having a rough night like *points at mental illnesses* OKAY, WHICH ONE OF YOU IS DOING THIS

Pretty much every personality disorder has a concept of "person who you have a unique relationship with in regards to your personality disorder symptoms". My theory is that the experience of that special person concept is spilt into two distinctive camps.

The first being that the relationship exaggerates the PD symptoms, BPD and DPD being in this camp.

The second being that the relationship relieves the PD symptoms, ASPD and SzPD being in this camp.

Personality disorder havers let me know what camp your personality disorder experiences or if you disagree with me.

pre-sex prep 👅

-do a hot oil treatment so your hair will be soft. mix equal parts of olive and avocado oil and warm it up in the microwave for about 30 seconds (check on it every 10 seconds though, you don’t want it to get too hot and burn you) put this on your hair and cover it with a shower cap (i use ones from the dollar store)

-run a bath, and add about a cup of milk (you can use regular,powdered, or almond) and oatmeal or oat flour. this will soften the hell out your skin. sit in here for about 30 minutes. then drain the tub and run a shower.

-use a good smelling conditioner. use whatever shampoo you want, but make sure your conditioner smells delicious,bc your hair will smell so good.

-never put soap in your vagina. like ever. use an unscented soap on the outer lips, and use water for everything else. 

-use some exfoliating gloves, and focus on any rough patches of skin you have. especially exfoliate where ever you plan on shaving.

-if you’re going to shave, use a cheap dollar store conditioner or olive oil. after you’re done shaving,use cold water on any places you’ve shaved.

-once you’re out the shower, use shea butter or some other thick unscented lotion, and then scented lotion on top of that. this way your skin will be soft AND smell good.

-if you plan on makeup,make sure your mascara is waterproof,that your lipstick wont budge (try beauty bakerie’s lipsticks!) and try smokier, more sultry eye shadow, and for the love of everything use a damn setting spray!

-i find that ponytails r good for really rough sex bc your hair doesn’t get everywhere and it can also be pulled easily ;) but having your hair down is good for rly sensual sex.

-u can find cheap lingerie on ebay & amazon.

-avoid super strong perfumes. instead put a scented oil in between your thighs and behind your ear. you can find scented fragrance oil on amazon. (you can dilute it in some coconut oil if it isn’t already pre-diluted) vanilla,rose,jasmine and lavender are all good options.

-be sure to drink lots of water and/or cranberry juice beforehand if u plan on receiving oral sex. avoid fish,garlic,red meat,dairy and anything else smelly.

-getting rawed is great but if u and ur partner haven’t been tested wear protection pls. bring your own protection always, be safe.

-look at my overnight hoe bag essentials list if you plan on staying at their house overnight!

Creating a Day Worth Living

1. Get up early

2. Develop an attitude of gratitude

3. Invest in what matters

4. Have fun

5. Do something for others

6. Get out in the sun

7. Exercise – at least a little

8. Try something new

9. Don’t be afraid to take chances

10. Look for the humor in life.

There is no such thing as “normal”. People just surround themselves with other people who are similar to themselves to make themselves feel normal.

MBTI types as creepy aesthetics

ENFJ: Your average suburban, middle-class American town, except everything is a little bit… off. All the houses look exactly the same. Everyone knows each other too well. Occasionally you’ll overhear a child whispering something, or starting to cry, only for their parents to threaten something horrible and then act like everything’s fine. And the smiles… everyone is always smiling.

ENFP: One day, you decide to stay for a while after church. You stay for 30 minutes. An hour. People are still talking. Eventually, they say it’s time. You follow them into the heart of the building, into a secret passageway, down, down. You arrive in a massive cavern. In the center is a statue of a heart, bright red and beating realistically. The people turn to you. “You’re new here,” they say as they drag you toward the statue.

ENTJ: A clean, white room filled with medical equipment. The equipment is by no means dirty, but it doesn’t seem normal either. You look down and realize you’re in a straitjacket. A man is standing above you, writing notes and talking to his colleagues using terms you don’t understand. He pulls out a large needle and forcefully injects its contents into you. The last thing you see is him bringing something sharp to your limbs and beginning to saw.

