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Between fact and fiction

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Thel: ♀, 28, bi | Mental health | Religion | 📚🪡🧩
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Hi, 🙋‍♀️

Welcome to my blog. It started out as a SKAM blog, but it sort of became a collective of all of my interests, hobby’s and favourites. 🥲

  • I’m bisexual and genderqueer
  • I love to read, cross stitch, solve puzzles + I watch TV
  • Currently watching lots of Asian dramas, listening to lots of Asian music, and more

Anyways, I love talking to people, so do not hesitate to get in touch. 😚

P.S.: The beautiful picture in the background is called “Walk down the Alley”, by Olha Darchuk. Find more info about it here:

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Heartbreak High, the reboot

While binging all of the seasons of OG Heartbreak High (don’t you just love the 90s? 🥹), I discovered there was a reboot of the show released in 2022. But to my utter astonishment, they decided to my men, former bad boy/ current best boii, Peter Rivers so dirty by remaking him into “an ex-racist, sexist, homophobic man, likely formerly transphobic too” (©️ fandom). What the hell were they thinking?! Admittedly, he was a douche, but then again this is the same dude who at some point was friends with Rose, Jack, and Chaka (🇱🇧🇻🇳🇸🇻 respectively); started a very groundbreaking albeit illicit relationship with his teacher (whatever happened to Sam anyway?!); and as far as I could see showed nothing but respect for his gay teacher (albeit with an attitude because he is…you know “Rivers” 🤷). Said teacher was the only queer character I could find up until Rivers’ departure, because well this was Australia in the 90s I suppose? But I can’t see how he would’ve acted any different to any other queer character, than with his typical attitude.

The thing I loved most about Rivers is that he is an incredibly complex character, with a lot of different layers of problems. A difficult relationship with his very problematic parents, a tendency towards overcompensating by acting all tough, and a real difficulty with seeking help. Not in the last place because he suffers from prejudice and stigma. Whenever something foul has been committed, the cops first look for him.

Admittedly, I haven’t watched the reboot yet. (I still have approximately four seasons of OG to go through. 🫣) But you’re seriously expecting me to believe that this multilayered character, the guy with so many different sides, this dude who when it mattered always was there to help his friends. HE is nothing but a recovering sexist racist homophobic piece of vermin?!

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Anonymous asked:

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAÀAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!

(since you said click to scream and this is mu entire thought process since the kiss 🤭)

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odi-et-amo85

An accurate depiction of my Dutch ass watching athletics tonight. 🥲

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bengiyo

P’Sarge,

You sound like a very wise person. Can you please explain to me what the idea behind Wedding Planner the series is? Because I for the life me couldn’t tell… 🧐

Thanks in advance. ✌️

Love,

— Thel. 💚

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🎶 For the life of me I cannot remember what made us think that we were wise and we'd never compromise. 🎶

Wedding Plan the series is the story about a man who knows he's going into a lavender marriage so that he and his best friend can appease their parents. Before they get married, the groom decides to pursue a wedding planner he noticed at his friends' wedding. Because he is rich and closeted, the world works differently for him, and so he creates a complicated scenario for him to have interactions with said wedding planner to give himself plausible deniability.

However, the wedding planner is a Known Gay who has no intention of becoming a homewrecker or jeopardizing his professional reputation by running off with the groom who hired him.

Complications ensue.

What's been fascinating for me is how seriously this show is taking the choice to have a closeted marriage as the bride already has a committed lesbian partner that is not necessarily having the best time in this closet. The show is also leaning hard on the tension of Namneua (the wedding planner) being out and beloved in a protective queer-friendly family where he has another out younger cousin.

Unfortunately for me and NiNi, we may have to talk about a MAME show.

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odi-et-amo85

This explains a lot, frankly.

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biochemjess

I give you Alice Oseman on why her queer content is inherently better (hint: it’s “pure” and, you know, Western).

And what the actual queer writers in Asia are saying…

And hat’s off to Jojo for pointing out that it’s good to have variety and there isn’t just one story to be told.

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odi-et-amo85

Sometimes I want a (boy-/girl-/gn-)friend and sometimes I just want the “benefits.” 🤷

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NO FUCKING WAY???

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kleefkruid

Mark Rutte waving at everyone, leaving around the corner only to quickly put on a fake mustache and a nametag that says Ruud Markette and crawling back trough a tiny window in the back.

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en-theos

je zit er niet eens heel ver naast, hij as zogezegd een baan bij de EU aangeboden

BRUSSEL??!! Ah nee hé

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odi-et-amo85

@kleefkruid I think I have good news for you:

Exhibit 1:

Exhibit 2:

In English: our (🇳🇱 ) prime-minister has finally announced that he’ll no longer be re-electable and will leave politics altogether. 🥳 In the words of my brother, “I’ll believe when he leaves the little tower [the traditional offices of the prime-minister red.] with a filled moving box,” but it’s something right? 🥹

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