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"Come with all your shame, come with your swollen heart, i've never seen anything more beautiful than you." - Warshan Shire
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some tips for new content creators, based on my experience :)

content type.

people tend to go for short works, like drabbles, ficlets, and headcanons ! that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t post fics and series, though. they just don’t do as well as the short ones. usually, these long types take more time to get notes, especially if you’re not that big of a blog.

time.

the best time to post on tumblr, based on my experience, is 5 - 11 pm, GMT+8. not-so-best would be 10 am - 3 pm :)

self - reblogs & the queue.

notes are important ! they serve as both motivation and exposure. the more reblogs a fic has, the more likely it is to be shown on the search results. so, on that note, do self - reblogs ! i usually srb on a 3-6 basis. meaning, for example, i publish a post at 6 pm. i queue srbs for 9 pm (3 hours later), 12 am (6 hrs later), 6 am, 12 pm, and 6 pm !

taglist.

make a taglist ! sometimes, even with srbs, a lot of followers miss your posts and content. so, to ensure that more people do see it, make a taglist ! this is basically a list of people that want to be tagged everytime you post. i have my taglist linked to my navigation, so check it out there if you’d like a reference :)

tags.

use the tags ! they’re what get you discovered. remember that although you can include up to 30 tags in a post, only the first 20 work. if you have a fic that you’d like to put more than 20 tags in, you can include them in the other self reblogs, that’d work too.

something i wish i knew before, which i’d like to tell you as well !

if you’re a small blog, don’t expect the notes to garner as fast as the blogs you follow.
there is no shame in self - reblogs !
not all your works get as many notes as you’d like them to get. sometimes, it happens to the fics you’re really proud of. that’s ok ! it really can be demotivating, and i’m not sure how you can make yourself feel better when this happens ; but i usually just ignore it and think about the posts that did do well.

i’m not the most experienced writer here, but hopefully, this helped ! <3

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Anonymous asked:

rape ba ang tawag if someone force u to suck his.... and I can't do anything but let my tears out. But I love him. He's the love of my life.

[Sorry, ngayon ko lang 'to nahagilap, anon.] Mas lulundo sa sexual harassment. If someone uses force for the sake of his self-serving convenience, may mali na ro'n. Kuha ko naman na may BDSM, pero walang tama sa pagpwersa kung walang pagpayag, nariyan ang pahintulot. Kapag mahal mo at ganyan ka bigyan ng respeto, hindi 'yan pagmamahal. Sabihin na natin na nariyan ang kalibugan, pero gaya ng selos at galit, inilulugar ito sa paraang walang tinatapakang moralidad. (If u want to file a case on this matter, I'll support you. Practice your human rights. We have VAWC! Slide to my dm.) — Hindi sa nagpapabango ng pangalan. Maaga akong namulat sa reyalidad na walang ligtas na kababaihan sa macho-feudal na lipunan. Hindi biro ang gahasa. Hindi haligi ng pagmamahal ang molestiya.

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johnmarkv

Tama. Mayroong VAWC na handang tumulong kung tayo ay lalapit. Sabi sa isa sa mga theatre-related workshop na in-attend-an namin na specifically ay about nga sa VAWC, maraming ganitong cases na hindi natutuloy ang pagsampa ng mga kaso dahil nga sa “pagmamahal” or dahil umaasa pa na magbabago pa ang kanilang partner. Hindi kasalanan ng mga kababaihan pero patuloy na gagamitin ito ng mga kalalakihan at makikita nila ito bilang “weak point.” Sa ganitong paraan, lalong nagbebenefit ang mga lalaki sa macho-piyudal at heteronormatibong sistema. Gather yourself and courage. VAWC will assist you with everything. Know your rights! =)

Also, a gentle reminder for anyone who needs it:

Yes, people who LOVE you can also abuse you. It's not an absence of love that causes abuse, but a lack of respect. People who RESPECT you will not abuse you.

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