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Lisi & Gabriel s plea to Break Ayed Al-Qarni

Lizzie, the mother of a young man Gabriel Ben Brik-Qarni. Gabriel aged 26 years and spent 25 years of age without any contact or communication with the mother of BRIC Ben Ayed bin Hanash al-Qarni, looking for communication with the readers to reach him and tell him that the daughter of a friendly ask him looking for answers to the mother. 
story Lizzie: 
Break Ben Ayed Bin Hanash al-Qarni, attended the University of Temple in the state of Pennsylvania Philadelphia as a student majoring in legal justice from 1981 to 1986 and graduated with a bachelor’s degree in May 1986. 
’re told 16 years old when I met in the BRIC Ben Ayed Al-Qarni for the first time and that was in the summer of 1981 was a few months before I turned 17 years of age. My girlfriend and I Alesca that inhabit the same neighborhood, home to Break introduced me to him. He loved that everyone call him as Beric to facilitate the pronunciation of the name. The driver, whose license bearing the name Beric Ayed Karni At that time, the United States allows foreign students to change their names to facilitate say the name is not allowed now for security reasons. 
began Bmedth, and we spent a lot of time with family and friends, especially in the holidays, a year after graduating from high school studied Undergraduate and then asked me to turn to housing him in the spring and summer of the years from 1981 to 1984 was going to visit his family in Saudi Arabia, I’m not sure if he actually did so because he did not allow me to go with him to the airport to see him off did not communicate with me never during his stay in Saudi Arabia. And also did not bring me a gift only once for me and my family, I was vague and perhaps married in Saudi Arabia in one of these trips. I was very naive and had to instill fear in myself physically abuse me. Was jealous too did not want me to communicate with his friends, however, we sometimes we visited two close friends to him and who were also from Saudi Arabia or they come to our apartment for dinner, I decided several times legacy and go back to the home of my family, but it was seen me regret and was apologizing to me and says he still loves me. 
anger BRIC much when he learned that I was pregnant and asked me to aborted pregnancy, I did not convinced abortion so as to embrace a certain religious as a Christian but at the time I did not devout lot, but you know what mentioned in the Bible that link outside within marriage is a sin …. My son was born Gabriel Ben Brik-Qarni on May 13, 1985. After several months of the birth of my son persuaded Break, but it was not the case in reality …. I have coached our son to walk before completing the first general. Expired visa given to him by the U.S. government as a student in May 1986 and before returning to Saudi Arabia one day highest son Abdullah and he promised me to help me financially in the education of my son and help me pay expenses of education, and also asked me to communicate with him if he wanted our son any needs of any kind Kalotama or special needs of these promises was a pack of lies!!! 
The give me a phone number status in Saudi Arabia and taught me how do I contact in Saudi Arabia and students in Arabic, after several days decided to contact him, after contacting response to man and pretended not understand what I say and then Talpet him to deliver a phone to Break to talk with him about our son Gabriel, but it shouted at me, saying, in English builder Break Matt Matt Matt and close the phone. I have no doubt that the man who spoke to me was the BRIC but he was telling me as someone else. 
completely destroyed my life. I am having financial problems relied on government assistance (welfare) for food and cash assistance to this were not enough to pay utility bills and rent the apartment and then the owner of the apartment change closure for not being able to pay and then became homeless I and my son, but thank God I had a good friend (an old woman ) took us to have that and Jeddah apartment cheaper. 
lost everything, bed my son and his food and حليبه headgear that he had donated to him the mother and lost all the photos I took and I Brik throughout the years that we have lived together and images that Altqtnaha together to our son and pictures leave that we spent together in Washington and Orlando Disneyland also lost phone number to communicate with BRIC. I’ve been through a lot of suffering and pain for many years to confront the fact that BRIC abandoned and the return of a daughter has been suffering what I went through profound what he has done in me and my son. 
has you locked always that what he had done was planned from the beginning that does not have any communication with me or with daughter , and I do not wish for any woman to fight the same experience and the pain I went through. Therefore I would like to warn strongly women that do not communicate or fall into the online dating with any Saudi man because they think only their education and return to work in Saudi Arabia, I would recommend it only if this man really would like to link in the marriage relationship official and Ikdmk to his family as a wife! If my evil and Oukotai in a relationship with someone Fastamla prevention to avoid pregnancy him or reproduction, it is unfair for a child to live without the father, and remember always that “falling in love with someone who is not painful, but painful actually is dangling person wrong,” the real man is Ihmiki always and not treat confidentially or in secret and would tell the whole world that you are present in his life, regardless of the point of view of his family!!! That does not apply to men Saudis only, but all men Valse exists in every country and also good in each country, when someone tells that loves make sure that there is evidence of this love. 
Ante important, what happened to me happened to the absence of guidance from my mother cautious relationships with men so that was kind of talk is forbidden to talk socially acceptable, but I do not blame the mother in that they lived in a deprived environment. I come from a poor environment and my parents from Botoriko part of the United States, so it was our culture is different from American culture since many years but now changed those habits and become families Latin openness more and help their children in making the right decisions. 
unfortunately, you are a minor by then became a victim for those lies, did not tell the BRIC family never about me or our relationship and when she gave birth to my son told me that he could not News his family so they would kill him that they knew so by virtue of Islamic law but also told me that he would support this as long as the son of his family does not know about it. I never tried to communicate with the Embassy of Saudi Arabia in this regard to my fear of it and also because of financial problems. Now age my son 26 years and since he was a teenager was marveled always than his father, and since then, my son lives مجروحا emotionally and morally and angry always that the mother did not even try to communicate with him or search for him but now he wants to search for the mother and communicate with him.

