Kanaya Maryam Canon Call

Hi, I’m Rose Lalonde and I miss my wife. Here is what I remember of her. She was taller than me, had short hair that I enjoyed playing with, smooth horns, pale grey skin, broad shoulders and basically no curves. She had a relatively deep voice too, it was nice. I was…kind of a disaster on the meteor, but I don’t recall how she reacted to that.

We ended up getting married, same as in canon, and we had an outdoors wedding which was stupidly bright and sunny. Everyone went trickster at our wedding but I don’t think it got too out of control. I may have gone trickster too, and I don’t remember if the trolls did. I think Jade did?

We lived with Dave, Karkat and sometimes Jade, even before we got married because Dave and I were really close and after the meteor the idea of living so far apart was weird.

We both worked in the brooding caverns most of the time. We were technically queens of the carapace kingdom (alongside Roxy & Calliope who we ended up really close to) but we didn’t really have a lot to actually do there. Dave and Karkat adopted two grubs, but after they died pretty early we ended up looking after them.

When I one day finally decided to play the rain, you came with me to LOLAR.

If any Kanaya kin out there remember any of this, please contact me here on this blog! If you’re not a Kanaya, it’s totally ok (and preferable) for you to reblog this to signal boost.

first drawing of the year!! drew the golden hyung this time ~

“Dad builds Ninja Warrior course for his daughter”

ANW is one of my fav shows. That dad is cool af. That little girl is boss af. Congrats all the way around!!

Go baby girl!!!💥

all her dolls and animals in the stands :)))))

Looks like great fun, get her in to athletics and it doesn’t look too dangerous!

What a good dad! <3

I called the Trans Lifeline today.

I was having some issues with my parents, mostly my dad, and once they left the house, I grabbed the phone. The first time I called, no one answered. A robotic voice said something along the lines of “We’re sorry, no one is able to talk to you right now. Please try again later.” So I did. 10 minutes of petting my cat later, I tried again. I was met with someone who said ‘Welcome to the trans lifeline. How may I help you?’ and little me just went “….Hi. I’ve never done this before..” and they laughed and told me what the do- they’re a group of transgender people who will happily help any transgender person who calls. Its for crisis’s or just any issues. They will offer resources and will only call authorities if you give them permission. I introduced myself- my age, name and pronouns/identity. The man introduced himself at Jim (Or John, the connection was kind of bad), he was also transgender male, and we talked for a bit. I told him about my family and experiences, and he was very helpful. He gave me a few numbers in my state that are helpful for me, and I almost cried. We talked for about 20 minutes before my parents got home. I panicked and was like ‘Hnghn my parents are home I really need to go.” and he was like “Okay, Alex. Call back if you need to, I hope this was helpful.” He was totally used to people needed to go quickly, and I felt so much better. 

Trans Lifeline -  877-565-8860

I highly suggest calling this number if you need someone to talk to. It helped more than I thought it would.

when you’ve been around straight people for too long and you need some gayness

He’s radiant and deserves to be addressed with the proper pronouns

Who?

The trans guy reading this

and I feel unconditional love and affection for hoseok in this Chili’s tonight

First of all:

see honestly i am the easiest person to impress because literally no one has ever really bought me flowers or taken me dancing or on a picnic or any of that romantic junk and i would just melt at any of it

tru

— IAIN S. THOMAS

Hey! Instead of supporting these rlly bad ppl who can bring harm to autistic people (will link proof below)! 

How about you buy autistic friendly clothes n stuff that can do u no harm from an actual autistic persons store @elsinore-snores !

Store Link

Proof of the gps on their FAQ

Hey signal boost!!!!

hey it’d mean a lot to me if yall’d reblog this since as an autistic person this is really fucking disgusting we are not fuckin dogs to be microchipped wtf???? this only allows autistic people to be abused even easier than before im sure non-autistic people can rb this for their autistic followers??

parents need to realize their children aren’t free therapists

also it isn’t mean for children to not want to be put in this position

It took me some 25 years until a therapist made me understand that. You’re not responsible for your parents’ emotional growth, you are not their therapist. You aren’t even their friend - friendship is a relationship of equals, and that won’t ever be the case between parent and child. You can get along well, you can be very close, but you’re still parent and child.  It’s sad because many women are lonely their whole lives and have this often subconscious belief that having a child will mend that loneliness, will give them a best friend who will always be there for them. It breaks my heart, but being my mother’s bestie is still not my obligation. It’s not even within my capacity. They need people their own age, with similar experiences, with equal power balance, to build a support system.  Many of us want to “fix” our parents’ woes but the fact is that we can’t. Support them by suggesting therapy, by being there for them as their child, not their friend. Boundaries help everyone. 

This speaks to me lately bc my parents are getting ready to split up & they both need therapy af

New punches are being thrown in my favorite Artist Bitchfight