My Thoughts on Samantha Tarly
Reading Fire and Blood Volume One, I encountered a section that continues to frustrate me to this day. Regarding Lady Samantha Hightower (née Tarly) and her blatant disregard for the Faith of the Seven and the obvious authorial favoritism and plot convenience around her actions. The sheer affront Samantha Tarly’s story faces towards the established worldbuilding is too great not to notice and so I have to dissect it.
To begin, Samantha Tarly’s short biography places her as the elder daughter of Donald Tarly and Jeyne Rowan, with Gyldayn describing her as “fierce, fiery, and beautiful”, the second wife of Lord Ormund Hightower and a supporter of the greens during the Dance of the Dragons. Nothing particularly upsetting here, so I move on to the events that occur after Lord Ormund dies at the First Battle of Tumbleton in 130 AC.
Lord Ormund’s son, Lyonel, is introduced to us as a fifteen year-old lordling who furiously tears Corlys’ Velaryon’s letter regarding the quarter of the royal treasury residing in the Hightower’s vaults to shreds and promises to write a reply in his blood. We are then informed of Lady Samantha wanting to remain Lady of Oldtown and mistress of the Hightower, as well as her being well-aware of her stepson’s infatuation with her from the time she arrived at the Hightower. Lady Samantha “yields'' to Lyonel’s advances on the condition he makes peace with the crown, citing her desire not to lose another husband at war. Following this ultimatum, Lyonel agrees to Lord Corlys’ terms and returns the gold to the crown, and proceeds to announce his intention to marry his father’s widow.
The High Septon of the time, as Westeros’ High Septons are seemingly wont to do only when marriages between nobility and royalty offend them, forbade the match as a form of incest (an interesting similarity to the medieval Catholic Church’s views on incest between in-laws/step-family). Rather than actively face the problem, Lady Samantha and Lord Lyonel spend the next thirteen years living as lord and paramour and producing six children, which naturally sours House Hightower’s historically positive relationship with the Faith.
However, unlike his predecessor who objected to Maegor the Cruel and his polygamous marriages, the High Septon in the aftermath of the Dance had no Faith Militant to stir into a tizzy over the “fornication” of Lord Lyonel and his stepmother. The High Septon condemned Lady Samantha and ultimately forbade her from setting foot in the Starry Sept until she repented and sought forgiveness. So what does Lady Samantha do? Simply mount a warhorse and burst into the Starry Sept while the High Septon is leading prayer, commanding her knights to bar the sept to all until she was allowed in, and apparently prove such a force of will that the High Septon “had no choice but to relent”, with a later High Septon giving Samantha and Lyonel permission to marry and retroactively legitimizing their six children.
There are quite a few things logistically wrong with Lady Samantha Tarly’s whole arc. To start, her fifteen year-old stepson apparently makes advances on her immediately after his father’s death, or perhaps even during her marriage to his father. Of course, the age gap between them is hardly unsettling by Westeros standards, but the way that Lady Samantha apparently “yielded” to his persistent advances in exchange for winning him over to the black side and ending the war in regards to House Hightower’s involvement struck a sour note with me. It reeks of authorial appeal with nothing genuine to offer the plot aside from the mental image of the medieval fantasy equivalent of a sophomore in high school getting a date with the popular senior cheerleader.
Of course, the ridiculous infatuation Lady Samantha’s stepson has for her pales in comparison to her motivations for the affair with Lyonel. Lady Samantha’s motivations of staying Lady of Oldtown and the Hightower by marrying her stepson stand in complete opposition of the Queen Alysanne Targaryen’s Widow Law. According to the Widow Law, Lady Samantha would remain entitled to a place in the Hightower and the role of Dowager Lady, with Lyonel being legally unable to send her away from the Hightower, as well as being obligated to supply the servants, clothing, and income entitled to her as Ormund’s widow. The only thing Samantha would stand to lose in the event of Lyonel marrying any woman other than her would be nominal power over the Hightower and direct influence over Lyonel.
The detail of Samantha’s arc that flies directly in the face of the established worldbuilding is her flippant disregard for the Faith. The High Septon himself vocally objects to her living as Lyonel’s paramour, presumably becoming more and more incensed with each new illegitimate child she gives Lyonel. We are told he rants and raves against the incestuous match... and nothing else. No word on the pious smallfolk of Oldtown or the Reach in general’s reaction to something the High Septon is personally upset at.
Compare this to earlier in Fire and Blood Volume One when the High Septon stirred the realm into rebellion over his niece being set aside for a “Whore of Harroway”. Are we expected to believe that in less than a century, the High Septon has lost any ability to sway the large congregation he has, given the majority of Westeros, barring the North and Iron Islands, looks to him as the head of their religion? One could argue the High Septon was less severe (considering his predecessor cried out against a man riding the largest dragon living), but even then, the audience is expected to believe that no one has anything negative to say regarding the match?
And some time in the thirteen years between Lady Samantha becoming Lyonel’s paramour and her becoming Lady Samantha Hightower for a second time, Lady Samantha Tarly apparently was forbidden from entering the Starry Sept and her solution was to ride in on a warhorse and hold the High Septon captive in the Starry Sept until he capitulated to her will.
Of all the logistic questions regarding the worldbuilding around this event, I’ll start with the question of how Lyonel and Samantha never felt the need to confront their friction with the Faith until it reached a boiling point. At no point did Lyonel and Samantha ever think to reconcile with the Faith to, at the very least, silence the High Septon railing against them? The High Septon commanding Samantha repent and take the vows of a silent sister seems like it came later in the timeline between Sam becoming Lyonel’s paramour and his wife.
It amazes me that Samantha, who had a clever sister she was in regular correspondence with, never thought to make a show of submission to the High Septon and play at being contrite in order to win a pardon for her marriage to Lyonel? She could have appealed to the High Septon immediately after taking Lyonel for a lover rather than letting the issue simply grow more and more tense. She could have made the argument her marriage to Ormund was unconsummated in the event there were no witnesses to affirm that it was. She could have appealed to her High Septon’s pity by playing the distressed widow seeking to ensure her security and deeply apologetic for her sinful behavior. She could have done a lot of things to win the High Septon to her side. But instead she apparently acted completely unapologetic and basically threatened the High Septon to bend to her will.
Imagine for a second if some random woman in the medieval period rode into the Vatican on a horse, held the Pope captive and commanded him to do whatever she wanted? Does GRRM really believe the audience will buy into Lady Samantha facing no repercussions as soon as she let the High Septon go? That she got to marry Lyonel and have a happily ever after? The whole arc for Samantha Tarly is simply rife with blatant disregard for established worldbuilding, and shows the severe flaws in some areas of GRRM’s worldbuilding that become glaring when in the right situation.