I did a very quick, sketchy comic because I was extremely inspired by this post. (Credit to @pinkdiamondprince for the original post.)
The entire analogy was just fantastic and so, so accurate, and I wanted to make a comic for it, even if it’s very sketchy because my attention span is nil.
30,000 reblogs and no ID??? We gotta fix that
[id: a comic comprised of a series of simple black and white digital sketches. The following are the drawing panels and captions in story order—
1. A simply drawn person stands with a confused expression on their face. Beside them float question marks colored in with the aro and ace pride flags. Above and around them, in black handwriting, narration reads “Trying to figure out if you’re ace or aro can be hard, because it’s trying to find the absence of something.”
2. “Imagine you’re at a pond,” it continues, “and you want to know if there are turtles at the pond.” The person stands on a rock at the edge of a small pond, peering down into the water.
3. “Say you find a turtle,” the narrator says. The person picks up a turtle, holding it up to their face as they both smile at each other. “Great! Now you know there are turtles.”
4. “But say you don’t find any turtles,” it reads. “Maybe there are no turtles.” The person shrugs, smiling. “Or maybe you’re just bad at looking for turtles.” The person gets down onto their hands and knees to look under a rock, but they find nothing. “And maybe you THINK you saw a turtle”—the person stands up, surprised, as they notice a turtle-shaped shadow from the corner of their eye—“but it was just a stick”. The person picks up the stick, annoyed.
5. A single turtle stands on a small hill. “Maybe there are only a few turtles.” The person is shown again, looking troubled, their head in their hand. “Maybe you need to do something special to find the turtles.”
6. Two turtles stand among turtle-sized rocks. “Maybe some of these rocks are actually turtles, but you couldn’t tell them apart.” The pond is shown, completely empty. “Maybe there just are no turtles.”
7. The person looks down sadly, discouraged. “You just…don’t know.”
8. Four new people are shown, saying the following lines—“And people are like, ‘There HAVE to be turtles! You’ll find them!’ and ‘How many turtles have you found in your pond?’ and ‘Try planting some vegetables at the shore to attract them!’ and ‘Oh no! What disaster happened that there are no turtles in your pond?’”
9. The original person is shown again, disgruntled; standing with their shoulders slouching, mud up to their waist, and a large net hanging loosely from their hand. The narrator says “And you’re just standing there, wet, with an empty net and a tired expression.”
10. “But whatever,” it continues as the empty pond is shown again, “because whether there are turtles or not, your pond’s ecology works just fine without them.” Now there are both a heron and a frog, shown living happily. “Because that’s what ecosystems do,” the narrator says. “They form a system with what they have.”
11. The person sits at the edge of their pond, smiling as they splash their feet in the water. “You aren’t missing anything if you don’t have turtles. In fact–“ the person stands up and runs, worried, towards another person who’s walking towards the pond with a basket full of turtles. “If someone tried to pour a bunch of turtles in, it’d probably screw something up,” the narrator continues.
12. “So you don’t have to be totally sure,” it says as the original person shrugs with a smile. “You don’t have to search every inch of the pond before deciding there are probably no turtles.” The person wipes their brow, relieved.
13. “If you want to take the aro/ace label because you think it fits, GO FOR IT.” The person stands with their back to the viewer, looking out over their pond as the sun sets. “And if you do find turtles, you can always rename the pond.”
14. “SO GO FOR IT,” the comic concludes.
End id]
(@dragonheartftherpays I hope you approve!)