ENTP: If you take your bike a little outside the city at a certain time of year, you’ll arrive at a strange land surrounded by fences. Hop the fence and walk through the dust and you’ll see the remains of a carnival. Everything is rusted and still; a reminder of the fun that was once had. You’ve never been here before, but you already miss it. You want to stay here. And the longer you look, the less abandoned the place seems.

ESFJ: She has the most beautiful voice. It sounds like crystals and feathers and pure light. You were granted the privilege of seeing her in person. You put on your best clothing and prepare to meet her. She is not a person at all, but a crystal angel. But through the clear crystal of her body, you see something. Inside her is a screaming child, screaming into a twisted mechanical tube, and out of the tube comes the beautiful song.

ESFP: You’re in the sky. A synthesized voice tells you everything is alright. You’re trying to remember what your life was like before, but you have no clue. You don’t even know which way is down. The sun is too bright and there isn’t a cloud in sight.

ESTJ: A basement that smells of potpourri. Other than a weird-looking clown doll, nothing here is actually creepy. But you’re on edge nevertheless. You feel like the door will suddenly lock, or someone will appear behind you. Every little thing makes you jump. But it’s just you, the doll, and that sickly floral scent.

ESTP: A glowing, labyrinth-like building. It’s dark, and you can hardly see your hands, yet the objects around you continue to glow. Loud yet muffled music is blaring from somewhere. You feel like a rat in a maze. Something big is chasing you.

INFJ: Everyone’s seen it. Everyone’s talking about it. You don’t know what they’re going on about. It doesn’t really interest you. One of your friends dragged you out to see it, but you got bored and left. It’s kind of unnerving how everyone seems to think it’s the best thing ever. Suddenly you receive a letter from the government. It says you have to see it.

INFP: A forest where the pines whisper to each other and the crows see all. Things lurk beneath the waters, causing those who have done harm to quietly disappear. How much blood has been spilled on these lands?

INTJ: Bodies, hearts, souls trapped inside cold, hard hunks of metal. To simply turn one’s head is agonizing. To talk it takes everything in you, and yet all that comes out is a wavering electronic tone vaguely resembling a voice. Very few dare enter the room that mechanical souls are kept in.

INTP: A buzzing from the sky that gradually becomes a roar as planes and blimps gather above the city. They drop down large balloons with unknown contents inside. The sun is bright and the air smells of chemicals… and bombs.

ISFJ: Welcome, dear, to Grandmother’s Cottage. Would you like some tea? I’ll get you some tea. What are you looking at, dear? Oh, don’t mind those mysterious red stains on my handmade dresses. I think it is time to invite my friends, the Masked Children. Don’t they look adorable in those animal masks? You should try one on. I’m sure it would look great on you…

ISFP: Vintage advertisements with hyper-realistic drawings of children on them. You can hear a baby crying in the distance, but you don’t know where it’s coming from. Rotting mystery meat is the center dish of today’s meal, and everyone is surrounding you with toothy grins. Go on, take a bite…

ISTJ: The cube is the only thing you can focus on. It’s not normally visible unless you relax your eyes or squint a bit - then you can see the outline of, well, a cube. It’s floating. What is it made of? It never stays long enough for you to find out. Nothing seems more interesting than that cube. The cube is your life now.

ISTP: Driving down the road at night. It’s pitch black and you can barely see a thing, save for the reflective signs and occasional headlight from a passing car. Sometimes you think you see creatures in the corner of your vision, but it’s too dark to tell and you’re going too fast. You can’t slow down. It’s following you. It’s been following you for hours. What will happen when you run out of gas?

becoming an adult cheat sheet!!!

There are people with a memory of you that you’ve forgotten.

There will never be true equality until women can have functional pockets and men can have handbags

There will never be true equality until women can have functional pockets and men can have handbags

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