mountain dew sounds like something a gentle witch would feed to her pet field mice to bless them but in reality its like drinking battery acid

tumblr should have a feature where if you use words like “gaslighting” “dissociation” and “intrusive thoughts” in a post you have to take a quiz before you post it that proves that you actually know what they mean

me at my english teacher when they tell me i used a word incorrectly in an essay

In shitty but unsurprising news, men leaving their wives who have been diagnosed with cancer is 5x more common than women leaving their husbands who have been diagnosed with cancer.

where are you getting your stats? what source of information brought you to this conclusion? none I assume, but I would love for you to prove me wrong.

It’s literally a hyper link to the study

“Chamberlain and his team found that although overall divorce rates of couples with one seriously ill spouse were comparable to the general divorce rate in the US, there was a marked difference depending on which partner had received the diagnosis. In cases where the husband became seriously ill, divorce rates were actually far lower than average at three per cent. However, a staggering 21 per cent of wives who had been diagnosed with serious illness ended up separated or divorced within the same time frame.

In fact, Chamberlain’s study revealed that in ninety per cent of post-diagnosis divorce cases, the wife was the sick party. The researchers suggested that a possible explanation for this striking difference could be that men find it harder to take on a care-giving role.”

WHAT THE FUCK!?!? this is goddamn horrifying.

“Find it harder to take on a care-giving role.” 

Bullshit.

They don’t want the burden of a sick wife who won’t be taking care of them. Like good ‘ol “sanctity of marriage” Newt Gingrich divorcing his wife who developed cancer. 

I always want to point out that not abandoning your wife is the lowest possible bar, and husbands who don’t do it are unfortunately not necessarily supportive beyond this bare minimum—I once read a blog article by a guy who volunteered at a breast cancer resource centre (he was their first male volunteer, ever) and who wrote, about the boutique where the women tried on wigs:

I’m also reminded of that study on organ donation rates across Europe, that found that among married hetero couples, 36% of women who could donate a kidney to their husband did so, while only 6.5% of clinically suitable men donate a kidney to their wives.

When my cat wants to play but I’m on my terf blog

Just saw this post on my dash and because the person who made it blocked me. I’ll answer here.  Their post: “Literally never gonna forgot the trans man that gave a speech at a women’s college about how he doesn’t yet have male privilege while he was the student body president. So you know a man so happened to rise politically to president had nothing to do with gender.” In American, 4 trans people have been elected into office. 4/4 of them were trans women or non-binary DMAB people.  In the rest of the world, 19 trans people have been elected. 19/19 of them were DMAB.  Trans women elected to office: 23 Trans men: 0 No trans men have been elected. None. 

Update, as of March 2017:

Globally, there have been 4 trans men elected to public office

There have been 10x more trans women elected than trans men

Male privilege in action. Identity politics needs to stop denying this shit

“listen to trans people! unless they’re biologically female, then fuck those oppressive shitlords”

I love butch femme culture

I love dressing to the nines with my wife and stopping traffic downtown because people are open mouth starring at us. 

I love it when the waiter puts my gin cocktail in front of my femme wife and then puts her neat bourbon in front of me. I wink at the waiter and switch the drinks. 

I love being the only (young) couple who knows how to waltz at weddings. We put on a show. 

I love how she looks in a pencil skirt. She loves my tie collection. 

I love how she kisses me on the forehead while I’m fixing things around the house.

I love it when a man asks me a question about car mechanics and I refer the question to her, my car high femme. 

I love that she puts a happy note in my lunch every day. 

I love how she has my measurements memorized so she can buy me nice shirts when she goes thrifting. 

I love how she still gets excited when I buy her flowers. 

I love when she bakes brownies and she always sets aside two for me, her sugar butch. 

I love how she inspires straight women to ask for more and expect more from their husbands/boyfriends. 

I love being a chivalrous butch and worshiping her as my queen. 

I love subverting gender norms/expectations. Anyone who knows us knows she is the boss. 

Queen Larps, my eyes just laid on a very cursed image and I had to share. I’m half terrified, half amused.

