a while, so if we used to be old pals just follow me and i’ll follow you back again

Give her a follow🥰

I commissioned @neimana to draw a cute Kaneki family idea I've had for awhile based of my favorite children's book from when I was a kid. They did such a amazing job. 😭💕

a gentle reminder that healing takes time. you need to be patient with yourself with the process. forgive yourself when you relapse into old behaviours. encourage yourself to get out of bed, avoid harmful ways to cope and suggest a healthy coping mechanism, as if a friend was encouraging you. remind yourself to drink water, to eat fruits, journal, stop dwelling on things that don’t matter anymore, and see everything good in the world. it takes time and you’re in pain but you’re trying, and you’re alive and growing a little every day, and that’s all that counts.

Translated from Ishida’s twitter (X):

成れの果て

“the mere shadow of one’s former self/ the ruin of what once was” Edward Elric being held up by hands. Lots of them. They symbolize Truth- the regret of his actions. 

things to not dwell on:

things to think about more:

Rules of a Happy, Healthy Fandom

Rule 1, Don’t like, Don’t read

Pretty simple and straight forward. It doesn’t matter if it’s tagged as a ship you dislike or you’re 10 chapters in, if you don’t like it or it disturbs you too much, stop. The back button is your friend.

Rule 2, Properly Tag

If your fic contains anything possibly triggering or squicky, tag it. If your fic is an AU, tag it. If your fic is about a ship, tag it. Vice versa, do not overtag or improperly tag. If your fic is based around Stucky, don’t tag Stony.

Rule 3, Filters are your friend

If the app or website has an option to filter tags, use it. If you need to download an extension, download it. If someone has missed an important tag, you can politely message them requesting to add it.

Rule 4, Don’t harass people for shipping your NoTp

We all have that one ship we absolutely positively hate with every fibre of our being. And chances are, someone hates your Otp with the same ferocity. Don’t harass people over shipping your NoTp.

Rule 5, Do your research

If you’re writing a fic and a plot point or character is introduced you’re not sure how to write, research it! Google is your friend! There are also blogs dedicated to assisting people with certain topics such as @writingwithcolor

Rule 6, Your kink is not my kink, and that’s okay

Chances are, someone gets off to something you hate. And, that’s okay! We all have different and varying tastes!

Rule 7, Feedback keeps content creators creating

Likes, comments, reblogs, and recomendations keep your fanfic writers writing. Where would writers be if no one read their works? Where would artists be if no one bought their art?

Rule 8, If you want it, write it

It’s bound to happen to everyone, you just can’t find a specific fic for a specific ship or it’s that one rare pair no one appreciates like you do. What do you do in this situation? You write it yourself! It may not be the best-written or most poetic or maybe it’s just a pure crackfic, but that’s okay!

Rule 9, Fanon is not Canon

Likewise, headcanons are not canon. And if someone has a different headcanon, that’s okay! Sure, we may ignore canon for fics but headcanons and fanfiction and fanart are not canon!

Rule 10, Fiction is not reality

And the most important of all, fiction is not reality. Writing abuse fics does not mean you support abuse in real life. Writing suicidal characters does not mean the writer is suicidal. Writing glorified murder fics does not mean the writer supports murder in real life.

If you have more positive rules, feel free to add! These are just 10 little rules I find to be very important for a happy healthy fandom. Remember, fandoms are supposed to be for fun! You write that shameless self-insert Mary Sue OC, you write that rarepair smut, you write that 250k slow burn Coffee Shop AU! You make fandom as fun as you want it to be!

“I can’t fucking do this” - I mutter for the twentieth time as I continue to fucking do it

you don’t have to accept things you are not okay with.

How do you un-sad yourself

little little shiro warm up

toxic 📢 friendships 📢 are 📢 just 📢 as 📢 traumatizing 📢 as 📢  relationships 📢📢📢

this gained 3k notes overnight and it makes me deeply upset how many ppl have been scarred by toxic friendships 2017 better b good to you all or imma beat its ass