hi my friends! its been four months since i've posted anything here, mainly because i've been busy living life. some say tumblr is dying, but there is something about blogging that i appreciate so much- having a finsta just isn't the same. tumblr uploaded my photos backwards, so i guess we'll start in august and move back towards may.
i've been thinking a lot about family a lot recently because there are parts of my family i no longer am in contact with. this time last year through january 2022 there was a lot of personal loss & grief. i still have a lot of anger that i haven't worked through, and still don't feel ready to work through. i go between being able to accept & forget (note: not forgive. just accept.) and wanting to make them understand the hurt. i don't know that i'm ready yet to leave it behind me.but what matters most is that the familiy & friends & people who genuinely love me for me, and whom i love for who they are- those people are still close by and would be here in a heartbeat.
august is slipping away ! this summer has been hot and humid and sticky but so full. lots of ice cream dates at our favorite spot. i've truly fallen in love with this little city. i never dreamed i'd be here for four years and yet we're approaching that! i've been in the CICU now for over a year, and am fully device trained- impella, CVVH, TTM. i'm constantly humbled by work, and by how intelligent and hardworking my coworkers are. i! love! my! job! (sometimes) i had a string of deaths in may and june that really burnt me out emotionally. it was so hard. but the coping skills i really developed in therapy have been helping me so much.
i'm in the middle of training for a half marathon (six weeks away!!) because my sister wanted to run one. it'll be the first one i run WITH someone, so i'm excited for that. i'm running three days a week and hitting the gym three days a week (push pull legs). the balance i have with health and fitness is honestly unreal. i've been pushing my intake and protein and seeing so much more energy, satiety, and a lot less hormonal fluctuations. it's been FAB.
july was spent with family. my mom and sister visited my other sister in boston, so we all spent a lot of time together. i got to see my cousins, aunts, uncles, and my grandparents. july 2021 was the last time i saw my paternal grandmother in person and so i thought of her a lot. i miss her so fucking much.
in june DD and i went to curacao and it was a dream. i haven't taken a vacation like that in 3 years, so it was sooooo wonderful. i love! my life! i have so much to be thankful for and so much to look forward to. stay tuned to the end of the year (which tbh will probably be the next time i post anything).
april was a tough month, but may was wonderful. we went to san francisco/the bay for a wedding and made it into a vacation. yosemite was absolutely breathtaking, and i fell in love with california just a teeny bit. i don't see myself ever living there, but never say never!
it's been a wild ride, but 2022 is shaping up to be one of the best years of my life. 2019, 2020 and 2021 were tough years- some of the most challenging years of my life. but i'm finding rhythm and balance in so many aspects of my life now, that i didn't think i ever would. my life is so sweet and so good.