hongjoong as your boyfriend
nari note: ah yes, my bias wrecker :’) got requests for mingi and jongho, so they’re coming soon…but who else after them for this series? gif creds go to @hongjooong
- Listen, his time is so precious so when he’s spending it with you? You’re precious. He doesn’t bother wasting his time with people who do not add value to his life, so when he’s paying extra attention to you and offering to buy you coffee on the way to work? Someone likes youuuu ;)
- Likes to be friends first before dating
- You definitely catch him staring at you a lot
- He just thinks you’re so beautiful doing the most mundane tasks :((
- Will make sure the relationship will work out before asking you out
- Or ask him out and he’ll move mountains to make it work
- Oh god he takes intimacy and closeness so seriously, so he will be careful about skinship when y’all first date
- But he loves the feeling of you in his arms
- Or when you back hug him at work
- Speaking of work, absolutely the type to produce and sing love songs for you
- Like a whole fucking album
- But he won’t publish all of the songs for the public, some are simply just for your ears
- Not in the way where all the lyrics are all R-rated, although he will make some of those songs for sure
- But like very much likes to pour his heart out into the lyrics and beats, so those songs especially are just for you
- He’s so loyal. Will work anything and everything out.
- Love language is quality time (receiving) and acts of service (giving). This combination leads to a lot of romantic and sensual nights in! Think: making dinner together, eating candle lit dinner, warm baths, stuff that leads to more (expanded on later ;)), all those good cliches.
- If it’s in the daytime, scenic drives while blasting music, taking photos on film cameras, chilling by the ocean, all of this fits so well with Hongjoong.
- Date where he teaches you how to reform clothes and you end up creating a matching set together. Couple outfit. Couple goals.
- Also nap dates!!
- Cuddle him while he gets this well deserved and much needed rest!
- Remembers literally everything you tell him
- Very attentive listener, most likely won’t accidentally fall asleep
- This means he gives really thoughtful and sentimental gifts, remembers all the important dates, and absolutely will remember that random person in college that hit on you from one singular conversation about them
- all or nothing. Just super devoted and loyal.
- Will want to help you learn, grow, and pursue your goals. Not exactly a hype man, but will help you slowly and steadily in the background
- For example, uses his connections to help point you to the right direction for this risky career choice but won’t take credit for it unless you press him about it
- Hmm.. the type to mentally fixate on a problem or try to solve it on his own because he just wants to see you happy, so make sure you try to coax whatever might bother him out so y’all can face the issues together!
- But, he’s extremely good at communicating and conflict resolution
- After the first few months, arguments are super rare because y’all worked out the biggest issues by then
- And if anything comes up, he is so good at actively listening to you, finding compromises, and voicing his needs in a super understanding way
- Ugh someone cuff this mans
- Speaking of communication, he’s the type to only talk about his deepest worries or insecurities with the closest loved ones in his life so get ready to see a whole new side of him when dating
- Will be so vulnerable and open with you so treat him gently and with kindness!
- Deep conversations until the late am
- A great ear when it comes to listening to you
- Always has great, heartfelt advice
- He’s someone you can always lean on! He has your back, always
- But also make sure to be there for him because we all know he goes through so much and the strongest people need the strongest support
- He’s okay with PDA, but not too much in front of people in KQ
- Sticks to hand holding and little else
- But he is such a cuddle bug in private! He actually lay on top of you or trap you on his lap, not letting you leave unless it’s an emergency
- His hugs feel so safe
- When y’all cuddle, you always feel so secure, warm, and loved
- Dating him is the equivalent of understanding what a deep sense of belonging feels like
- Haha y’all should dare each other to try spicy foods
- Because if you like spice/take it well, watch him look at you in amazement and slight horror
- And then proceed to sneak the spicy foods in his dish onto your plate whenever y’all eat out together
- Even better, you eat the spicy looking food first as his personal taste tester and after a solemn nod, you just quietly take it off his plate for him/move the dish closer to you. You are his superhero.
- Or if you can’t take it well like him, at least you both have fun chugging milk together
- A true bonding experience either way
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