English Translation

Meet Lisi, she is mother to Gabriel Break Al-Qarni. Gabriel is 26 years old and has spent the last 25 years of his life without any communication from his father Break Ben Ayed Bin Hanash Al-Qarni.I ask the readers help in getting the post spread to Break Ben Ayed Bin Hanash Al-Qarni and let him know his adult son has some questions to ask of his father.

Lisi’s Story.

Break Ben Ayed Bin Hanash Al-Qarni attended Temple University School of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania on a student visa from 1981 through 1986 and graduated in May 1986 with Bachelor’s degree in Criminal Justice Legal studies.
I was 16 years old when I met Break Ayed Al-Qarni Hanash in the summer of 1981 a couple of months before my 17th birthday. My friend Waleska who lived in the same neighborhood introduced me to Berik. He wanted everyone to call him Berik for it was much easier to pronounce his name and on his driver’s license the name shown was Berik Ayed Al-Kerni for at that time the US recommended for any student’s that came from another country to change their name that was difficult to pronounce in a american version but no longer US required to change the names due to Homeland Security purposes …
 Well, I started dating Berik and we spent a lot of time together with friends and family, especially on the holidays. A year after I graduated from High School, I attended college and he asked me to move in with him. During spring break and summer of 1981 through 1984 he went to visit his family in Saudi Arabia, not sure if he actually made these trips to Saudi Arabia for he never asked me to accompany him to the airport and he never called me during his stay in Saudi Arabia. Also, he only brought gifts one time for me and my family. He was very secretive. Perhaps, during one of these trips he married.
  I was very naive and he instilled fear in me by physically abusing me. He was a very jealous man, he never wanted for me to have any connection with his friends. However, occasionally we would visit his two close friends who were also from Saudi Arabia or they came to our apartment for dinner. A couple of times I decided to leave him and I returned home to my family but he always looked for me and say that he was sorry for the way he treated me and that he still loved me.
 Break was very upset when he found out that I was pregnant and he wanted me to get an abortion. I did not believe in abortion because of my Christian beliefs but at that time I did not live a christian life for the Bible says it is a sin to have a relationship with a man without being married ….. I had my son Gabriel Break Al -Qarni on May 13, 1985. | After a couple of months later after my son’s birth, Break finally accepted his son but in reality he did not …… He also trained our son to walk before Gabriel 1st birthday. His student visa expired in May of 1986 and a day before his return to Saudi Arabia, he named our son Abdullah and then he promised to provide financial support and to pay for my son’s college education. Also, he stated for me to call him whenever my son needed food and diapers and etc …. which it was a bunch of lies!!!!
Then he provided his Saudi Arabia home contact number and showed me how to ask for him in the Arabic language. After a couple of days I decided to call him and a man answered the phone, he was acting like he did not understand what I was saying, then I repeatedly asked to speak with Berik in regards to our son, Gabriel Break Al-Qarni and then he yelled at me in english and said, “He is dead! He is dead! He is dead! and closed the phone. I have no doubts that it was him and acted like someone else. My life was totally ruined. I was having financial problems and I depended on the government (welfare) for food and cash assistance for it was not enough to pay for apartment and utility bills. Then the landlord decided to changed the locks for I couldn’t pay rent, then me and my son were homeless, but thank God, a good friend (older woman) took us in until I found a cheaper apartment. I lost everything, my son’s crib, diapers, milk, food, our clothes, the turban that Berik gave to Gabriel including all of our pictures that Berik and me took over the years and my son’s baby pictures, vacation photos of Washington, DC and Orlando Disney photos and Berik contact phone number. I experienced a lot of pain and suffering for many years due to the fact that Berik did not live up to his promises to his son. It was so cruel and heartless for what he did to me and my son.
I always believed that he was alive and that he planned it from the very start to never have any contact with me or his son. I don’t wish for any women to go through this type of experience. Therefore, I strongly warn women not to date or live with these Saudi Arabia men for in their mind is to study and have a career in Saudi Arabia, unless he really want’s to marry you and he introduced you to his family! Or if it’s not serious do not have any intimate relationship and if you do ….. Use Protection! It’s not fair to the child to be fatherless. Just keep in mind "Loving a person doesn’t hurt but loving the wrong person does” A real man will protect you and no matter what he will not keep you in secret. He will tell the whole world that he has you in his life no matter what and it includes his family!!!! It’s not just Saudi men but all men, their is good and bad from any country they come from. If a man says he loves you and make sure there is proof.
Learn to have high standards of yourself. You are important! What happened to me was that I was not instructed by my mother to be careful of men for it was a “taboo” to speak of such things with their children but I don’t blame my mother for it was the way she was raised. I came from a poor background and my parents are from Puerto Rico which is part of the United States, however our culture was different from the Americans many years ago. But now, the latin families are becoming more openly with their children and teaching them to make the right choices.
Unfortunately, I was a minor at that time and I became a victim of his lies. Berik never told his family about me. After I had my son he stated he cannot tell his family for they will kill him because of the Sharia ‘Law but he said he will support his son as long they don’t about Gabriel. I never attempted to go to the Saudi Arabia Embassy after Break left out of fear and for financial reasons. Now my son is 26 years old, since his teenage years he wondered about his father.Through out the years my son was and still is emotionally hurt and angry that his father never attempted to search for him but now he wants to see his father.

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(Source: saudichildrenleftbehind.com)