what a beautiful day to not be in high school
so many young lesbians date just to have a girlfriend because they think it’s their one ticket to happiness and it turns into toxic relationships based on shallow connections in which theyre shit talking their gf 24/7 but still posting 30 “i love my gf” posts a day on 3 separate social media sites because they think it’s what they’re supposed to do and it’s so sad
it’s okay to just be sometimes. you don’t have to force a relationship that isn’t meant to be just for appearances or social expectations
to add to this: even if you are in a healthy loving relationship you don’t have to post everything you do. i see young lesbians (and did this myself) feeling like they have to compulsively share every part of their relationship because they are so excited and are feeling so much but i just want all young lesbians to know keeping private intimate moments and even cute silly moments between you and your gf can be so much more rewarding and healthy.
the pressure to turn your relationship into a performance in lesbian circles can be overwhelming and honestly it cheapens a lot of romantic experiences
sometimes, when the future seems either too big or too small i listen to bands featuring members who’s lives i envy and somehow, it makes everything settle. and calm. like my future is going to be surrounded by me doing what i want and by people i want to be surrounded by. ♡
-Karolina and Nico having a tender moment-
Gert:
Nico: i’m a moronsexual, i’m only attracted to dumbasses. One time Karolina asked me what the wiccan word for wiccan was and now i dream of kissing her while she glows
Karolina: Hey, can you believe i’m an alien! who could’ve guessed
Nico, already taking her shirt off: You’re so fucking stupid
Ginny talking about Karolina and Nico’s relationship come season 2
i’ve been waiting 365 days to post this
HAPPY LAO BAN SANTA DAY
self care is putting yourself to bed on a regular schedule because it’s the base treatment for mood disorders
there’s no twist or anything it’s just really really good for u to sleep at consistent times
me reading this at 5am:
me, reading my own post at 5am:
what if we pronounced female like tamale
Before tumblr dies… anyone wanna admit they have a crush on me
before tumblr dies lmaooo
can i get uhhh some friends up in here please
sometimes,, that’s the way the cookie crumbles