[submisson]

idk what Nico Tortellini’s mental state is like but if Alok and Aja don’t engage in a 1v1 fecal throwdown I’ll be shocked

my respect for rupaul’s drag race just vanished

Trying to decide if I’m a man, flower man or wig man on the gender spectrum. 👀

the only three genders

i identify as aja, but only from the valentina rant

What is so nuts about identity politics is that the words you use to identify yourself don’t have to have anything to do with who and what you actually are. Case in point women who “identify” as lesbians who also are comfortable having sex with male genitalia. Instead of thinking “I am okay with both vaginas and penises in my sex life I must actually be bisexual, not lesbian;” they think “I’m a lesbian who likes penises as well as vaginas, therefore lesbians can also like penis.”

Identity politics is all about wanting to assume some attribute you think is cool and then just saying you are the thing you are not but wish you were. After that if anyone questions you do mental gymnastics so that stating a fact is an act of hate against the group you wish you were part of but are not but now pretend to be and sheesh why isnt that enough?

Identity politics is a disease

Terf with a vulva as her icon and a url with the words d*ke or pussy in it: Trans “women” are just men fetishizing womyn and lesbians! They’re the real vagina fetishists!

Celebrating parts of the femal body which have been shamed and deemed disgusting for centuries isn’t the same as fetishizing it

Terf who is butthurt after being called out: I, apparently, get to decide that only cis women’s vaginas have ever been shamed and deemed disgusting, even though that isn’t true.

@the-transdiscourse what does your reply mean? What isn’t true? That vaginas have been shamed and deemed disgusting?

“you dont HAVE to interact with their dick!! there are other positions :)” damn how dare a lesbian actively want pussy lmao. how dare she

people think women’s sexuality is passive. they think women’s sexuality is about what a woman can “tolerate” and “manage not to be repulsed by” whereas men’s sexuality is viewed as what the man seeks out directly, what he actively desires. it’s a tremendous shame. im a lesbian. i ACTIVELY want sexual interaction with adult female persons, women. it literally doesn’t matter IF i could “tolerate sex with a male body”. my sexuality isn’t about toleration. it’s about what i want. and i want women.

This seems super trans-exclusive

Dating and sex are exclusive depending on the person’s sexuality and tastes. Inclusivity is not something that translates to every facet of life. Your objection to these posts reveals a need to control women’s bodies and you should really think about your reaction to what you read.

Genuinely hope every single man who has ever even considered seeking out a prostituted woman drops dead

this shows so well the differences in upbringing between men and women, because i do not know a single woman who would even think about sleeping with someone/paying someone for sex who didn’t even want them

i know men who have payed for sex and it is genuinely such a bizarre concept. 😞

why is “lesbian icon” such a hard concept for y’all to grasp it is exactly the same thing as gay men stanning ariana grande or lady gaga……… like let lesbians have something without getting offended and trying to ruin it lol

Exposed misogynist.

some terf witches to block

priestesssappho

rebeliousglitter

paganterfs

treegoldandcloudlinings

vaginaworshiper

aphroditelovestwerfs

smolangrypunkwitch

virgogothgirlfriend

sapphicdea

artemis-arrows

boo-bitch-craft

radical-witchcraft

pinemaiden

feel free to add more terf/transphobic witches to this !

Blocked all of them!

Reblogging to add juniperdyke, found while searching the others

Next time @ your blocklists so people are easier to find please.

Reblogging for my goddess-worshipping/pagan terfs; plz @ all your fav witchy terf blogs, let’s grow n connect the magickal terf community! Viva la vulva!

@priestesssappho

@rebeliousglitter

@paganterfs

@treegoldandcloudlinings

@vaginaworshiper

@aphroditelovestwerfs

@smolangrypunkwitch

@virgogothgirlfriend

@sapphicdea

@artemis-arrows

@boo-bitch-craft

@radicalwitchcraft

@pinemaiden

@juniperdyke

i'm @pinemaiden and i feel honoured in this chili's tonight

people in leftbook groups when a tw is outed as a rapist or pedophile 

‘lesbophobic’ is actually a funny term because if you mean that as in “i hate gays and gay rights and hope lgbt+ people all die” then no, i’m really not

but if you mean ‘lesbophobic’ as in “i am instilled with deep fear at the sight of the word ‘lesbian’ after years of witnessing verbal and emotional abuse heaped on all my fellow queers by self-identified lesbians—some who fit the Trans-Exclusionary Radical Feminist label and some who didn’t fit it, but were simply unknowing yes-men to the culture and ideals TERFs sowed in the lesbian community” then yeah

i guess i am